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Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#1 ·
The core issue here is essentially how far an individual intends to push their own self-development and spirituality, versus how much they settle for frivolous, fleeting quick fixes—those superficial religious veneers and New Age recipes typically cobbled together from religious or psychoanalytic theories dressed up in naive semantics.
The term "spirituality" itself, which relies on spirit as its central motif, ideologically implies a counterpoint to materialism; it suggests non-substantialism. In nearly all religious texts, the imperative to renounce material wealth emerges as a necessity for the spiritual and secular lives of religious figures—essentially acting as an idealistic paradigm.
Such a demand placed upon a human being stands in direct opposition to our innate nature, which is defined by the permanent attempt to satisfy our own internal voids. As one philosopher clarified, the very existence of passion is a clear indicator that human reality is one of scarcity. It is an unquenchable scarcity that easily devolves into compensation through extreme forms of human gratification, manifesting as blind greed and hatred.
Thus, it is clear that in the struggle against our own animality, man must sacrifice his inherent inclination toward materialism to slowly ascend toward, say, the divine, in order to reach what is ultimately a true ordering of reality. Truth is ugly, according to N.

However, it is difficult to realize this imperative *a priori*, and even harder to abandon the psychological primacy through which we live our lives: our instincts.
The reward is hazy; the state of consciousness belonging to a sublime spirit is an intangible unknown that cannot be pursued if one isn't even aware of its existence.

It is obvious that such a philosophy cannot be contemplated unless it is lived. It requires a different worldview, a different tuning of the nervous system—something that seems impossible to the average person. This requires either an innate quality or circumstances driven by a certain destined force.
Our needs and desires are, even historically speaking, replaceable as momentary pursuits. It would be absurd to suggest that a modern person wants exactly what an 18th-century resident wanted, such as a new carriage and a horse. Yet, that was just as much of a struggle for them as a luxury car is for someone today.

So, who is truly prepared to sublimate nature—that nature whose enchanting, scenic beauty we admire—while beneath our feet, a dramatically fatal and relentless war plays out as a compensation for the eternal deficiency felt by those who live?

An ambitious man who works for hours just to enjoy wealth still represents the ideal of human will and struggle, but can he simultaneously enjoy his entire estate in the same way a higher spirit can enjoy the entirety of its own hard-won, superhuman consciousness?
Tyler Baker6 Tyler Baker6 Member
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#2 ·
Look, I’m totally lost here 😕
I get wanting things to go higher—you definitely made your point clear in this thread—but you're aiming way too high 😁
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 Regular
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#3 ·
Maybe spirituality isn't some fancy, modern invention—it’s actually just our primal, baked-in instinct that kept us from dying out in the wild back in the day
silentwolf192 silentwolf192 Member
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#4 ·
1. I’m not entirely sure what you’re actually getting at here—what’s the real core of your question? Are you asking because you’re personally hunting for an answer, because there’s a specific problem weighing on you, or are you just throwing out a hypothetical scenario without any real skin in the game?

If I’ve parsed this correctly, your question is actually two-fold: "..how far will a person go in their pursuit of self-development and spiritual growth, versus how much they settle for frivolous, fleeting, instant fixes—those kinds of superficial religious vibes or New Age recipes that are basically just psychoanalytic theories dressed up in naive semantics?"

As for an answer to that: it depends entirely on the individual. It’s "it depends" on who they are and when they’re asking. There's no one-size-fits-all answer here.

Personally, I think the more important part is tucked away in the second half of your post. It's less of a direct question and more of a hypothesis regarding sacrifice and renunciation as the foundation for spirituality and the quest for higher states of consciousness or enlightenment.

On that point, I’d just say it isn't really about sacrifice or giving things up; it’s about discovering a different kind of satisfaction—one that makes things we used to prioritize taste bland or irrelevant by comparison. The mere experience of finding a greater sense of joy is enough motivation to keep moving forward. The real trick is just making sure we don't let the occasional life hit blow us off course or distance us from that positive practice. We all have those moments where we neglect our own well-being or toss our good habits out the window the second something goes wrong.

