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Altruism and helping others: what are your thoughts?

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Brenda Grant26 Brenda Grant26 NewcomerOP
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#1 ·
Hey everyone,
got a question for you.

Does anyone know of any literary works or authors that really dive into the importance of looking out for the poor, the vulnerable, and those marginalized groups in society—like the homeless?

I'm basically looking for significant books or writers who tackle the necessity of caring for those at the bottom of the ladder, specifically people facing homelessness.

Think stuff centered around humanitarianism, solidarity, altruism... anything that deals with our responsibility toward those groups.

Thanks
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#2 ·
How about this for a catchy headline: "Youth Volunteering as an Escape into Reality"
https://www.google.com/search?q=volunteer+opportunities+near+me&Itemid=28

There are plenty of volunteer organizations out there—just give Google a quick search and you'll find something that sticks...
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#3 ·
Jonathan Brooks8 said:How about this for a catchy headline: "Youth Volunteering as an Escape into Reality"
https://www.google.com/search?q=volunteer+opportunities+near+me&Itemid=28

There are plenty of volunteer organizations out there—just give Google a quick search and you'll find something that sticks...

Honestly, that title hits the nail on the head.

An escape into reality
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#4 ·
You know, Jonathan Brooks8, I’ve come to this realization: everything shifts entirely once you actually face things head-on. Whether it's through some street performance by activists or a community initiative, or even just finding yourself standing there personally—looking a situation right in the eye—that’s when a person finally stops and sees.
All those empty words don't carry much weight because nothing can truly take the place of direct confrontation.
And when you really face something, it has to change you, even if just a little, by stirring your conscience and forcing you to be more aware.
There would be so much less evil in this world if we were all—in a real way—confronted with the impossible yet somehow existing ways, types, and dimensions of human suffering...
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#5 ·
steelridge58 said:You know, Jonathan Brooks8, I’ve come to this realization: everything shifts entirely once you actually face things head-on. Whether it's through some street performance by activists or a community initiative, or even just finding yourself standing there personally—looking a situation right in the eye—that’s when a person finally stops and sees.
All those empty words don't carry much weight because nothing can truly take the place of direct confrontation.
And when you really face something, it has to change you, even if just a little, by stirring your conscience and forcing you to be more aware.
There would be so much less evil in this world if we were all—in a real way—confronted with the impossible yet somehow existing ways, types, and dimensions of human suffering...

I view volunteering through a much wider lens—as a form of activism; a genuine act of rebellion against the rigid frameworks of rules, contracts, and social agreements built upon strictly predefined rights and obligations. In many ways, it stands in opposition to capitalism—whether liberal or state-driven—and even to socialism and communism (which, arguably, took things to an extreme with its "from each according to their ability, to each according to their needs" doctrine). To me, this goes far beyond simple altruism or humanitarianism. Sure, donating extra cash or giving away surplus goods is certainly altruistic and kind, but true volunteering means committing your time—effectively gifting a portion of your own life, your energy, your youth, and even your capacity for empathy toward a fellow human, a plant, an animal, or a healthy environment...
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#6 ·
Jonathan Brooks8 said:I view volunteering through a much wider lens—as a form of activism; a genuine act of rebellion against the rigid frameworks of rules, contracts, and social agreements built upon strictly predefined rights and obligations. In many ways, it stands in opposition to capitalism—whether liberal or state-driven—and even to socialism and communism (which, arguably, took things to an extreme with its "from each according to their ability, to each according to their needs" doctrine). To me, this goes far beyond simple altruism or humanitarianism. Sure, donating extra cash or giving away surplus goods is certainly altruistic and kind, but true volunteering means committing your time—effectively gifting a portion of your own life, your energy, your youth, and even your capacity for empathy toward a fellow human, a plant, an animal, or a healthy environment...

You hit the nail on the head.

It really does go beyond simple charity

It’s about active, hands-on commitment.
Honestly, I think you did an amazing job breaking down those distinctions right there.
Basically, the world would be a much less hateful place if we simply had more volunteers out there....

But it makes me wonder, do you think that actually showing up and facing things firsthand might play a role in reducing that negativity? Like, could being present somehow touch people's consciences, raise awareness, challenge their existing biases or indifference, and really give them pause...
and eventually, spark a desire to volunteer themselves?

In other words, by creating that direct, lived experience.
Lawrence Bailey77 Lawrence Bailey77 Regular
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#7 ·
Even though these questions weren't directed at me, I find myself unable to resist weighing in with my own perspective. 😬

steelridge58 said:You hit the nail on the head.

