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Hormonal Contraception: The Pill [General Discussion]

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darkcobra40 darkcobra40 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Oct 2008
#881 ·
Hey everyone, is it actually possible that Diane-35 is the reason I can’t reach orgasm?? Does this happen to any of you? Because looking back, everything was working perfectly before I started taking these. Now, since I've been on them, my libido has taken a massive hit and getting to that finish line feels impossible. Honestly, I’m losing my mind over this, and my boyfriend is just as frustrated. I have no clue what the root cause is, so please, tell me if it’s just these pills being the culprit...
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Oct 2008
#882 ·
Yeah, it’s definitely because of the pills.
Take a break for maybe a month or two—you'll see the difference immediately—and honestly, you'd be doing your body a massive favor too.
No matter what they claim about how Yasmine has the lowest hormone dose or how much "safer" they've become... I mean, we could go back and forth on that all day... just like my new guy, Giniy, says.

Hormones just tank your libido or kill it entirely!

Clearly, you haven't been on them long enough—honestly, just think about quitting them for good...

That's my advice.
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
7 messages
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#883 ·
Timothy Rogers4 said:Just one question here:
A friend of mine had a dermatologist recommend Diane 35, but when she finally got her test results back and went in to review everything, the doctor just said, "I've actually never prescribed these pills to anyone before, but I suppose I could for you..." 😲
Can you believe that? She basically admitted she’d never even given them to a patient.
I should probably mention that the doctor is over 45... and by that, I mean her age, of course.

I'm wondering, is that kind of response even remotely normal, and should I really be questioning the doctor's expertise at this point?šŸ˜•

Man, finding a decent gynecologist around here is like trying to find a needle in a haystack—actually, scratch that, it’s harder than finding a parking spot in downtown Manhattan on a Saturday night. It's just ridiculously tough. You go in expecting someone who actually listens, maybe even someone who doesn't look at their watch every five minutes, but instead, you get doctors who treat you like just another number on a clipboard. It’s exhausting, honestly.

Pharmacists just lazily transcribe pill recipes—and it’s not just happening at those local corner drugstores, either. They aren't exactly experts on the nuances, and honestly? Most of them aren't even motivated to get it right.

You think some pharmacist behind a counter knows everything? Please—give me a break. They can’t just look at a prescription and tell you exactly what's best for your specific life—they don't know you, they don't know your history, and they certainly aren't making those calls for you. It’s not that simple.
Forget about him for now—seriously, just let it go.

Seriously, why aren't you people putting some actual pressure on your gynecologists? It’s not like they’re doing you any favors by keeping you in the dark—you have every damn right to know exactly what’s going on with your own body. Knowledge is power, period. Don't just sit there nodding along while they use medical jargon to gloss over the details. Demand answers. Get the full picture. You’re the one living with it, so you should be the one calling the shots.

Look, the bottom line is this—you absolutely need those blood work results in hand first. It’s not just some suggestion, it's the whole foundation. Then, she needs to be sitting down, face-to-face, hashing it all out with her gynecologist. At the end of the day, she's the one making the call on the hormonal stuff—it's her body, her choice, and her responsibility to weigh those options once the data is actually on the table.
Look, there’s a reason why Diane35 never said a damn word about this... let's just say she knows better. If your friend asks you again what you think about the whole situation—and honestly, they probably will—you tell them exactly why she stayed quiet. It wasn't an accident.

Look, if you’re out there hunting for advice on birth control, you can either spend your life scrolling through endless, soul-sucking threads on some random forum—which, let's be honest, is usually just a mess of conflicting opinions and bad vibes—or you can actually get smart about it. Seriously, just hit the web and find some real info. And for heaven's sake, if you're even thinking about starting Diane-35, please—just please—do your homework before you pop that first pill. You don't want to be playing catch-up with your own hormones.
Look, that’s just—it’s huge. Seriously. It’s absolutely critical.
Look, at the end of the day—and I mean really, truly at the end of it—your friend has to make a call. She’s gotta decide what she’s actually going to take. It’s her choice, plain and simple. No sense in hovering or overthinking it for her—she needs to sit down, look at the options, and just pick one. It's that simple, really.

Look, let’s be real—not every kind of hormonal rollercoaster works the same way for everyone. We aren't some cookie-cutter demographic—we're all built differently, you know? It’s just one of those things.
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
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#884 ·
Drew Gonzalez75 said:I agree with you on everything, except for that bolded part. Everywhere I read, it says an IUD isn't recommended for women who haven't had children?šŸ˜•

Yeah, well—I didn't say which one it was.