But that’s usually just a temporary lapse. Eventually, a person tends to drift back to what they know truly matters.
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#5 ·
Was my previous post too vague? 🤔 Essentially, I am using this platform to pose a fundamental challenge to established materialistic values. Not that there is anything particularly groundbreaking about that.
Yesterday, however, I decided to put forward a specific thesis: the absolute necessity of renouncing worldly desires in order to achieve spiritual growth. My emphasis lies on that necessity; anyone seeking the highest level of existence must become intensely objective and critical of the very rationalizations used to justify a materialistic, hedonistic lifestyle—a lifestyle that almost always comes at the expense of spiritual evolution.
My own spiritual worldview is drawn from Buddhist and existentialist philosophies. I omitted that previously, but I am mentioning it now for the sake of clarity. Both philosophical schools, in their core value formulations, lean toward nihilism by denying the ultimate, absolute Being—that is, God existing behind the veil of reality. In my case (as with many others observing from the outside), that a priori understanding—where the state of mind reached through both renunciation and dedicated meditative reduction is nearly impossible to describe in words, let alone feel—remains a mystery to me. But that does not mean it is mere nonsense.
This isn't just limited to Buddhism or existentialism; even Jesus Christ lived in poverty, famously noting how difficult it is for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle. It seems that renunciation is a spiritual inevitability. If we refuse to accept the rules of the game, we cannot expect to actually play; we will be left with nothing but an illusion.
All these modern assumptions regarding spiritual development through sexuality, Tantra, or those neo-yogic cults of the body—which is essentially how yoga has been degraded here in the West—are complete nonsense. Look, not everyone is going to agree with me, but I know my mind and I know why I hold these views, so I have no desire to drag this into a protracted debate.

Or consider how Buddhism defines human happiness: as the ratio between what we desire and what we actually possess. Given that human beings are inherently insatiable, the only logical and rational way to solve this equation is to reduce our desires rather than constantly accumulating more stuff. Of course, that isn't the instinctive way to live.
hiddenbear3 hiddenbear3 Active Member
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#6 ·
People tend to bury themselves deep within their own thoughts, essentially letting their fears dictate which quotes they adopt as absolute truth. They turn these snippets into rigid laws by which they measure everything else, which unfortunately leads to years of stagnation—though it seems to be an unavoidable part of human nature. What’s most disappointing, though, is seeing people cling so blindly to the lines of a single book; it kills any hope for a genuine dialogue built on a diversity of perspectives.
It isn't as if people haven't been paying attention to the world around them, only to realize that much of what is called "dialogue" is actually just a facade. In many cases, the true goal isn't understanding, but rather the establishment and preservation of dogma for its own sake.

Given the scope of this PDF, I really think we should be communicating at a much higher level. After all, religion exists specifically to provide a framework for these kinds of deep, dogmatic debates.
silentwolf192 silentwolf192 Member
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#7 ·
"you know where you stand, and you're choosing not to get into it"

I’m still trying to wrap my head around why this topic was even started in the first place.
Terry Adams5 Terry Adams5 Newcomer
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#8 ·
The drive to be better is just part of being human. It’s instinctive. To me, the whole point of spirituality is reaching that level of connection with God—that’s how we were designed to function. Of course, Adam and Eve messed everything up right at the start, and some people still insist on overcomplicating things; I guess that's why we have Steve. :-) Personally, I don't think God feels threatened by us making any spiritual progress. :-)
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#9 ·
You're talking nonsense 😲 😍
hiddenbear3 said:People tend to bury themselves deep within their own thoughts, essentially letting their fears dictate which quotes they adopt as absolute truth. They turn these snippets into rigid laws by which they measure everything else, which unfortunately leads to years of stagnation—though it seems to be an unavoidable part of human nature. What’s most disappointing, though, is seeing people cling so blindly to the lines of a single book; it kills any hope for a genuine dialogue built on a diversity of perspectives.
It isn't as if people haven't been paying attention to the world around them, only to realize that much of what is called "dialogue" is actually just a facade. In many cases, the true goal isn't understanding, but rather the establishment and preservation of dogma for its own sake.

Given the scope of this PDF, I really think we should be communicating at a much higher level. After all, religion exists specifically to provide a framework for these kinds of deep, dogmatic debates.

In reality, accepting a pessimistic view of existential conditions isn't exactly an escape from fear.
They cling to certain quotes that become laws by which they measure everything else, causing them to stagnate for years, though I suppose that seems inevitable. And what’s most pathetic is that you're enslaved to a single quote from one book.

