Dating the opposite sex

Brandon Mitchell said:If I’d actually done that, I probably would've lost it myself 🙂, seriously... is it really that hard to find one single normal person out there?

ironrider11 said:Maybe there’s no karma, maybe there aren't any deep questions or patterns... maybe it's all just organized chaos?
Maybe there's just this moment where you, as a collection of undefined, vibrating energy, realize everything only at the level of "me"... which isn't anything more than just part of the flow...
As such, this "me"... outside of the self... maybe doesn't even exist. There’s no grand meaning, no living inside some mold of stupid theories, rules, or regulations... it just is... vibrating in a given moment...
But that’s not enough. So then the "real me" prefers to pretend that things actually matter... that it's vital [to have an opinion] on why someone is gay, why someone is a pedophile,
why someone bites their tongue, why someone's vegan, why someone is more or less susceptible to this or that... and finally... most importantly...
where do I fit in... when I don't actually exist... in all of this. Because if I don't define myself within a mold of predetermined conditioning...
then I become everything I don't want to be... I become "that" instead of "me"... then those "others" don't exist... because they are just that too...
And the higher self doesn't want to be in that with them, even though it spends its whole life trying to nestle, fit in, and blend...
into the same thing... paradox... or just organized chaos...

What happens if someone spends a chunk of time doing the exact opposite of every single one of their beliefs, convictions, or efforts......
Can they eventually notice a cause-and-effect pattern? And does that pattern have anything to do with this so-called "karma"...?

If a certain situation actually played out and the host of the topic responded to it—on impulse...
by acting in a way or pattern that was "not themselves"... they'd probably get their answer to the question...
among the others that would arise from shifting the focus pattern [of self-perception... as the starting and ending point...
{"I'm starting to believe life is trying to screw me over"} the vibration of the universe]...

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Daniel Booth9 said:Perhaps she was intoxicated 😁
and simply didn't realize...
I am not trying to defend her, but one must wonder...
Could you not have found a better setting to approach her than inside a cramped car? Where else could her words go but directly toward you?😁

It is almost comical..
However, I find myself questioning why you rushed into this at all?
Given the circumstances, you had several options, yet you retreated like a child
in the presence of such an energetic woman.😁

Brandon Mitchell said:Sasro, I freaked out because after she bit me, she told me she was a total snake, and that really spooked me. I figured if I kept going, things would only end badly. Honestly, my luck with women is already pretty terrible, and most of them just leave me hanging—especially these types. Any advice?

Daniel Booth9 said:Perhaps some advice...

In the future, rather than asking for names, why not inquire about their psychological history?🙂

Brandon Mitchell said:Yeah, I suppose I could do that.

Kimberly Smith6 said:Honestly, once you get mixed up with any of them, they're all just as wild as the next—there really isn't an escape once you're caught up in their whirlwind! 🤣

But seriously, this is just the tip of the iceberg compared to what this particular one has put me through. We should all just sit back and have a good laugh at the whole ridiculous situation, haha.

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Daniel Booth9 said:It would be better for you to lose your mind than for us to swap roles just so I could offer you comfort...

I suppose I am truly the only person in the world who would somehow find a way to get bitten by a mosquito coming out of nowhere!

Disgusting.

Brandon Mitchell said:What on earth does any of this have to do with running a cookie factory in Algeria?

Brandon Mitchell;52656248 said:

Daniel Booth9 said:Oh, everything!

It’s all just different sides of the same shady business.

Of course it isn't organic.

One day you're fine, and the next, you're dealing with absolute chaos or discovering someone wasn't who they claimed to be.

So, one has to wonder—why is this happening?

Indeed.

Conspiracy theories, chemtrails, and cookies from overseas...

There is quite a significant amount of reading to be done. Is it not overwhelming?
Is it not a tragedy when one becomes egoistic, self-centered, and ultimately autodestructive?
Is there any true value left in the craft of a writer?
And yet, there seem to be even more of those mindless ones...
I have no desire to rely on medication, nor do I have the financial means to afford them. Is there truly another way?
While I was...
I shall not be disclosing that to you.
😛

Nature has always held a special place in my heart, especially in its untouched state. Is there anything more profound than the wild?
At some point during my early years of discovery, I began to find interest. Is that not how all great journeys begin?

Would it not be better if, following every tragedy we endure, we could simply visit a doctor and receive a single pill to ease the pain?
This forum would be a perfect fit for Mali.
Is every medication truly an effective solution? Not always.
If you do not assist yourself, who will?
I only ever found chemistry worth studying if there was a rave involved.
Even that was unnecessary.
I am self-sufficient and at peace with myself. Is there anything more important?
If you must know, I drink Chardonnay on a regular basis.🙂

Daniel Booth9;52659503 said:

Brandon Mitchell said:Ugh, way too much reading
of egoistic, self-absorbed, self-destructive
writers
and even more of those... mindless ones...
I don't rely on pills to get by, nor do I have the cash to waste on them
but while I am here...
well, I'm not going to tell you everything
😛

But honestly... nature has always been dear to me, raw and untouched
back when I was first discovering what I liked

God, if I had run to my doctor for a little pill after every single tragedy I lived through
Mali would think this forum was made just for me...
But see, a pill isn't a magic fix
not unless you actually help yourself first
The only time I ever acknowledged "chemicals" was during a rave party
though even then, I didn't really need them...
I am self-sufficient and I keep it clean...
Though if you absolutely must know, I'm a chronic Chardonnay drinker🙂

That was a great response, you actually gave me a good laugh, thank you for that🙂

Brandon Mitchell;52672123 said:

Daniel Booth9 said:There is quite a significant amount of reading to be done. Is it not overwhelming?
Is it not a tragedy when one becomes egoistic, self-centered, and ultimately autodestructive?
Is there any true value left in the craft of a writer?
And yet, there seem to be even more of those mindless ones...
I have no desire to rely on medication, nor do I have the financial means to afford them. Is there truly another way?
While I was...
I shall not be disclosing that to you.
😛

Nature has always held a special place in my heart, especially in its untouched state. Is there anything more profound than the wild?
At some point during my early years of discovery, I began to find interest. Is that not how all great journeys begin?

Would it not be better if, following every tragedy we endure, we could simply visit a doctor and receive a single pill to ease the pain?
This forum would be a perfect fit for Mali.
Is every medication truly an effective solution? Not always.
If you do not assist yourself, who will?
I only ever found chemistry worth studying if there was a rave involved.
Even that was unnecessary.
I am self-sufficient and at peace with myself. Is there anything more important?
If you must know, I drink Chardonnay on a regular basis.🙂