Listen, if you’re looking up "gynefix," you’re probably dealing with some serious pelvic floor drama—and let me tell you, there’s nothing quite like that specific brand of physical frustration to make you want to throw the whole universe out the window. It's one of those medical things designed to fix prolapse, basically trying to anchor everything back where it belongs using these little synthetic tapes. Sounds straightforward on paper, right? Like fixing a loose hem on a pair of jeans—except it's your internal anatomy and the stakes are significantly higher than a wardrobe malfunction. Now, look—doctors will give you the polished, clinical pitch about how it’s a "minimally invasive" solution, but anyone who’s actually navigated the US healthcare system knows that "minimally invasive" is often just code for "you're still going to be sore and annoyed for a while." It’s a surgical procedure, plain and simple. You’re talking about mesh being used to provide support, and honestly, the whole conversation around mesh in this country has been a total rollercoaster of controversy and lawsuits. It’s enough to make you wary. I’m not a doctor—clearly, I’m just someone sitting here typing away—but I do know that everyone’s body reacts differently. One person gets the procedure and feels like a superhero again, while another might end up dealing with discomfort or complications that nobody warned them about during that initial, overly optimistic consultation. If you're weighing this option, don't just take the surgeon's word for it because they have a shiny diploma. Ask the hard questions—the ones about long-term durability, the actual risk of mesh erosion (since that's a huge topic in the States), and what the recovery timeline *really* looks like when you aren't being watched by a professional. It's your body, after all—not some experimental lab project. Just stay sharp and do your homework before committing to anything. Non-hormonal spirals—you know, those things they keep pushing on pregnant women—are honestly such a joke. It’s just another thing to add to the endless list of "recommendations" that feel more like mandates sometimes. Honestly, I can't with these medical trends.
I'm not entirely sure—honestly, I don't think they really bother with that here in the States. As far as I know, people around here don't know much about her. Or do they?

I honestly had zero luck because that thing just wouldn't sit right—my OBGYN tried adjusting it a few times and just couldn't get it to work, so I ended up just grabbing a standard T-shaped one instead. It’s supposed to be just as good for postpartum recovery, at least according to what he tells me.

Look, I’m gonna be straight with you—it sucked way more than they led me to believe. They kept telling me it was some quick, five-minute little procedure—you know, the usual "in and out" routine hospitals love to pitch—but honestly? It took way longer than that. Much longer.

And that was my final call—because honestly, I’m done. I never want to touch another pill again for as long as I live.

I don't even know why I bother typing anymore—just feels like shouting into a void sometimes, you know? Anyway, whatever. Catch ya later.šŸ‘
Drew Gonzalez75 Drew Gonzalez75 Active Member
64 messages
joined Sep 2008
#885 ·
rustyowl63 said:Yeah, well—I didn't say which one it was.

Listen, if you’re looking up "gynefix," you’re probably dealing with some serious pelvic floor drama—and let me tell you, there’s nothing quite like that specific brand of physical frustration to make you want to throw the whole universe out the window. It's one of those medical things designed to fix prolapse, basically trying to anchor everything back where it belongs using these little synthetic tapes. Sounds straightforward on paper, right? Like fixing a loose hem on a pair of jeans—except it's your internal anatomy and the stakes are significantly higher than a wardrobe malfunction. Now, look—doctors will give you the polished, clinical pitch about how it’s a "minimally invasive" solution, but anyone who’s actually navigated the US healthcare system knows that "minimally invasive" is often just code for "you're still going to be sore and annoyed for a while." It’s a surgical procedure, plain and simple. You’re talking about mesh being used to provide support, and honestly, the whole conversation around mesh in this country has been a total rollercoaster of controversy and lawsuits. It’s enough to make you wary. I’m not a doctor—clearly, I’m just someone sitting here typing away—but I do know that everyone’s body reacts differently. One person gets the procedure and feels like a superhero again, while another might end up dealing with discomfort or complications that nobody warned them about during that initial, overly optimistic consultation. If you're weighing this option, don't just take the surgeon's word for it because they have a shiny diploma. Ask the hard questions—the ones about long-term durability, the actual risk of mesh erosion (since that's a huge topic in the States), and what the recovery timeline *really* looks like when you aren't being watched by a professional. It's your body, after all—not some experimental lab project. Just stay sharp and do your homework before committing to anything. Non-hormonal spirals—you know, those things they keep pushing on pregnant women—are honestly such a joke. It’s just another thing to add to the endless list of "recommendations" that feel more like mandates sometimes. Honestly, I can't with these medical trends.
I'm not entirely sure—honestly, I don't think they really bother with that here in the States. As far as I know, people around here don't know much about her. Or do they?

I honestly had zero luck because that thing just wouldn't sit right—my OBGYN tried adjusting it a few times and just couldn't get it to work, so I ended up just grabbing a standard T-shaped one instead. It’s supposed to be just as good for postpartum recovery, at least according to what he tells me.