Man is a being of desire. Consequently, he is necessarily not free from the objects of his own desires, making him their slave. Therefore, you aren't in any better position than I am.👍
It isn't about "a quote from one book," but rather a fundamental premise of entire branches of philosophy and psychology—a vast body of literature that I haven't even finished reading yet. 😲
It's not as if people are idiots who can't see how a conversation ends, or fail to realize that dialogue is merely a deception where the goal is dogma, or even dogma itself.

I intentionally omitted my sources in the original post specifically to avoid these kinds of comments—which are possible, but hardly justified. Later, in an effort toward clarity and mutual understanding, I included them. These philosophies aren't dogmatic in their ideological leanings; quite the opposite. What *is* dogmatic is your stance, which reeks of a one-sided Marxian opium-fixation and is clearly based on your total ignorance of the subject at hand.
Communication on this forum should happen at a slightly higher level; religion is meant for dogmatic debates.

The PDF covers spirituality, and the primary source of spirituality isn't some Ouija board—it's religion, so those two currents naturally align. However, I deliberately avoided using the word "religion" and used "philosophy" instead (which, as you wish, dialectically clarifies religious theses or hypotheses), so there, that aligns with spirituality too.
As for what you consider a "higher level," I have no idea what you mean. 😲
silentwolf192 said:"you know where you stand, and you're choosing not to get into it"

I’m still trying to wrap my head around why this topic was even started in the first place.

I have no interest in debating things that aren't actually the point here; I don't want this to veer off the rails right out of the gate (though, looking at this, it seems 😬 it already has), but if you truly believe you can provide some high-quality, well-reasoned arguments that actually broaden the scope despite the restrictions being proposed, then by all means, let's hear it. 👍
silentwolf192 silentwolf192 Member
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#10 ·
I’m digging the new profile pic, Casey Gomez. Is that actually you? Now I totally get why you picked that nickname 😉

Alright, jokes aside, let me just reiterate my point—though I suspect my take might be a bit too soft for some people here. I honestly believe that extreme asceticism mostly just breeds neuroses that eventually boil over, much like how pure hedonism becomes its own empty goal. If you instead treat health and moderation as your guiding lights, I think you’ll find the right path. Sure, there isn't always some massive, obvious sign that you're on the right track—not externally, and certainly not immediately from within—but if you stay persistent and patient, it eventually shows itself.
hiddenbear3 hiddenbear3 Active Member
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#11 ·
Terry Adams5 said:The drive to be better is just part of being human. It’s instinctive. To me, the whole point of spirituality is reaching that level of connection with God—that’s how we were designed to function. Of course, Adam and Eve messed everything up right at the start, and some people still insist on overcomplicating things; I guess that's why we have Steve. :-) Personally, I don't think God feels threatened by us making any spiritual progress. :-)

Why focus so much on being preoccupied with God?
Isn't the very essence of existence, and our true purpose, impossible to achieve without an observer—or perhaps an imaginary version of ourselves that acts as a divine judge to our own souls?
Ryan Rogers5 Ryan Rogers5 Member
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#12 ·
silentwolf192 said:I’m digging the new profile pic, Casey Gomez. Is that actually you? Now I totally get why you picked that nickname 😉

Alright, jokes aside, let me just reiterate my point—though I suspect my take might be a bit too soft for some people here. I honestly believe that extreme asceticism mostly just breeds neuroses that eventually boil over, much like how pure hedonism becomes its own empty goal. If you instead treat health and moderation as your guiding lights, I think you’ll find the right path. Sure, there isn't always some massive, obvious sign that you're on the right track—not externally, and certainly not immediately from within—but if you stay persistent and patient, it eventually shows itself.

"The soul is weightier than the body, and the man is more than his suit"—Jesus Christ
If you approach asceticism gradually and under spiritual guidance, you don't run into those neurotic issues.
Going cold turkey on everything is dangerous—just like anything else you try to rush into without being prepared.
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#13 ·
silentwolf192 said:I’m digging the new profile pic, Casey Gomez. Is that actually you? Now I totally get why you picked that nickname 😉

Alright, jokes aside, let me just reiterate my point—though I suspect my take might be a bit too soft for some people here. I honestly believe that extreme asceticism mostly just breeds neuroses that eventually boil over, much like how pure hedonism becomes its own empty goal. If you instead treat health and moderation as your guiding lights, I think you’ll find the right path. Sure, there isn't always some massive, obvious sign that you're on the right track—not externally, and certainly not immediately from within—but if you stay persistent and patient, it eventually shows itself.

