steelridge58 said:Man, if there were actually any angels watching over me, my life story would probably be a whole lot more wholesome than this.
So, one summer I was traveling along the coast with a close friend, and we weren't just staying in one spot; we were constantly on the move, hitting different towns. One particular morning, we had to head out super early to stay on schedule, and while I can't quite remember if I actually set my alarm, if I did, it certainly didn't do its job.
Instead, someone—or something—decided to wake me up by literally yanking on my hair.
😉
It was a real tug, you know? Not enough to hurt, but definitely enough to snap me awake. My first thought was, "Oh, okay, my friend is just being aggressive about us getting moving," but when I called out to her and turned toward the other bed where she was still fast asleep, I ended up waking *her* up, and she looked at me with this totally annoyed expression:
"Are you insane? Why on earth would I pull your hair like that?"
Hmmm... anyway, regardless of the mysterious hair-pulling phantom, it was definitely time to get up so we could get back on the road and make our trip on time.
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I suppose those are what people call "spontaneous guidance" or synchronicity.... 👍
Personally, for years now, I’ve been waking up naturally at the exact moment I decide before bed (though I still set an alarm clock 😁 just in case).
Sometimes, I'll go down to the local DMV to renew my driver's license, and while waiting in a massive line outside, I'll randomly sit next to some woman who explains that I won't be seen for another five hours, then shows me an app on her phone where I can track the queue numbers—something I had absolutely no clue existed. So, I download it, saving myself hours of wasted time. My initial instinct (my old 😬 self) was to dismiss the whole thing, thinking apps and digital nonsense were useless and that I'd just wait until the crowd cleared out...
But then, where do all these convenient little synchronicities come from?
Thanks for the new link. 🙂
Terry Martinez10 said:@Nea When you’re actually in the middle of learning something, there are these functional shifts happening within specific synapses that essentially ramp up the electrical responses in the receiving cells. It’s basically just repetitive use—meaning, if you keep firing that synapse, the connection between those two cells gets stronger.
I suppose you could visualize it like a trail worn through a thick forest: the more people walk it, the more accessible it becomes—it's easier to find, and navigating it becomes second nature. But, much like any path left untended, it can also overgrow or disappear entirely once it stops being useful.
The same logic applies to the brain—picking up new skills carves out new connections, though if they aren't utilized, the system eventually breaks them back down. The brain naturally gravitates toward what it already knows, which means it tends to filter new situations through old patterns, potentially leading to a skewed interpretation or an incorrect conclusion.
That's true enough.
However, what I experience feels more like being nudged to do the
least likely thing, or something I would normally never do—essentially being guided toward a completely new path or something atypical for my personality. Is the brain creating those new synapses and neural pathways in response to that nudge?
It's possible I won't fully grasp the mechanics of it until much later. 😎