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Sam Martinez9 said:I concur that socialization is a lifelong process, spanning from infancy until death. I also agree with the distinction between primary and secondary socialization, particularly because children differ from adults in their sheer lack of knowledge. Through socialization, children absorb the norms and rules of the society they live in, doing so without much critique simply because they lack the framework required to be critical. Of course, even in early childhood, children occasionally push back—first through crying, then with a defiant "*no*"—but aside from saying "I want" versus "I won't," children aren't really capable of offering a viable alternative.
During adolescence, as knowledge and comprehension expand, we see the rise of teenage rebellion. Kids begin choosing different behaviors, though even this is usually just another form of socialization; the only difference is that they are now attempting to socialize with the social groups they actually care about.
As for institutionalization? I’m not entirely sure if socialization can even exist without it.
It is worth noting that today's social norms are incomparably looser than those of previous generations. They offer more freedom and allow for the expression of individuality while still permitting membership in a social group. In the past, violating social norms could cost a member their standing in the community, or even their life.
Is it possible for social rules to become even more relaxed in the future? I suspect so, though I don't think it truly matters.
What matters is that a member of society adopts its rules through free will—that they understand why those rules are beneficial and, most importantly, that those rules facilitate their full development.
I completely agree with your post. However, I just want to add one thing: it is crucial that one does not succumb to the pressures of the ruling establishment. School is that very instrument (it has been from the start); the mechanism of social control is latent, and its structure for monitoring and restraining young people is so powerful that, in a single moment, you can't even tell if it's being overt or subtle. But, as the author John Anthony Gill writes in his work "How to Conduct Social Research" this latent function isn't the only purpose of school, because we mustn't forget its spirit of discovery and knowledge:
"The importance and weight that these two functions held in relation to one another have shifted; originally, the primary function of school was education, while the other function (the oversight function), though present from the beginning, was less significant and less prominent. And conversely, in the current situation, due to greater pressure coming from the bottom up, the oversight function has increased immensely. But a correct analysis of schooling must not ignore its other function: the function of knowledge." (p. 228)
Eric Newman75 said:Look, parents can try to shield their kids from certain influences all they want—nobody’s stopping them. But here’s the catch: things like national identity or core civilizational values aren't just tucked away in a single textbook. Between English lit, history, and eventually philosophy and ethics, students are going to run headfirst into certain works and ideas that spark debate. It isn't just about what a teacher says in a lecture. I mean, are you going to tell a kid to never turn on the TV or stop reading the news? Some content exists outside the school walls that serves as a vital pillar of society. Take religion, for example. You can't tell a kid to skip out on religious studies at school while teaching them at home that going to church is just some superstitious nonsense. Religion is part of our culture and civilization; at some point, they’re going to need that context.
As for developing a child based strictly on their "interests," I already mentioned there are various paths you can take. You have to look at the big picture—from elementary school all the way through high school. How exactly do you expect a kid to get into a top-tier university, land a solid career, and actually have a future if they only master the stuff they love and ignore everything else?
I’m genuinely curious, though—what exactly are these people offering who claim to be so worried about "protecting" the kids? My guess is they aren't offering anything at all. They don't seem to have the slightest clue how to actually prepare a student to get into a great high school, let alone an Ivy League university, if they bypass the foundational subjects that they supposedly find "harmful."
This is such an unserious, illiterate, and incomplete post. Do you really think Hekatonhir and the rest of the Hekatonhir family believe that any serious, insightful, and complex author provides an alternative without any scrutiny of their own arguments? That the core of their critique is nothing more than empty barking while the caravans pass by? No. I actually have a very important and instructive quote for you from the old, seasoned author V.I. Lenin:
"The fundamental law of revolution, which all three revolutions confirmed—most notably the Russian Revolution in the 20th century—consists of this: for a revolution to occur, it is not enough that the exploited and oppressed masses realize they cannot live in the old way and demand change; it is necessary that the exploiters can no longer live and govern in the old way."
And, to wrap up this post (otherwise I'll fall into an ad hominem logical fallacy), "they offer nothing"—they offer everything. If you don't believe me, read Francesca Basaglia and her "Negation of the Institution" where he abolished "asylums" in a neighboring country?
It’s all about the knowledge, the reading, the hands-on experience, and that ultimate realization...☕