As Lord Buddha wisely concluded after initially practicing an extreme, self-destructive form of asceticism—which he later rejected as an inadequate path—we can see the difference by comparing his depiction here with his later worldview, for instance here, where he appears slightly more robust. 👍
To be clear, I am not advocating for arbitrary eating disorders driven by a misguided desire for spiritual progress; a person must know how to find balance. The imperative lies in rationality, even if that remains a variable factor. 😬
What I am proposing is a gradual yet decisive adaptation. After all, we live in a material world.
Furthermore, I am not condemning materialism or hedonism through some Catholic lens of sin, but rather viewing them as causal obstacles to psychological and spiritual development.
Anyway, here is a quick link so this doesn't sound overly religious and to clarify the origin of my stance.
And naturally,
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism
casualtiger2 casualtiger2 Regular
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#14 ·
Casey Gomez said:The core issue here is essentially how far an individual intends to push their own self-development and spirituality, versus how much they settle for frivolous, fleeting quick fixes—those superficial religious veneers and New Age recipes typically cobbled together from religious or psychoanalytic theories dressed up in naive semantics.
The term "spirituality" itself, which relies on spirit as its central motif, ideologically implies a counterpoint to materialism; it suggests non-substantialism. In nearly all religious texts, the imperative to renounce material wealth emerges as a necessity for the spiritual and secular lives of religious figures—essentially acting as an idealistic paradigm.
Such a demand placed upon a human being stands in direct opposition to our innate nature, which is defined by the permanent attempt to satisfy our own internal voids. As one philosopher clarified, the very existence of passion is a clear indicator that human reality is one of scarcity. It is an unquenchable scarcity that easily devolves into compensation through extreme forms of human gratification, manifesting as blind greed and hatred.
Thus, it is clear that in the struggle against our own animality, man must sacrifice his inherent inclination toward materialism to slowly ascend toward, say, the divine, in order to reach what is ultimately a true ordering of reality. Truth is ugly, according to N.

However, it is difficult to realize this imperative *a priori*, and even harder to abandon the psychological primacy through which we live our lives: our instincts.
The reward is hazy; the state of consciousness belonging to a sublime spirit is an intangible unknown that cannot be pursued if one isn't even aware of its existence.

It is obvious that such a philosophy cannot be contemplated unless it is lived. It requires a different worldview, a different tuning of the nervous system—something that seems impossible to the average person. This requires either an innate quality or circumstances driven by a certain destined force.
Our needs and desires are, even historically speaking, replaceable as momentary pursuits. It would be absurd to suggest that a modern person wants exactly what an 18th-century resident wanted, such as a new carriage and a horse. Yet, that was just as much of a struggle for them as a luxury car is for someone today.

So, who is truly prepared to sublimate nature—that nature whose enchanting, scenic beauty we admire—while beneath our feet, a dramatically fatal and relentless war plays out as a compensation for the eternal deficiency felt by those who live?

An ambitious man who works for hours just to enjoy wealth still represents the ideal of human will and struggle, but can he simultaneously enjoy his entire estate in the same way a higher spirit can enjoy the entirety of its own hard-won, superhuman consciousness?

So, they say the spirit is "non-material." If that's the case—how is physical matter supposed to touch it in the first place?

Almost every religious text out there hits the same note—this idea that you have to ditch your material possessions if you want to actually live a meaningful life, whether you're looking at it from a spiritual or just a practical standpoint. It’s basically become the ultimate idealistic paradigm.

So, how exactly do you pull off that whole "spiritual growth imperative" when you're surrounded by stuff? I mean—if Jesus Christ had access to high-speed internet, would he have even bothered becoming who he was? Think about it. How do you handle the laptop, the fridge, the washing machine, the heater, or the stove? What about your house, your bed, your car, your clothes, or your sneakers? Then there's the food situation—everything from basic groceries to a jar of Nutella—not to mention soap, the bathroom, your phone, intimacy, or even those modern diapers (because if you’re still using cloth, you definitely need that washing machine). And don't get me started on soccer balls and all that other sports gear. How does any of that fit into the "ascetic" picture?
Sure, it works in theory—but honestly, a real-world example would be way more helpful.
Scott Miller4 Scott Miller4 Active Member
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#15 ·
I’m not entirely sure I follow what you're actually getting at here; it’s a bit tough to pin down your main point from just the opening post.