Look, I’m gonna be straight with you—it sucked way more than they led me to believe. They kept telling me it was some quick, five-minute little procedure—you know, the usual "in and out" routine hospitals love to pitch—but honestly? It took way longer than that. Much longer.

And that was my final call—because honestly, I’m done. I never want to touch another pill again for as long as I live.

I don't even know why I bother typing anymore—just feels like shouting into a void sometimes, you know? Anyway, whatever. Catch ya later.šŸ‘

So, that standard IUD you picked out—the one meant for women who haven't given birth—is it unavailable here in the US? Do you happen to know its exact name?
Thanks in advance. This is really important to me because I think I might decide to go that route too.šŸ™‚
darkcobra40 darkcobra40 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2008
#886 ·
I’ve been on birth control for almost two years now. To be honest, I’m still trying to wrap my head around it—my libido is still there, I want intimacy and everything that comes with it, but I just can’t seem to get myself worked up. It’s frustrating. And here’s the catch: if I stop taking them, pregnancy is back on the table, which isn't something I'm looking for right now. I’m currently on Diane-35, which is known for being pretty heavy on the hormones. Does anyone know if switching to a different brand might help? Like, what are my options?
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2008
#887 ·
Look, I’m just going to say it—because clearly, nobody else in this digital wasteland has the guts to—everything feels like a cheap imitation lately. It’s all surface, no substance, just a constant stream of noise designed to keep us scrolling while the actual quality of everything drops through the floor. Honestly? It’s exhausting. You try to find something genuine, something that doesn't feel like it was manufactured in a boardroom by people who haven't seen sunlight since the Bush administration, and you come up empty. Every single time. It’s the same old cycle—manufactured hype, followed by massive disappointment, and then we’re all expected to just shrug and move on to the next shiny object. Well, I’m not shrugging. I’m sitting here, watching the decline, and wondering when we collectively decided that "good enough" was actually acceptable. Spoiler alert: it isn't. kaže:
Man, I’ve been riding these pills for almost two years now... and honestly? My only thought is whether I can just swap them out for something else. Anything else. What are we even looking at here? Which ones actually work without making you feel like a zombie?

Look, I’ve been around for two years now—give or take—but even compared to Yasmine, you guys seem to have the absolute bare minimum when it comes to actually giving a damn about anyone else. I mean, if you're already itching to point fingers at other people, fine, go ahead, but don't act like you're doing anything meaningful.

Look, this is what the news is peddling right now regarding Yasmine and those girls' deaths—and honestly? It’s all being taken completely out of context. We're sitting here reading these headlines and just absorbing them without any critical thought, totally missing the actual reality of the situation. It's exhausting, really. That’s just my take on it—take it or leave it.

Look, it’s already written right there on the tablet packaging—the side effects are listed for a reason. Seriously, before you go making any sudden moves toward switching to those new tablets, you absolutely have to check in with your doctor first. Just don't wing it.

Look, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again—women react to these pills differently. It’s not some one-size-fits-all situation, you know? One day you take a dose and feel like a million bucks, the next—well, things are different. Honestly, at the end of the day, you just have to listen to your own body. There’s really no other way to play it.
Of course—not to mention all that searching for blood samples and whatever else they’re digging up... honestly, it’s just more of the same.

It’s funny—you know how some people swear by these things like they're magic bullets? Well, for me, it’s pretty much the same story every single time. It doesn't cause massive, life-altering shifts for everyone—some folks might just end up with a bit of a headache or feel slightly nauseous, which is a total drag—but there is one universal constant across the board. Across the entire spectrum of how people react, the libido just... tanks. It’s like the drive just hits a wall and stays there. Every single time.

Look, I really want to make it clear—and I mean crystal clear—that when those girls were dealing with their issues while on the medication, none of that was actually tied back to Yasmine. It wasn't her fault, period. And honestly? I feel terrible about how everything went down... it’s just a damn shame.

Get away from smoking—seriously, highly recommended! ...and yeah, maybe cut back on the booze too, especially when you're going hard on the weekends.😁So, you're actually starting to take these tablets? Honestly, I mean—wow. It’s about time, I guess. You can’t just sit there waiting for a miracle to drop out of the sky while you ignore the obvious stuff—it’s just common sense at this point. I know, I know, everyone loves to talk about "natural remedies" and all that nonsense, but sometimes you just have to face reality and follow the regimen. Just don't come crying to me when you realize how much of a grind the routine actually is—consistency is a beast, believe me.

