Samuel Harris10 said:I’ve been chewing on this lately—really dwelling on it. What does a healthy, or even just a "normal," ratio between these two things look like?
Awareness, I suspect, ought to be a state free from judgment, strain, or the constant urge to draw conclusions—just pure experience. Thinking, on the other hand, should ideally be the process that actually facilitates that.
But what is the actual purpose of thinking? Is there a point to it? Would we all be fundamentally happier if we could just *be*—you know, existing purely through awareness, guided by sensation and direct experience rather than mental gymnastics? To me, thinking often feels like nothing more than a byproduct of negative experiences. Sure, it can be useful if applied creatively, but is that really how we were meant to organize our entire world?
Think about a newborn. They just exist, happy and curious, exploring everything. Then we step in and interrupt that flow, forcing them toward specific goals and reasons. We’ve all said it at some point—how much better life was when we didn't have a care in the world or a single nagging thought in our heads. Why do we even need this cognitive overhead? If we assume that individual happiness is the ultimate goal, then I fail to see why we need any of this. All this formalized knowledge... it doesn't seem to serve the human spirit. You're hungry, you eat; you're tired, you sleep; you feel desire, you follow it. Isn't that how we're wired? Just following our basic needs seems like the only path to contentment, yet today everyone is just sprinting toward some hollow, superficial prize.
To be aware of something simply means recognizing its existence. That’s it. It doesn't imply whether that thing is good or bad, right or wrong; it just acknowledges that it exists.
Thinking about that thing then "carves out" your character—essentially, assigning attributes to what you are aware of defines who you are as a person.
What kind of ratio are you looking for? You should be aware of everything, and you should think about everything too, but with the strict limitation that your thinking doesn't turn into an obsession. You need to reach a conclusion; thinking needs to have a goal.
Take money, for example. You're aware it exists and that everyone around you is chasing it for goods and services, but you're equally aware that the world would spin just fine without it. It isn't an absolute necessity in the same way air, water, food, soil, or sunlight are.
Through thinking, you find the balance—you need money, but not at any cost. You set your own terms.
What is the actual role or purpose of thinking? Would people be happier if they could just "be"—meaning, existing purely through awareness, guided by feelings and experiences rather than thought?
Insight. Knowledge. The product or fruit of the two. Progress. Evolution. That is, in a nutshell, the purpose of thinking.
And what is happiness? Is happiness strictly following a biological program—being born, reproducing as much as possible, eating whatever you can catch, and dying?
Or is happiness something else entirely for you? Happiness is whatever you choose it to be.
For me, happiness is my work, which isn't really a "job" but a lifestyle that simultaneously funds that very life. It includes a family that supports me and whom I support, enough material stability to function normally in the modern world—meaning a place to live, a house with some land, a vehicle, tools, access to information, and maybe even a vacation spot, though even my house is in a great enough location to serve as a summer retreat while still being connected to civilization.
When a baby is born, it just "is." It's happy, it explores. Then we step in, interrupt that, and direct them toward certain things and reasons. We all love saying how great life was when we were young and had neither worries nor a lick of sense. Why do we even need this? If we assume happiness is the ultimate goal for every individual, I don't see why we need all this. I don't see how all this formalized knowledge actually benefits a person.
Because if everyone thought like that, we wouldn't exist. Formalized knowledge built our civilization, our communication, our art, our infrastructure, and allowed us to understand the cosmos and the world around us. That's why you need to interrupt "being."
You have to view yourself as a gear or a brick helping to keep the building standing—that is, keeping civilization alive. That requires sacrifice, of various kinds. You have to be useful to society for civilization to endure. You need to be a contributing factor, not a parasite, because parasites tear civilizations down.
So you eat, you sleep, you feel good, you satisfy your urges—isn't that just how we're wired? Isn't the whole point to follow our instincts if we want any semblance of happiness? Nowadays, everyone is just sprinting after empty status symbols.
Humans weren't "created" that way; we evolved from those exact creatures you're talking about.
But look where those creatures ended up. They’re beneath you. You step on them, they don't step on you. Believe me, if you weren't crushing them—starting with viruses and bacteria—they’d be wiping us out without a second thought for "peaceful coexistence."
Life is a struggle, and you need to accept that. If you don't put in the work, you won't survive. Living purely by those principles you mentioned—just chasing pleasure—leads straight to ruin. It's not about hedonism; it's about structure and sacrifice. The only real question is what you're willing to sacrifice for, and whether those goals are actually worth the cost.
Take me, for example. I have zero interest in wasting my time moving piles of paperwork or shifting data from one folder to another on a computer. My goal isn't to be some Wall Street banker hoarding digital numbers in a vault or a checking account. To me, that's a complete waste of time. It contributes nothing to the world and offers no tribute to civilization.
Then again... without banks and money, the world wouldn't be half as developed as it is. Money built the modern world, for better or worse. Personally, I think it's done more good than harm. Without it, we wouldn't have reached this level of population density, nor would we be dealing with the specific mess we deal with today.
The bottom line is that you have to decide for yourself what your objective is and which goals are worth spending your life on.
Someone once said—maybe it was the Dalai Lama or someone similar—“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” That’s the gist of it. Don't sit around waiting for other people to build the world you want; go out and build it yourself.
To do that, you need a clear vision. You need a purpose worth sacrificing your life for. You have to relentlessly demonstrate that vision to the people around you, and once they start believing in it too, it becomes a reality.
If you watch a documentary on Elon Musk (the guy behind PayPal, SolarCity, SpaceX, Tesla... there's plenty more where that came from), you'll see exactly how that works in practice.
You don't necessarily have to be a genius (though he clearly is), but you do need an unwavering, crystal-clear stance and a vision. Everything else tends to fall into place naturally, provided you don't lose sight of the blueprint.
As for me, hedonism is a massive waste of time. Chasing money and fame is the same thing—it's just squandering the only truly precious resource we have: time.