The concept of asceticism is pretty interesting to me, especially when you look at how it might actually boost health or general human functionality. Then again, asceticism is basically a form of suffering—it’s essentially the intentional decision to deny a desire that could easily be satisfied.

Humans have all sorts of needs. I suppose you could say that the drive for self-actualization—let's call it spirituality, for the sake of argument—comes way, way after the basic requirements like food, water, sex, and social connection. Asceticism seems to target those primary, foundational needs directly.
If those core needs aren't met, it leads to frustration or even death, I guess...

At the end of the day, humans are evolving animals. It’s possible that, eventually, the need for self-actualization or spirituality will rise up to become one of those primary drivers...
silentwolf192 silentwolf192 Member
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#16 ·
silentwolf192 here. Personally, I think the whole asceticism thing actually makes sense if you look at it through a different lens: it’s really just about streamlining your life. If you cut out all the trivial nonsense, you aren't wasting precious time or energy on things that don't matter. It doesn't even feel like much of a sacrifice, honestly—it's more like leaning into that natural human instinct to seek out simplicity and ease.
I just don't get this whole asceticism thing—this idea that you have to reject everything actually good and life-affirming just to find spiritual clarity. Some people seem obsessed with that path of total deprivation, basically insisting on punishing their own bodies through suffering just to reach some kind of "freedom." And look, maybe for some folks, that’s a valid route. I'm not saying it isn't possible. But personally? Since I don't believe that misery is a prerequisite for growth, I’m definitely not going down that road.
Look, if I decide to skip out on meat or cut back on the sweets, it’s not some strict "access" thing or a rigid dietary protocol I'm following. It’s much simpler than that—I’m just listening to my gut. Honestly, I just go where my intuition takes me.
I’m actually inclined to believe that if Aako views suffering as this ultimate agony, then the whole thing is pretty much pointless. I mean, the spirit remains tethered regardless, right? And yet, there are certain things you just have to purge through pain—like getting clean from heroin or having a rotten tooth yanked out by a dentist. You can't really bypass the grit of it.
Maybe my take on enlightenment is a little too hedonistic for some, but hear me out. I truly believe that motivation has to come from a positive place if you actually want to reach that state of peace and bliss without all the unnecessary suffering. If the end goal is finding the light, then why shouldn't the journey itself be driven by that? Sure, people talk about asceticism or intense catharsis, but even those paths are supposed to lead toward something better. For me, I try to keep the path itself positive and cut out the misery—unless, of course, the struggle is absolutely necessary to get where I'm going.
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#17 ·
casualtiger2 said:So, they say the spirit is "non-material." If that's the case—how is physical matter supposed to touch it in the first place?

Almost every religious text out there hits the same note—this idea that you have to ditch your material possessions if you want to actually live a meaningful life, whether you're looking at it from a spiritual or just a practical standpoint. It’s basically become the ultimate idealistic paradigm.

So, how exactly do you pull off that whole "spiritual growth imperative" when you're surrounded by stuff? I mean—if Jesus Christ had access to high-speed internet, would he have even bothered becoming who he was? Think about it. How do you handle the laptop, the fridge, the washing machine, the heater, or the stove? What about your house, your bed, your car, your clothes, or your sneakers? Then there's the food situation—everything from basic groceries to a jar of Nutella—not to mention soap, the bathroom, your phone, intimacy, or even those modern diapers (because if you’re still using cloth, you definitely need that washing machine). And don't get me started on soccer balls and all that other sports gear. How does any of that fit into the "ascetic" picture?
Sure, it works in theory—but honestly, a real-world example would be way more helpful.

I am discussing semantic differentiation. Regarding the concept of contact: how exactly is it that two protons don't simply annihilate one another upon impact, given that they both carry the exact same charge? 😲 Look, I am strictly addressing the ideological aspect here.
How exactly does one implement this supposed "ascetic imperative of spiritual development" when it comes to computing?

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Just think about it. 😲
I can't provide a specific example right now, but I’m certainly giving it some thought.
Scott Miller4 said:I’m not entirely sure I follow what you're actually getting at here; it’s a bit tough to pin down your main point from just the opening post.

The concept of asceticism is pretty interesting to me, especially when you look at how it might actually boost health or general human functionality. Then again, asceticism is basically a form of suffering—it’s essentially the intentional decision to deny a desire that could easily be satisfied.