It really does go beyond simple charity

It’s about active, hands-on commitment.
Honestly, I think you did an amazing job breaking down those distinctions right there.
Basically, the world would be a much less hateful place if we simply had more volunteers out there....

But it makes me wonder, do you think that actually showing up and facing things firsthand might play a role in reducing that negativity? Like, could being present somehow touch people's consciences, raise awareness, challenge their existing biases or indifference, and really give them pause...
and eventually, spark a desire to volunteer themselves?

In other words, by creating that direct, lived experience.

I am fairly certain that 👍

In other words, creating an experiential connection.

It always comes back to 👋 experience, experience, and more experience! 🙂 Everything else, I suspect, is just empty rhetoric. ☕
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#8 ·
steelridge58 said:You hit the nail on the head.

It really does go beyond simple charity

It’s about active, hands-on commitment.
Honestly, I think you did an amazing job breaking down those distinctions right there.
Basically, the world would be a much less hateful place if we simply had more volunteers out there....

But it makes me wonder, do you think that actually showing up and facing things firsthand might play a role in reducing that negativity? Like, could being present somehow touch people's consciences, raise awareness, challenge their existing biases or indifference, and really give them pause...
and eventually, spark a desire to volunteer themselves?

In other words, by creating that direct, lived experience.

In this light, what we call "evil" is really just passivity, indifference, gloom, isolationism, defeatism, hopelessness, and fear—and this kind of healthy, proactive activism is exactly what drives all of that away...
Lawrence Bailey77 Lawrence Bailey77 Regular
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#9 ·
Jonathan Brooks8 said:In this light, what we call "evil" is really just passivity, indifference, gloom, isolationism, defeatism, hopelessness, and fear—and this kind of healthy, proactive activism is exactly what drives all of that away...

.. and I suppose someone else makes a tidy little profit just by "purging that evil from the equation" along the way ☕ .. it reminds me quite vividly of certain other methods used to "combat evil" while lining one's pockets 🙂 .. though I suppose profit is deemed "justified" if it is supposedly "for the greater good"😵
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#10 ·
Lawrence Bailey77 said:.. and I suppose someone else makes a tidy little profit just by "purging that evil from the equation" along the way ☕ .. it reminds me quite vividly of certain other methods used to "combat evil" while lining one's pockets 🙂 .. though I suppose profit is deemed "justified" if it is supposedly "for the greater good"😵

I would argue that the volunteers' perspective on this is incredibly naive—though perhaps not in the way people think. They are fully aware that others—those we might call the "realists," or those more comfortably integrated into the system—view them as simpletons or easy targets for deception because they work for "free." Yet, despite knowing exactly how they are perceived, they continue to volunteer.

It would be worth digging into that supposed naivety.... I suspect that beneath the surface, there is actually a certain level of calculation—or perhaps even a distinct logic at play.
Lawrence Bailey77 Lawrence Bailey77 Regular
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#11 ·
Jonathan Brooks8 said:I would argue that the volunteers' perspective on this is incredibly naive—though perhaps not in the way people think. They are fully aware that others—those we might call the "realists," or those more comfortably integrated into the system—view them as simpletons or easy targets for deception because they work for "free." Yet, despite knowing exactly how they are perceived, they continue to volunteer.

It would be worth digging into that supposed naivety.... I suspect that beneath the surface, there is actually a certain level of calculation—or perhaps even a distinct logic at play.

I suppose there isn't much point in overanalyzing it... at the end of the day, we're just talking about different currencies rather than fundamentally different principles. They are almost certainly acting in their own self-interest; the real question is whether that benefit actually yields anything worthwhile in the long run.🙂

And I don't mean money being the only currency here. I guess things like happiness, health, or even just life itself are far more valuable than any dollar amount, so... ☕

To me, it seems somewhat absurd how absurdity is amplified precisely by trying to avoid it.

In other words, this wealth that supposedly "helps" the impoverished actually generates even more poverty—and subsequently more wealth—simply by existing. It feels like a massive waste of energy within a nonsensical system where nobody ends up truly happy or satisfied.