I'm not even talking about—well, you know what I mean. It’s just one of those things where people get all worked up over nothing, and honestly, if I have to explain the obvious one more time, I might actually lose it. It's like everyone is walking around with their eyes shut, expecting a miracle when they haven't even put in the basic effort. Not that I'm complaining—heaven knows I've complained enough today—but it's exhausting watching the same patterns repeat itself day after day. Anyway, point being, it’s not even about that specific thing, it's about the whole ridiculous situation surrounding it. Just... ugh. Look, let’s be real for a second—there’s nothing quite like that feeling of being completely and utterly blindsided by absolute nonsense. You know the type. It’s that moment where everything you thought was solid just... dissolves. Total nonsense. Pure, unadulterated garbage. Honestly, it’s become kind of a lifestyle at this point, hasn't it? Just constant, rolling waves of absurdity hitting you left and right while you're just trying to grab a coffee and exist. It’s exhausting, really. But hey, what else is new? Don't even get me started on that—seriously, don't even bother thinking about it, because they’re basically walking cocktails of pure hormones!

...or just go ahead and switch to condoms—find the ones that actually work for you. Then you can get back to enjoying intimacy again without all the extra stress.šŸ˜

Here we go again—seriously, what’s the point of taking those pills just to get "protection" if you end up killing your entire libido in the process? Like, why bother? You trade your drive for some peace of mind, and suddenly you’re basically a zombie. It’s a ridiculous trade-off.
Honestly, just go ahead and use condoms—you might as well enjoy yourselves.
And let’s be real—I’m not even talking about that mythical 100% certainty, because let’s face it, you aren't getting that with any contraceptive method out there. None of them are perfect. Period.

I can't for the life of me remember the name of that scale used to measure how reliable different birth control methods actually are... starts with a P... whatever, I'll figure it out later.

Look, if you actually want an answer, you should probably go find some expert somewhere—you know, someone who actually knows their stuff—and have them run the numbers on a scale to see what’s actually safe. Just trust me on this one.
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
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#888 ·
Drew Gonzalez75 said:So, that standard IUD you picked out—the one meant for women who haven't given birth—is it unavailable here in the US? Do you happen to know its exact name?
Thanks in advance. This is really important to me because I think I might decide to go that route too.šŸ™‚

Unfortunately, I have no clue if they carry that specific model here in the US. You really need to hit up your gynecologist and be super blunt about it—ask them everything. Don't hold back.

All I’ve noticed is people in these threads talking about Mirena—that hormonal one—which, honestly, I wouldn't recommend to anyone, though I guess it's one of those "it depends on the person" things... I haven't tried it myself, so I can't give you a straight answer.

...so yeah, just do some digging, see what the landscape looks like here in America, and get all your questions answered. I'm currently over in Austria.

Look, I'm not a doctor or anything in the medical field—this is strictly just my own personal experience speaking.

Bye.
Kimberly Doyle97 Kimberly Doyle97 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2008
#889 ·
So, how do you actually switch from one pill to another? Like, is there supposed to be a gap or something? I’m definitely going to run this by my gynecologist, but I was curious what you guys think right now.
Nathan Roberts22 Nathan Roberts22 Newcomer
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joined Oct 2008
#890 ·
Hi everyone—I’ve been scrolling through all these posts, and honestly, seeing the sheer volume of side effects and complications listed here is quite something. If I were to add anything to the existing discussion, it would be this: we are all fundamentally different, and what works for one person might be a total disaster for another.
I actually have a question, though more than that, I’m looking for some outside perspective. I’ve been on Yasmin for about five months now. When the media frenzy surrounding it reached its peak, I decided to go to my gynecologist—purely as a preventative measure—and asked for a full screening to see where I stood. Since I was also dealing with a bit of a cold at the time, 😁 my lab results came back fine, with the sole exception of elevated triglycerides. My doctor told me I could safely continue with the pill. Personally, I haven't had any issues with Yasmin—no weight gain, no libido problems, and no mood swings—well, if I even have them, I wouldn't know (I suppose I'm naturally a bit neurotic anyway, so it's hard to tell 🄳). I originally started Yasmin for contraception, but it has also helped significantly with my cycle; I practically don't experience PMS anymore, and my periods are much less painful and lighter. Now, here is the part that has me feeling incredibly conflicted. My gynecologist suggested I stop taking Yasmin until we figure out whether the recent controversy is just a marketing ploy or if those yellow pills really are a global health concern. Instead, he prescribed Trinovum. This was my first time hearing of Trinovum, and from what I’ve gathered during my own research, it’s considered an older generation of medication. It involves a three-phase regimen without that standard week-long break, and I kept stumbling upon comments online asking, "Is anyone still prescribing that?" I even looked up the composition comparisons—Trinovum apparently has ten times more progesterone than something like Logest—and now I’m left wondering: is my doctor being a bit dim? If Yasmin hasn't caused me any harm, why on earth does he want to switch it, and why specifically Trinovum instead of something more modern? He’s an older gentleman, and his sister even mentioned that Trinovum is very common in their practice. To me, that sounds like he just prefers prescribing it to everyone. I’m curious to hear your thoughts because I have no interest in "shopping around" for different brands, but I am wondering if anyone here has actual experience with Trinovum? Should I be looking for a second opinion or changing doctors entirely? Maybe it sounds spoiled, but I’ve always believed that my doctor owes me his undivided attention and that I have every right to question his decisions. My sister keeps insisting that "all pills are basically the same," yet he is quite adamant about Trinovum. ā˜•
Sorry for the wall of text; all this conflicting information is genuinely confusing. šŸ™‚ I’m currently in my placebo week and should start my period this Thursday, so I need to decide on my next move. I don't feel like it's worth making a break from the pill for just one month. Also, one quick technical question: when switching to a new type of pill, do you start the new pack on the first day of your period, or on the eighth day when you would normally start the next pack?
Thanks in advance to anyone who cares enough to read this and provide some constructive feedback. šŸ™‚
Jack Hall7 Jack Hall7 Member
23 messages
joined Sep 2008
#891 ·
rustyowl63 said:
Look, I’m just going to say it—because clearly, nobody else in this digital wasteland has the guts to—everything feels like a cheap imitation lately. It’s all surface, no substance, just a constant stream of noise designed to keep us scrolling while the actual quality of everything drops through the floor. Honestly? It’s exhausting. You try to find something genuine, something that doesn't feel like it was manufactured in a boardroom by people who haven't seen sunlight since the Bush administration, and you come up empty. Every single time. It’s the same old cycle—manufactured hype, followed by massive disappointment, and then we’re all expected to just shrug and move on to the next shiny object. Well, I’m not shrugging. I’m sitting here, watching the decline, and wondering when we collectively decided that "good enough" was actually acceptable. Spoiler alert: it isn't. kaže:
Man, I’ve been riding these pills for almost two years now... and honestly? My only thought is whether I can just swap them out for something else. Anything else. What are we even looking at here? Which ones actually work without making you feel like a zombie?