Humans have all sorts of needs. I suppose you could say that the drive for self-actualization—let's call it spirituality, for the sake of argument—comes way, way after the basic requirements like food, water, sex, and social connection. Asceticism seems to target those primary, foundational needs directly.
If those core needs aren't met, it leads to frustration or even death, I guess...

At the end of the day, humans are evolving animals. It’s possible that, eventually, the need for self-actualization or spirituality will rise up to become one of those primary drivers...

Well, at least I'm not working at Microsoft. 😲
Asceticism is quite fascinating to me, particularly its... The primary drivers behind enhancing human health and optimizing overall physiological functionality are quite straightforward. One cannot simply hope for vitality; one must actively engineer it through disciplined lifestyle choices and biological optimization..

You’re practically tempting me to sin. 😬
Asceticism is nothing more than a form of suffering—it is the direct refusal to satisfy a desire that could easily be fulfilled.

You’re right about that. But a person enters into self-denial with full awareness of what they're doing. If one only... bit Interpret her desires and her will as her own. Constant dissatisfaction.It’s a foregone conclusion that you’ll always be chasing her approval; desire itself is a bottomless pit that can never truly be satiated. It simply shifts its focus from one object of longing to the next. This is the fundamental absurdity of human existence—or life in general—where man is essentially defined by nothing more than "useless passion."
On the other hand, if a person... Learn. By practicing mental discipline and learning to want less, you move closer to that ultimate state of freedom. Because true freedom isn't about having everything; it's about needing nothing. I want it, free of charge. Already. I'm good, thanks.True freedom lies in that moment of resigned apathy—that deliberate choice to opt out of whatever you were previously striving for. Take push-ups, for example. When your muscles are screaming and the pain becomes unbearable, you reach a point where you can choose to stop or force yourself to continue. Choosing to quit in that moment isn't just giving up; it’s an exercise of agency. You are essentially saying, "I choose not to." That is the ultimate expression of being free.
Look, this isn't about push-ups. We aren't talking about some basic fitness routine here. This is about the systematic erosion of desire itself—a fundamental reduction of the very will and impulse that defines the human condition.

Humans have a hierarchy of needs. Self-actualization—which I’d categorize under spirituality—only emerges much, much later than the basic requirements for food, water, sex, and social connection. Asceticism specifically targets those primary drives.

Certain needs simply take precedence over others. Water, food, and warmth are fundamental. Following those come reproduction, then community, and finally social status. These are all pure instinct.
Unmet needs lead directly to frustration or even death...

Suppressing desires into the unconscious clearly results in psychological ailments, manifesting as a reflexive response through autonomous, complex psychic consciousness.
However, we are discussing conscious, rational reduction here, not forced suppression via something like moral condemnation.
Again, man is an evolving animal; it is entirely possible that the need for self-actualization or spirituality will eventually rise to become a primary drive...

Supposedly, we are actually less intelligent than the average citizen of Ancient Greece. We just have Google and stuff. 😲
Our only path toward evolution might be as android beings, similar to what was depicted in the film A. I.
But evolution is driven by will—I generally use "will" or "desire" as an all-encompassing term, somewhat akin to the concept of God—whereas in this world of desire and its inevitable consequence of suffering, the entire point is to quiet that desire.