Those who have nothing are miserable because they lack, while those who have plenty are miserable because they still crave more... 😵 For what purpose? Is it some kind of mass masochism? 🙂 Something akin to organized religion or similar phenomena—which I tend to avoid generalizing, though I've previously termed them "mass schizophrenia." ☕
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#12 ·
Jonathan Brooks8 said:In this light, what we call "evil" is really just passivity, indifference, gloom, isolationism, defeatism, hopelessness, and fear—and this kind of healthy, proactive activism is exactly what drives all of that away...

Do you honestly think people struggling with those kinds of mindsets actually get involved in activism?
I truly believe you need the exact opposite traits if you want to actually make an impact through activism...
ironmarlin1 ironmarlin1 Active Member
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#13 ·
We have an absolute surplus of domestic martyrs on our hands, all wearing the Castelli badge. It’s essentially a burgeoning cult where the systematic subjugation of the public is being rebranded through the self-serving pity of a few people who claim to have nothing but "golden hearts." It is pure, unadulterated sentimentality. If we weren't dealing with such blatant emotionalism, these people would actually be hunting for systemic, structural solutions instead of just chasing a fleeting emotional high because they saw some local celebrity in Gloria, Story, or USA Today donating dog food or volunteering at a soup kitchen.
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#14 ·
I already knew my last one was a little more than I actually needed. 🙂)
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#15 ·
steelridge58 said:I already knew my last one was a little more than I actually needed. 🙂)

No, it’s actually about a lack—specifically a lack of attention on my part; I completely missed your reply...

I wouldn't dream of dismissing the idea that someone who is typically passive might suddenly activate—perhaps driven by suffering, a newfound awareness, or perhaps even transformed by a significant life event, like a major accident or even a war—to begin helping neighbors, relatives, strangers, plants, or animals...

We are all, to varying degrees, influenced by an impulse to re-evaluate our own stances regarding acting—or failing to act—for the common good through volunteering. If I were to categorize these personal responses, I would identify four basic types:

- The first is a natural inclination toward altruism, occurring without any need for deep personal introspection or any complex calculation of the personal costs versus benefits resulting from such actions.

- The second stems from a sense of dissatisfaction with the plight of those (or that) in need, coupled with a frustration with one's own passivity—which prompts a person to engage in various ways and to various degrees.

- The third involves recognizing a problem and feeling dissatisfied or frustrated, yet that feeling remains insufficient to trigger actual movement.

- The fourth is a fundamental absence of any perceived need or desire to help in this manner.

Without having conducted formal research—just speaking from a gut feeling and a rough statistical intuition—I would suggest that the majority of people fall into the second or third groups. Furthermore, I suspect the first and second groups contain a higher concentration of young people, and that, overall, there are more women than men among volunteers.

The societal attitude toward volunteering is also crucial, which ties directly into how a socio-political and economic system functions. For instance, under the old systems seen in places like the former America, because of the concept of "social ownership," people tended to be more relaxed and receptive toward community work. It was actually possible to organize large-scale volunteer work projects where citizens would donate their physical labor to the community—I was one of those participants myself, so I speak from firsthand experience. On the other hand, while volunteering is highly developed in Western capitalist nations, it is often geared toward young people seeking skill-building for future careers. Meanwhile, wealthy nations—take Scandinavia, for example—have social programs so robust that they significantly reduce the necessity for such individual intervention, which then tends to pivot toward addressing global issues like ecology or wildlife conservation.
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#16 ·
I really think we need to draw a clear line between volunteering for the sake of our community and working *instead* of the community as a way of structuring society itself.
When you work for the community, you're actually building things up and helping it grow, whereas working instead of the community is mostly just patching over holes where the system has already failed us.
Helping people in need is obviously altruistic and fundamentally human—and honestly, it’s vital whenever the government fails to provide—but that isn't really "working for the community" in the sense of improving our social functions so these crises don't happen in the first place.
At the end of the day, the very fact that we even need this kind of humanitarian aid is a massive red flag, signaling that we desperately need activism aimed at fixing the actual glitches in our societal framework.

So, sure, volunteering to help the poor, the vulnerable, or the marginalized is wonderful and deeply compassionate, and for those individuals, local charity might be their only lifeline, but it doesn't drive the systemic change needed to ensure those groups aren't left behind to begin with.