Look, I’ve been around for two years now—give or take—but even compared to Yasmine, you guys seem to have the absolute bare minimum when it comes to actually giving a damn about anyone else. I mean, if you're already itching to point fingers at other people, fine, go ahead, but don't act like you're doing anything meaningful.

Look, this is what the news is peddling right now regarding Yasmine and those girls' deaths—and honestly? It’s all being taken completely out of context. We're sitting here reading these headlines and just absorbing them without any critical thought, totally missing the actual reality of the situation. It's exhausting, really. That’s just my take on it—take it or leave it.

Look, it’s already written right there on the tablet packaging—the side effects are listed for a reason. Seriously, before you go making any sudden moves toward switching to those new tablets, you absolutely have to check in with your doctor first. Just don't wing it.

Look, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again—women react to these pills differently. It’s not some one-size-fits-all situation, you know? One day you take a dose and feel like a million bucks, the next—well, things are different. Honestly, at the end of the day, you just have to listen to your own body. There’s really no other way to play it.
Of course—not to mention all that searching for blood samples and whatever else they’re digging up... honestly, it’s just more of the same.

It’s funny—you know how some people swear by these things like they're magic bullets? Well, for me, it’s pretty much the same story every single time. It doesn't cause massive, life-altering shifts for everyone—some folks might just end up with a bit of a headache or feel slightly nauseous, which is a total drag—but there is one universal constant across the board. Across the entire spectrum of how people react, the libido just... tanks. It’s like the drive just hits a wall and stays there. Every single time.

Look, I really want to make it clear—and I mean crystal clear—that when those girls were dealing with their issues while on the medication, none of that was actually tied back to Yasmine. It wasn't her fault, period. And honestly? I feel terrible about how everything went down... it’s just a damn shame.

Get away from smoking—seriously, highly recommended! ...and yeah, maybe cut back on the booze too, especially when you're going hard on the weekends.😁So, you're actually starting to take these tablets? Honestly, I mean—wow. It’s about time, I guess. You can’t just sit there waiting for a miracle to drop out of the sky while you ignore the obvious stuff—it’s just common sense at this point. I know, I know, everyone loves to talk about "natural remedies" and all that nonsense, but sometimes you just have to face reality and follow the regimen. Just don't come crying to me when you realize how much of a grind the routine actually is—consistency is a beast, believe me.

I'm not even talking about—well, you know what I mean. It’s just one of those things where people get all worked up over nothing, and honestly, if I have to explain the obvious one more time, I might actually lose it. It's like everyone is walking around with their eyes shut, expecting a miracle when they haven't even put in the basic effort. Not that I'm complaining—heaven knows I've complained enough today—but it's exhausting watching the same patterns repeat itself day after day. Anyway, point being, it’s not even about that specific thing, it's about the whole ridiculous situation surrounding it. Just... ugh. Look, let’s be real for a second—there’s nothing quite like that feeling of being completely and utterly blindsided by absolute nonsense. You know the type. It’s that moment where everything you thought was solid just... dissolves. Total nonsense. Pure, unadulterated garbage. Honestly, it’s become kind of a lifestyle at this point, hasn't it? Just constant, rolling waves of absurdity hitting you left and right while you're just trying to grab a coffee and exist. It’s exhausting, really. But hey, what else is new? Don't even get me started on that—seriously, don't even bother thinking about it, because they’re basically walking cocktails of pure hormones!