Ultimately, we are talking about a sublime state of spirit that no longer requires anything. An independent spirit. I’ve read about these states of consciousness. Anyway. Cheers. Anyway.
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active MemberOP
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#18 ·
Let me clarify my position. I realize I’ve been a bit vague—I wasn't even trying to be difficult. Honestly, who can make sense of any of this? I've sharpened my pen, dipped it in ink, and thinned it out just enough so it glides a little smoother. Just kidding. No big deal. It’s not about me; it’s about the stance itself.
Humans are fragile creatures. I see it all the time. A tiny vessel in the brain bursts, a blockage occurs, some driver coming the other way is messing with his radio or fumbling for his phone after slamming on the brakes too hard, and suddenly someone is thrown from their seat. They aren't at fault; they were just struck by the unpredictable claws of fate. It isn't always fatal. The morning news reports more severe injuries based on information from the Department of Justice. Information, that is. Behind those words lies someone's actual destiny. An incompetent technician in the ER ruins their life forever. After him, the doctors follow suit permanently. The chain reaction slides right across a metal window.
The truth is, people take their health, the health of their wives, their spouses, or their children—as Kubrick once pointed out—for granted. Their home, their car; it's all right here. Though it's all temporary.
Everything looks great; we are striving toward the European Union, aiming for a civilized culture with the pleasant aroma of Napa Valley oaks, better pay, a higher standard of living, leather seats, and extra features.
But most people remain miserable, far beyond our sight. Look at the steel grates on the skyscrapers where Apple factory workers jump from windows straight onto the hard concrete below. That's bad PR—not the Hollywood kind. Even the cattle have revolted, leaving the calves standing there bewildered. It takes a man longer to find his footing.
It is what they call Samsara. Our legacy is inevitable. Circumstances have handed you a keyboard under a lamp right now instead of a hammer against a stone. You claim to be adults, responsible for yourselves, but I am thinking of the immature ones. The world is a playground for pariahs.
So. Perhaps that's a bit clearer now.
Besides, it's spring. It's warm outside. Women are feeling that seasonal heat again. 😲 Desire is a heavy burden. I'm giving it away for free. I'll even pay you to take it; just use it, carry it, and don't you dare try to return it. Toss it when you're done.

Oh, and imagine a cozy little shack made of straw and mud in the middle of nowhere. I might just set up a military-grade wideband antenna. Maybe I'll keep that extra suction nozzle too.
I have to go mow the lawn now.
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#19 ·
The ascetic imperative... yeah, right... anyone can claim they want that. But just imagine if that imperative were brutally material—if you actually needed a million dollars just to begin your journey toward spiritual enlightenment.

Well, that wouldn't work, would it? Such a religion wouldn't be accessible to everyone.

There’s no safety net there. What's going to keep you warm during a blizzard? Are you allowed to kill to eat? Can you gut a deer to prep the meat, or cold-bloodedly slaughter a rabbit that wandered into your trap? And so on, and so forth.

It’s all very easy to type away from the comfort of a heated room. It's easy when, instead of trekking through the wilderness while starving, you just walk over to a 7-Eleven. When you're thirsty, you turn on a faucet instead of hiking to a spring in the middle of the night. And when nature calls, you have a bathroom rather than a hole in the dirt.

I am genuinely fascinated by these "spiritualists" who preach about returning to nature, yet seem to have absolutely no grasp of everything modern civilization has provided for us.
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silentwolf192 said:silentwolf192 here. Personally, I think the whole asceticism thing actually makes sense if you look at it through a different lens: it’s really just about streamlining your life. If you cut out all the trivial nonsense, you aren't wasting precious time or energy on things that don't matter. It doesn't even feel like much of a sacrifice, honestly—it's more like leaning into that natural human instinct to seek out simplicity and ease.
I just don't get this whole asceticism thing—this idea that you have to reject everything actually good and life-affirming just to find spiritual clarity. Some people seem obsessed with that path of total deprivation, basically insisting on punishing their own bodies through suffering just to reach some kind of "freedom." And look, maybe for some folks, that’s a valid route. I'm not saying it isn't possible. But personally? Since I don't believe that misery is a prerequisite for growth, I’m definitely not going down that road.
Look, if I decide to skip out on meat or cut back on the sweets, it’s not some strict "access" thing or a rigid dietary protocol I'm following. It’s much simpler than that—I’m just listening to my gut. Honestly, I just go where my intuition takes me.
I’m actually inclined to believe that if Aako views suffering as this ultimate agony, then the whole thing is pretty much pointless. I mean, the spirit remains tethered regardless, right? And yet, there are certain things you just have to purge through pain—like getting clean from heroin or having a rotten tooth yanked out by a dentist. You can't really bypass the grit of it.
Maybe my take on enlightenment is a little too hedonistic for some, but hear me out. I truly believe that motivation has to come from a positive place if you actually want to reach that state of peace and bliss without all the unnecessary suffering. If the end goal is finding the light, then why shouldn't the journey itself be driven by that? Sure, people talk about asceticism or intense catharsis, but even those paths are supposed to lead toward something better. For me, I try to keep the path itself positive and cut out the misery—unless, of course, the struggle is absolutely necessary to get where I'm going.

You won't find any spiritual growth in chasing material pleasures, and you can't have true devotion without facing some hardship.
Honestly, that’s stuff that’s been explored and said a thousand times before.

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