It makes me wonder, when you brought up those old-school "community work drives," why can't we pull off anything like that in today's formal democratic setup? I suspect it's because there's such a massive, widening gap between the people in power—the folks running the political and economic machinery—and the actual citizens.
That deep alienation makes it impossible for any real sense of solidarity to bridge the gap between the elected officials and the public. There's just no spirit of shared responsibility coming from the top, and that's precisely because they've become so disconnected from everyone else.
In practice, our version of democracy feels a bit like an "opium for the masses"—the more you indulge in it, the more sober and disillusioned you realize you actually are.
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#17 ·
steelridge58 said:I really think we need to draw a clear line between volunteering for the sake of our community and working *instead* of the community as a way of structuring society itself.
When you work for the community, you're actually building things up and helping it grow, whereas working instead of the community is mostly just patching over holes where the system has already failed us.
Helping people in need is obviously altruistic and fundamentally human—and honestly, it’s vital whenever the government fails to provide—but that isn't really "working for the community" in the sense of improving our social functions so these crises don't happen in the first place.
At the end of the day, the very fact that we even need this kind of humanitarian aid is a massive red flag, signaling that we desperately need activism aimed at fixing the actual glitches in our societal framework.

So, sure, volunteering to help the poor, the vulnerable, or the marginalized is wonderful and deeply compassionate, and for those individuals, local charity might be their only lifeline, but it doesn't drive the systemic change needed to ensure those groups aren't left behind to begin with.

It makes me wonder, when you brought up those old-school "community work drives," why can't we pull off anything like that in today's formal democratic setup? I suspect it's because there's such a massive, widening gap between the people in power—the folks running the political and economic machinery—and the actual citizens.
That deep alienation makes it impossible for any real sense of solidarity to bridge the gap between the elected officials and the public. There's just no spirit of shared responsibility coming from the top, and that's precisely because they've become so disconnected from everyone else.
In practice, our version of democracy feels a bit like an "opium for the masses"—the more you indulge in it, the more sober and disillusioned you realize you actually are.


Precisely. The United States has established its own framework through the Volunteer Act
, much like how regulations function in Canada and indeed, most developed nations follow suit.
Based on these legal frameworks, a structured set of rights and responsibilities is established via volunteer agreements—for instance, one might look at guidelines like http://www.volontiram.info/vazno/osn...o-volontiranju.

Essentially, this means the community—acting through its political bodies and legislative acts—defines the parameters for voluntary service.

In doing so, the community implicitly acknowledges that through standard politics, federal budgets, and various government agencies, it simply cannot identify or address every single need arising from poverty, neglect, illness, injustice, misfortune, crime, or missed opportunities. There will always be a need for informal engagement; however, by codifying this, the state protects both the institution of service and the individuals who step up to provide it—because, ultimately, ensuring this support exists is a fundamental responsibility of the collective.

In stable, advanced democracies, the opportunity to volunteer is widely available, though the necessity for it tends to decrease in areas where social injustice and inequality are minimal, and where civic consciousness and individual conscience are more deeply rooted.

volver said:Working for the community fosters growth and contributes to its evolution, whereas merely working instead of the community just serves to mitigate the damage caused when the community itself fails.
Helping those in need is an altruistic and profoundly human act—absolutely vital wherever the system falls short—but that isn't "working for the community" in the sense of improving its core functions to prevent such damaging consequences from occurring in the first place.
Ultimately, the demand for this kind of humanitarian aid serves as a signal: it highlights the need for activism and work aimed at driving positive change where there is a "glitch" in the social fabric.

So, while volunteering for the impoverished, the vulnerable, or the marginalized is wonderful and deeply compassionate—offering a lifeline to those for whom local aid is their only hope—on the other hand, it doesn't inherently lead to the systemic shifts required to ensure these groups no longer face such hardship...

The community—as a machine or an apparatus—will always, to some degree, falter. Volunteering is a way to point out exactly where those failures occur, forcing the community to recognize them and, hopefully, adapt. But, looking at it from another angle, the community is comprised of the volunteers themselves, which means the community uses that very engagement to correct the mistakes made against the vulnerable.

If we tried to signal the community's failures through mere passivity, we would achieve nothing—passivity cannot fix a broken system. Only active participation can drive change, because that activity exerts pressure on the collective conscience of all of us who make up this society, pushing through the complex, messy, and often clumsy mechanisms of our political system toward actual political will and decisive action.

We also shouldn't lose sight of the fact that the federal government—acting as the representative of the community—isn't driven by empathy, but rather by self-interest; meanwhile, actual people (and all other living beings) truly suffer, making empathy a vital driver for altruism and humanity. This is precisely how we correct the inherent flaw in the system: its cold indifference.