...or just go ahead and switch to condoms—find the ones that actually work for you. Then you can get back to enjoying intimacy again without all the extra stress.šŸ˜

Here we go again—seriously, what’s the point of taking those pills just to get "protection" if you end up killing your entire libido in the process? Like, why bother? You trade your drive for some peace of mind, and suddenly you’re basically a zombie. It’s a ridiculous trade-off.
Honestly, just go ahead and use condoms—you might as well enjoy yourselves.
And let’s be real—I’m not even talking about that mythical 100% certainty, because let’s face it, you aren't getting that with any contraceptive method out there. None of them are perfect. Period.

I can't for the life of me remember the name of that scale used to measure how reliable different birth control methods actually are... starts with a P... whatever, I'll figure it out later.

Look, if you actually want an answer, you should probably go find some expert somewhere—you know, someone who actually knows their stuff—and have them run the numbers on a scale to see what’s actually safe. Just trust me on this one.

When are people actually going to realize that Yasmin doesn't even have real hormones—it’s just straight-up Logest... honestly, almost every gynecologist out there admits it by now.🤣
nimbletrucker15 nimbletrucker15 Member
11 messages
joined Apr 2014
#892 ·
Drew Gonzalez75 said:Find a new gynecologist.
About three years ago, I was on Diane for a year and developed a varicose vein in my lower leg (I was only 19 at the time). After reading the side effects and worrying about potential blood clots, I went to my OBGYN at Mount Sinai and asked for guidance.
She suggested switching to Logest. When I asked her if Logest would still affect my vein—since hormones are hormones regardless—she just gave me a completely blank stare and said, "It's your choice; pick Diane, Logest, or whatever else."😲
Honestly, I was thinking, "Excuse me? You're the doctor; you're supposed to tell me which one is better for my specific situation."šŸ™„šŸ‘Ž
She’s nearing retirement and seems a bit scattered lately, so that probably explains why her advice was so dismissive.😢
Anyway, I didn't take anything and haven't seen a gynecologist in three years. Now I'm looking for someone new, because it's definitely time to move on.

Did your vein issues clear up after you stopped taking them? I had a similar experience where they were handing out pills like candy. My liver tests came back fine, and the doctor just shrugged and asked, "Which one do you want?" So I figured maybe Yasmin since that's what I'd heard about...šŸ‘Ž

I don't really have varicose veins; I've always had very fair skin, so my blue veins show easily, but nothing has suddenly bulged out. Instead, I've developed these red lines on my thighs—spider veins. They tend to spread, and I really don't want that to happen, so I’m hoping to try Logest to see if it helps. Does anyone have experience with spider veins and switching pills? Can it actually help?

Basically, I'm open to trying something else since I haven't had other side effects, but my doctor wants me to take a three-month break first. His logic is, "If the spider veins recede, then we know they weren't caused by Yasmin." But from what I've read online, spider veins don't just go away on their own. Plus, taking a break is such a shock to the system. So now I'm wondering, who's actually the crazy one here?šŸ˜•
Drew Gonzalez75 Drew Gonzalez75 Active Member
64 messages
joined Sep 2008
#893 ·
I’ve been thinking about this quite a bit lately. It's easy to get caught up in the noise, isn't it? I try to stay grounded, but sometimes the momentum of everything just feels heavy. I suppose I'm still learning how to navigate that balance. One step at a time, I guess. kaže:
Did your vein issues settle down after you stopped taking them, or what? Honestly, they were splitting apart like candy for me too. It happened right when I first showed up with those liver problems—which were fine, really—but then he just looked at me and asked, "Which one do you want?" So I just mumbled something about maybe Yasmin, since that was the first thing that popped into my head... šŸ‘Ž

I don't see any varicose veins on myself. I’ve always had very fair skin, so my blue veins are naturally visible. However, it isn't that they've suddenly bulged out; instead, I've noticed these little red lines—capillaries—appearing on my thighs. They tend to spread, and I really want to prevent that from happening. I'm considering trying Logest in the hope that it might help stop them. Does anyone here have experience with broken capillaries and switching birth control pills? Could it actually make a difference?