The notion that withholding help or simply looking the other way actually helps more (by forcing some kind of change) is completely backwards... it’s a logic that most closely resembles the mindset of that third group of people….

volver said:I find myself wondering—since you brought up "community work projects"—why aren't they possible within our modern, formally democratic social structure? My conclusion is that they aren't feasible because of the massive alienation existing between those in power (the functioning economic-political establishment) and the citizenry.
That profound sense of estrangement prevents any meaningful idea of solidarity from bridging the gap between the elected leadership and the public. Such ideas simply don't exist among those holding office, largely because they have become so detached from the people they serve.
In practice, democracy acts as an "opium for the masses"—the more you consume it, the more soberly you perceive reality.

I suspect the reason is quite prosaic, even "stupid"; namely, there is simply no one left to spearhead or organize them. Even in the past, these collective labor efforts were often imposed "from the top down" as a political tool—a way to mold socialist youth—and once the socialist system collapsed, those elements, which were intrinsic to that specific social order, were discarded along with the failed system itself. I imagine that anyone even remotely well-intentioned who tried to organize something similar today would be branded as someone pushing for a "return to the old ways," so nobody dares to touch it.

A second factor could be the shift toward the perspective defined by that ubiquitous capitalist mantra: "there's no such thing as a free lunch." From that viewpoint, expecting someone to work for nothing is considered immoral, and anyone willing to perform voluntary labor (even when it involves grueling physical work) would likely be dismissed as either crazy or foolish.
steelridge58 steelridge58 Regular
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#18 ·
I guess I’m just one of those people who can't help but wander off the beaten path, always looking for that next ridge to climb or some remote trail where the air actually feels clean for once. There’s just something about being out there, miles away from the noise of the city, that makes everything else feel so much smaller and less complicated than it does when I'm stuck behind a desk. It’s a bit ridiculous, really, how much energy I spend planning these treks just to end up exhausted and sore, but I honestly can't imagine spending my weekends any other way. kaže:
The system—whether you look at it as a massive government bureaucracy or just the general way our society functions—is always going to fail us more or less often than we’d like. I truly believe that volunteering isn't just about being a nice person; it's actually a way to shine a spotlight on exactly where the gears are grinding and where the whole machine is breaking down, forcing the powers that be to finally look at the cracks and actually bother to adapt. But then again, there's another side to this... It’s the volunteers who really make this whole community what it is.I honestly believe that’s exactly how a community works—it’s through that very process of collective effort that we manage to step in and fix those mistakes that might otherwise just slip through the cracks and get overlooked.

You're spot on about that. Honestly, patching things up like that usually just ends up being a band-aid solution—it provides a little bit of immediate relief, sure, but there's this nagging tendency for those quick fixes to just stick around until they become the permanent status quo.
Fixing mistakes on the fly is absolutely essential because life doesn't just pause for us to catch up, but at the same time, we really need to apply pressure on the community to act as a catalyst for change, pushing for those adaptations exactly where volunteer efforts show they are needed most—just like you pointed out, steelridge58. I guess what I’m trying to say is that the community shouldn't be allowed to just sit back comfortably and distance itself from the necessity of finding systemic solutions, which would actually allow us to tackle the root causes that lead to these vulnerabilities in the first place.

We also can't forget that the government apparatus—acting as our representative community—isn't actually driven by empathy, but strictly by its own interests, yet we have to remember that people, and all living creatures for that matter, truly suffer, and it’s that capacity for empathy that serves as the vital spark for altruism and basic humanity. It's honestly that missing piece of compassion that allows us to fix the fundamental flaw in the system, which is its complete and utter lack of feeling.

If you ask me, I’d say we aren't just dealing with a system that lacks empathy, though that's certainly part of it; rather, what we're really seeing is a fundamental breakdown in good governance and the messy fallout that inevitably follows such a failure. "Good governance" might sound like some fancy, modern administrative buzzword to some people, but honestly, the term itself carries enough weight to stand on its own as a vital principle for how things should actually work.
I’ve been sitting here chewing on this idea, wondering just how much of a negative slant we’re actually adding when we describe the federal government as being "merely interesting," because it feels like that phrasing carries this subtle, underlying weight—like there's a hidden motive or a specific direction it's pulling toward—and honestly, it keeps leading me back to this frustrating loop where I find myself using the word "interest" in two completely different ways, which doesn't help my case at all.
I’ve always felt that when we use the word "interest," there’s this subtle, slightly nasty undertone baked right into it that hints at pure ego. It carries this weight of self-centeredness, describing a mindset where someone views the entire world through such a narrow lens that they only see what serves them. It’s like they have this built-in reflex to filter everything—every conversation, every event, every person—through a single metric, automatically deciding what’s worth their time and what isn't based solely on how much it benefits them personally.
If we look at "interest" through a different lens, it really boils down to a fundamental need—that wide spectrum of requirements every living being has just to function. When we talk about what’s truly in someone's interest, we’re talking about their quality of life and making sure those basic needs actually get met. If you take that specific meaning of the word, then being open to someone else's needs—being the kind of person who is both willing and able to step up and help—becomes this deeply altruistic way of relating to them. It’s about looking out for what’s best for the person in need, even if, in a way, our own sense of purpose and connection is fueled by that very act of helping.

I really want to drive home the point that when we talk about being willing to step up and help others—that raw altruism and basic humanity—it isn’t just about having empathy or feeling someone else's pain. It goes much deeper than that, because at the end of the day, what truly drives us is our sense of morality, that heavy weight of duty, and just following our own conscience.
Look, if a government agency—one of those massive, bureaucratic institutions that’s supposed to serve the public interest—can't manage to be driven by actual empathy or any kind of selfless altruism, then honestly, it shouldn't be allowed to act out of pure, unadulterated ego either. It just doesn't make sense to me.

Look, if we’re actually being honest about everything I just laid out, then trying to argue that the system is inherently heartless doesn't really hold any water for me, because at the end of the day, the whole idea of accountability is baked right into the very foundation of how the system is supposed to function.

If I sit back and really look at the idea that the government apparatus exists solely to serve specific interests, I honestly think that might actually be enough to make a case for it. But I only mean it in the sense where, when you look at the relationship between a community and its representatives, "serving our interests" becomes the ultimate goal, because you have to view every single factor affecting the community through that lens of mutual interest.
When you look at how democracy actually functions, if the entire government apparatus starts acting like a completely detached entity that has zero connection to the people it’s supposed to serve, then the whole thing becomes nothing more than a hollow shell, where the substance is just being masked by a bunch of colorful, superficial layers.

Thinking that we’re actually doing more good by withholding help or just looking the other way—as if that somehow forces change—is completely backwards, and honestly, it sounds a lot like the logic used by that third group of people...

We really shouldn't be turning our backs or refusing to lend a hand when we can, because at the very least, that’s what we owe one another—but we have to be realistic and realize that simply patching things up isn't going to fix a chronic, systemic issue. True activism should, by its very nature, push further to find solutions within the existing framework, digging deep to tackle the root causes that keep these problems alive in the first place. But that's where you hit a wall... since success ultimately depends on the people who hold the actual decision-making power.

I skimmed through the articles in those links—not fully, because there’s just so much to get through—but I think we could draw another distinction here:
Volunteering to fill the gaps where the community is failing to improve the quality of life.
Volunteering to support the community by contributing to programs that are already up and running.

In that first scenario, activism should really be about initiating or creating entirely new pathways for progress.
In the second, you're just plugging into the systems that are already in motion.
ironmarlin1 ironmarlin1 Active Member
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#19 ·
In this twenty-first century, given how much we've advanced in science and everything we learned from Darwin, trying to claim that altruism is truly selfless feels more like a bit of a collective delusion than anything else. It makes you wonder, though—is being deceptive or dishonest actually considered an altruistic or even a "humane" act? If you ask the humanists and the lifelong altruists, they’d probably tell you that it most certainly is.
Jonathan Brooks8 Jonathan Brooks8 Active Member
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#20 ·
steelridge58 said:
I guess I’m just one of those people who can't help but wander off the beaten path, always looking for that next ridge to climb or some remote trail where the air actually feels clean for once. There’s just something about being out there, miles away from the noise of the city, that makes everything else feel so much smaller and less complicated than it does when I'm stuck behind a desk. It’s a bit ridiculous, really, how much energy I spend planning these treks just to end up exhausted and sore, but I honestly can't imagine spending my weekends any other way. kaže:
The system—whether you look at it as a massive government bureaucracy or just the general way our society functions—is always going to fail us more or less often than we’d like. I truly believe that volunteering isn't just about being a nice person; it's actually a way to shine a spotlight on exactly where the gears are grinding and where the whole machine is breaking down, forcing the powers that be to finally look at the cracks and actually bother to adapt. But then again, there's another side to this... It’s the volunteers who really make this whole community what it is.I honestly believe that’s exactly how a community works—it’s through that very process of collective effort that we manage to step in and fix those mistakes that might otherwise just slip through the cracks and get overlooked.