I generally tend to try different options first—since I haven't really dealt with any other side effects so far. However, I'm feeling a bit conflicted because my gynecologist wants me to take a three-month break beforehand. His reasoning is that... "If the capillaries are receding, then they clearly aren't from Yasmin."What I’ve managed to dig up online suggests that for dealing with spider veins... I'm sorry, I didn't quite catch that. Could you please clarify what you meant? I could pull my hair out from the stress. Taking a break feels like a total shock to the system. It makes me wonder—who’s actually the crazy one here? šŸ˜•

It didn't work for me. Still, I'm convinced the issue stemmed from the pills.
Let me clarify—the vein isn't on the back where most people have them. It’s actually running along the front, right over the shin bone, and sometimes it gets a bit swollen.😳
I’ve spent quite a bit of time weighing my options regarding those pills—specifically considering switching to the long-acting version since it has the lowest hormone levels. Ultimately, though, I decided the potential side effects just aren't worth the gamble. At the end of the day, we're talking about hormones, after all. So, for now, I’m looking for a new gynecologist to get a professional opinion on the IUD.🤷
I’m still telling you, you should consider switching up your birth control. That bolded part they mentioned sounds incredibly suspicious to me. Honestly, it doesn't make any sense at all. If those symptoms only recede after you stop taking Yasmin, then logically, they were caused by it, right?
nimbletrucker15 nimbletrucker15 Member
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joined Apr 2014
#894 ·
Drew Gonzalez75 said:
I’ve been thinking about this quite a bit lately. It's easy to get caught up in the noise, isn't it? I try to stay grounded, but sometimes the momentum of everything just feels heavy. I suppose I'm still learning how to navigate that balance. One step at a time, I guess. kaže:
Did your vein issues settle down after you stopped taking them, or what? Honestly, they were splitting apart like candy for me too. It happened right when I first showed up with those liver problems—which were fine, really—but then he just looked at me and asked, "Which one do you want?" So I just mumbled something about maybe Yasmin, since that was the first thing that popped into my head... šŸ‘Ž

I don't see any varicose veins on myself. I’ve always had very fair skin, so my blue veins are naturally visible. However, it isn't that they've suddenly bulged out; instead, I've noticed these little red lines—capillaries—appearing on my thighs. They tend to spread, and I really want to prevent that from happening. I'm considering trying Logest in the hope that it might help stop them. Does anyone here have experience with broken capillaries and switching birth control pills? Could it actually make a difference?

I generally tend to try different options first—since I haven't really dealt with any other side effects so far. However, I'm feeling a bit conflicted because my gynecologist wants me to take a three-month break beforehand. His reasoning is that... "If the capillaries are receding, then they clearly aren't from Yasmin."What I’ve managed to dig up online suggests that for dealing with spider veins... I'm sorry, I didn't quite catch that. Could you please clarify what you meant? I could pull my hair out from the stress. Taking a break feels like a total shock to the system. It makes me wonder—who’s actually the crazy one here? šŸ˜•

It didn't work for me. Still, I'm convinced the issue stemmed from the pills.
Let me clarify—the vein isn't on the back where most people have them. It’s actually running along the front, right over the shin bone, and sometimes it gets a bit swollen.😳
I’ve spent quite a bit of time weighing my options regarding those pills—specifically considering switching to the long-acting version since it has the lowest hormone levels. Ultimately, though, I decided the potential side effects just aren't worth the gamble. At the end of the day, we're talking about hormones, after all. So, for now, I’m looking for a new gynecologist to get a professional opinion on the IUD.🤷
I’m still telling you, you should consider switching up your birth control. That bolded part they mentioned sounds incredibly suspicious to me. Honestly, it doesn't make any sense at all. If those symptoms only recede after you stop taking Yasmin, then logically, they were caused by it, right?

Yeah, you're totally right. Now that I'm actually sitting here thinking about it, I realize I messed up how I wrote that—and looking back at my last post, I can see exactly where I went wrong. 😳 It basically boils down to this: if they don't back off, then they aren't really part of Yasmina’s circle. But since they can't exactly retreat, we’re stuck right back in that annoying gray area where they might be—but don't necessarily have to be.
You’re absolutely right—if you’re walking out of a gynecologist's office feeling totally frustrated and immediately hitting up an online forum for answers, that doctor isn't doing their job. Period. But even if he's "personable" and doesn't turn you away when you show up looking confused, does that actually matter? I mean, what's the point of seeing someone who's nice if they leave you more lost than when you walked in? Still, I’m terrified of the alternative. I have this massive fear that if I switch, I’ll just stumble straight into someone even worse, because honestly, there are way too many horror stories out there to ignore. 😢 I can't afford anything private—I'm a student, obviously. The classic struggle. šŸ™„
Kate James21 Kate James21 Active Member
77 messages
joined May 2009
#895 ·
Alright folks, I could use a little help here😬 regarding some information...

Don't go thinking I'm some sort of idiot just yet, but... I'm curious about something😁 I've never actually been with a woman who uses oral contraceptives, so I'm trying to wrap my head around how the mechanics actually work. I know the deal involves taking 21 pills and that's basically it, but there's one specific detail that doesn't seem to be clearly explained anywhere, and I'd prefer to be certain...

For instance:

Suppose a woman starts taking the pill for the first time. She gets her period, but instead of starting on day one, she waits until the third day... she mentions needing to use backup protection for the first week. So, if her period started on Sunday and she took the first pill on Tuesday, would she be clear to go without a condom by the following Tuesday (finishing inside)? And once she finishes the entire pack, is she expected to get her period within two to four days after that last pill, or will it be slightly delayed because she started the cycle later than usual? šŸ™‚

Beyond all those details, there is the main question that really matters to me... Once she finishes the last pill, she enters that break where she's supposed to have her period. During this interval when she isn't actually taking any pills, is she still fully protected, or does she need to rely on extra physical protection during those days? šŸ™‚

Please don't take offense, I'm just doing my due diligence... it's better to be informed than to live in total ignorance, wouldn't you agree? šŸ˜‰

Thanks in advance
rustyowl63 rustyowl63 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Oct 2008
#896 ·
Kate James21 said:Alright folks, I could use a little help here😬 regarding some information...

Don't go thinking I'm some sort of idiot just yet, but... I'm curious about something😁 I've never actually been with a woman who uses oral contraceptives, so I'm trying to wrap my head around how the mechanics actually work. I know the deal involves taking 21 pills and that's basically it, but there's one specific detail that doesn't seem to be clearly explained anywhere, and I'd prefer to be certain...

For instance:

Suppose a woman starts taking the pill for the first time. She gets her period, but instead of starting on day one, she waits until the third day... she mentions needing to use backup protection for the first week. So, if her period started on Sunday and she took the first pill on Tuesday, would she be clear to go without a condom by the following Tuesday (finishing inside)? And once she finishes the entire pack, is she expected to get her period within two to four days after that last pill, or will it be slightly delayed because she started the cycle later than usual? šŸ™‚

Beyond all those details, there is the main question that really matters to me... Once she finishes the last pill, she enters that break where she's supposed to have her period. During this interval when she isn't actually taking any pills, is she still fully protected, or does she need to rely on extra physical protection during those days? šŸ™‚

Please don't take offense, I'm just doing my due diligence... it's better to be informed than to live in total ignorance, wouldn't you agree? šŸ˜‰

Thanks in advance

😁

Look, if she’s on her period and stops the pills, you can skip the condoms—she's safe during those few days right before her cycle starts after she quits the medication.

And honestly, don't act surprised when your girlfriend suddenly loses interest in sex, or finds it impossible to get in the mood—let alone finish—because those hormones mess with everything. Libido just tanks.

I'm not even sure if she's just taking them occasionally now or what.
Anyway, those pills wreck moods too. For some people, it triggers deep depression or nasty headaches (so, just a heads-up for when she starts snapping at you for no reason...) 😠..., while others don't deal with any major side effects at all.
She'll just have to wait and see how her body handles it over time.

Correct me if I'm wrong on any of this, please.
Man, oh man.šŸ‘
Jeffrey Walker3 Jeffrey Walker3 Regular
261 messages
joined May 2010
#897 ·
I seriously want to put a massive disclaimer at the very top of any women's health section or pill info page just stating that the protection actually lasts through those 7 days of the break! 🤣
People seem to be asking about this constantly, it's like every other day! 😁
Kate James21 Kate James21 Active Member
77 messages
joined May 2009
#898 ·
Jeffrey Walker3 said:I seriously want to put a massive disclaimer at the very top of any women's health section or pill info page just stating that the protection actually lasts through those 7 days of the break! 🤣
People seem to be asking about this constantly, it's like every other day! 😁

If they actually wrote it down somewhere, people wouldn't be asking...

For God's sake, they just don't include that in the contraception overview.

Better to ask than to end up raising a baby by mistake, right? 😳🤷

Thanks for the replies...

So, she’s still protected even after she stops taking them for the week? Just looking for absolute confirmation 🤣
Jeffrey Walker3 Jeffrey Walker3 Regular
261 messages
joined May 2010
#899 ·
He’s always putting that stuff in his instructions, so I’ve honestly never even thought to ask anyone about it! 😁

She’s totally covered all 365 days of the year (and even a 366th if things get wild 😬), haha!
Brenda Diaz Brenda Diaz Newcomer
7 messages
joined Oct 2008
#900 ·
I've been on Yasmin for about eight months now. I have just four pills left in this pack before I make the switch over to Logest... has anyone here actually made that transition from one to the other? I’m curious what your experiences were like moving between these two... As for the Yasmin, I didn't deal with too many major side effects, though my libido has completely vanished 😠 and, well, my breasts have definitely become quite swollen šŸ˜...

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