You're spot on about that. Honestly, patching things up like that usually just ends up being a band-aid solution—it provides a little bit of immediate relief, sure, but there's this nagging tendency for those quick fixes to just stick around until they become the permanent status quo.
Fixing mistakes on the fly is absolutely essential because life doesn't just pause for us to catch up, but at the same time, we really need to apply pressure on the community to act as a catalyst for change, pushing for those adaptations exactly where volunteer efforts show they are needed most—just like you pointed out, steelridge58. I guess what I’m trying to say is that the community shouldn't be allowed to just sit back comfortably and distance itself from the necessity of finding systemic solutions, which would actually allow us to tackle the root causes that lead to these vulnerabilities in the first place.

We also can't forget that the government apparatus—acting as our representative community—isn't actually driven by empathy, but strictly by its own interests, yet we have to remember that people, and all living creatures for that matter, truly suffer, and it’s that capacity for empathy that serves as the vital spark for altruism and basic humanity. It's honestly that missing piece of compassion that allows us to fix the fundamental flaw in the system, which is its complete and utter lack of feeling.

If you ask me, I’d say we aren't just dealing with a system that lacks empathy, though that's certainly part of it; rather, what we're really seeing is a fundamental breakdown in good governance and the messy fallout that inevitably follows such a failure. "Good governance" might sound like some fancy, modern administrative buzzword to some people, but honestly, the term itself carries enough weight to stand on its own as a vital principle for how things should actually work.
I’ve been sitting here chewing on this idea, wondering just how much of a negative slant we’re actually adding when we describe the federal government as being "merely interesting," because it feels like that phrasing carries this subtle, underlying weight—like there's a hidden motive or a specific direction it's pulling toward—and honestly, it keeps leading me back to this frustrating loop where I find myself using the word "interest" in two completely different ways, which doesn't help my case at all.
I’ve always felt that when we use the word "interest," there’s this subtle, slightly nasty undertone baked right into it that hints at pure ego. It carries this weight of self-centeredness, describing a mindset where someone views the entire world through such a narrow lens that they only see what serves them. It’s like they have this built-in reflex to filter everything—every conversation, every event, every person—through a single metric, automatically deciding what’s worth their time and what isn't based solely on how much it benefits them personally.
If we look at "interest" through a different lens, it really boils down to a fundamental need—that wide spectrum of requirements every living being has just to function. When we talk about what’s truly in someone's interest, we’re talking about their quality of life and making sure those basic needs actually get met. If you take that specific meaning of the word, then being open to someone else's needs—being the kind of person who is both willing and able to step up and help—becomes this deeply altruistic way of relating to them. It’s about looking out for what’s best for the person in need, even if, in a way, our own sense of purpose and connection is fueled by that very act of helping.

I really want to drive home the point that when we talk about being willing to step up and help others—that raw altruism and basic humanity—it isn’t just about having empathy or feeling someone else's pain. It goes much deeper than that, because at the end of the day, what truly drives us is our sense of morality, that heavy weight of duty, and just following our own conscience.
Look, if a government agency—one of those massive, bureaucratic institutions that’s supposed to serve the public interest—can't manage to be driven by actual empathy or any kind of selfless altruism, then honestly, it shouldn't be allowed to act out of pure, unadulterated ego either. It just doesn't make sense to me.

Look, if we’re actually being honest about everything I just laid out, then trying to argue that the system is inherently heartless doesn't really hold any water for me, because at the end of the day, the whole idea of accountability is baked right into the very foundation of how the system is supposed to function.

If I sit back and really look at the idea that the government apparatus exists solely to serve specific interests, I honestly think that might actually be enough to make a case for it. But I only mean it in the sense where, when you look at the relationship between a community and its representatives, "serving our interests" becomes the ultimate goal, because you have to view every single factor affecting the community through that lens of mutual interest.
When you look at how democracy actually functions, if the entire government apparatus starts acting like a completely detached entity that has zero connection to the people it’s supposed to serve, then the whole thing becomes nothing more than a hollow shell, where the substance is just being masked by a bunch of colorful, superficial layers.

Thinking that we’re actually doing more good by withholding help or just looking the other way—as if that somehow forces change—is completely backwards, and honestly, it sounds a lot like the logic used by that third group of people...

We really shouldn't be turning our backs or refusing to lend a hand when we can, because at the very least, that’s what we owe one another—but we have to be realistic and realize that simply patching things up isn't going to fix a chronic, systemic issue. True activism should, by its very nature, push further to find solutions within the existing framework, digging deep to tackle the root causes that keep these problems alive in the first place. But that's where you hit a wall... since success ultimately depends on the people who hold the actual decision-making power.

I skimmed through the articles in those links—not fully, because there’s just so much to get through—but I think we could draw another distinction here:
Volunteering to fill the gaps where the community is failing to improve the quality of life.
Volunteering to support the community by contributing to programs that are already up and running.

In that first scenario, activism should really be about initiating or creating entirely new pathways for progress.
In the second, you're just plugging into the systems that are already in motion.

Volunteers essentially represent the "conscientious neighborhood"—those community members who refuse to sit around waiting for some democratic management model to finally kick in and address local needs. They can't afford to wait, precisely because such a sluggish mechanism might be far too slow to react when a crisis actually hits.

So, what we are seeing here—what you are identifying as both a possibility and a necessity—is that the environment surrounding these volunteers (that segment of the population that remains passive in terms of volunteering, yet is theoretically active as a voting bloc) needs to support the political forces that actually care about the goals and tasks highlighted by the volunteers' actions.
Then, once those political forces secure a mandate from the voters, they can exert influence over the bureaucratic apparatus—which then uses its political leverage to allocate funds, activate agencies, find resources, put out RFPs, and propose or plan budgets...

That is how it works in theory, but—and this is the rub—what happens if the people, that very voting bloc, aren't particularly interested in tackling general community issues because they are already overwhelmed by their own personal problems? Which, let's face it, is usually the case in practice. Furthermore, in an environment crowded with massive crises—including those artificially amplified by the media—who is going to have the willpower to tackle the myriad of small, hidden issues that the public ignores?

To get this democratic problem-solving mechanism moving, you have to inform, educate, win over, mobilize, and raise awareness—essentially, you have to force the inactive, uninterested, and oblivious part of the public into action, which can only be achieved by leading through personal example. Imagine if someone trying to spark this movement was themselves completely disengaged... where would their legitimacy come from?

I remember watching a news segment once about volunteers who were taking in and feeding stray cats in their own apartments, houses, and yards—cats abandoned by owners who were away on summer vacations. It’s clear that, in a perfect world, we need to raise owner awareness to a more responsible level, control the population through spaying and neutering (for which owners or the community must fund), and ensure proper care and veterinary oversight. But until that systemic shift occurs, you have to deal with the reality of the moment and sensitize the public to the issue at hand.

volver said:What I want to emphasize is that, beyond empathy and compassion, other vital drivers for being willing and open to helping others—altruism and humanity—are morality, a sense of duty, and conscience...
And if the system (the governing body) cannot be altruistic based on those principles, then it certainly cannot be egocentric either.

Given everything I’ve laid out here, treating the system's lack of feeling as an unchangeable fact is actually irrelevant—because accountability is one of the core pillars upon which any functional system is built.

The bureaucratic machine carries responsibility, sure, but it isn't answerable to the community's needs directly—not on an ad hoc basis or in response to individual crises—but rather indirectly and broadly through political channels, by executing planned tasks within its jurisdiction and sticking to pre-allocated federal budgets; its direct accountability lies solely with its superiors—the Executive Branch and various federal agencies.

The Executive Branch, in turn, is held accountable to the Legislative Branch—Congress—for how it enforces laws and upholds the Constitution.

Take this scenario, for instance: an official working at the Department of Health and Human Services or a major insurance provider might deny a patient a life-saving medication simply because that specific drug isn't on the approved formulary covered by their budget. In the eyes of the bureaucracy, that is considered "responsible" behavior. If that official were to bypass the rules and approve the medication out of pure altruism—say, because they felt for a single mother struggling to provide for her five children—they would actually be deemed *irresponsible*... A situation remarkably similar to this happened quite recently, where a patient, aided by a friend who mobilized a grassroots fundraising network via Facebook and other online platforms, managed to crowdsource the funds to buy the expensive medication privately. Eventually, after some movement within the system, the bureaucracy finally caught up and approved the coverage.

So, I'm not suggesting that the bureaucracy shouldn't be empathetic—it just can't be, by definition—since empathy is a human trait, not a structural one. The system exists to apply rules, ensure compliance, and execute the law... and that's about it.

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