Richard James2 said:It’s easy for this debate to spiral into petty bickering, but hey, that’s just how these topics go. Given the way everyone is throwing around credentials from all sides and the fact that we’re all hanging out on the internet, I’m just going to drop one thought here. Please, don't quote me; I have zero intention of engaging in a back-and-forth, but I feel almost obligated to say this. Last week in Rome, a 15-year-old boy took his own life—most likely because he was gay. What pushed him over the edge? Cyberbullying. After enough people on Facebook piled on with insults about his manicured nails or his pink pants, he reached his breaking point. Since we're operating in digital spaces, we shouldn't forget that words actually have consequences and they hurt. If you can't dismantle an opponent's argument with actual logic, it’s better not to sink into shallow, crude ad hominem attacks. This isn't just happening anywhere; it’s a trend among *everyone*, and if you ask anyone, they'll tell you that playing the mudslinging game is the favorite pastime of those who claim to be "enlightened." Don't think for a second that I'm pointing my finger at any specific group, oh no.
Look, don't stoop that low. In the heat of a process, you might end up dragging down someone who doesn't deserve the smear.
Even though you asked me not to quote you, I’m going to do it anyway, because what you just said is really the common thread in all these kinds of discussions.
Tolerance.
It’s just encouraging intolerance.
Who exactly is fueling intolerance these days?
It’s mostly those gay activists, really. They seem to be everywhere. Even here on this forum, just through how certain threads get moderated—not that I'm trying to criticize anyone specifically, but that whole experience left me feeling so frustrated that I find myself being a bit less tolerant toward any kind of gay activism lately.
The issue is that some gay activists can't handle the fact that society has actually become tolerant toward them. They don't want peace; they want conflict. When things stay calm, they feel the need to stir the pot with increasingly radical demands or by openly insulting people just to provoke a reaction.
Do you really think those activists actually care about that 15-year-old kid? Honestly, I don't think so. They're probably just thrilled to have a fresh topic to run with—homophobia, hate speech, and all that.
I consider myself a pretty tolerant person. I don't care what others do as long as they aren't disrupting my life, the lives of those close to me, or harming society at large. But when people constantly try to label me a homophobe just because I'm not 100% enthusiastic about pride parades or adoption requests, I have to wonder who's actually driving that narrative. Is that really the consensus among the gay community—that they need parades, adoption rights, and for legal unions to be called "marriage"?
It's either because they're forcing certain values on my kids at school that I just don't agree with, or because I simply don't feel like I'm allowed to say so.
Well, if people are going to label me a homophobe just for having an opinion, then fine—I’ll lean into it. I guess I have no choice but to embrace the title. If being "intolerant" means standing my ground against anyone trying to force their views on me, then that's exactly what I'll be. The more they try to push things down my throat, the more I'm going to resist.
Let's take a closer look at that protest in Paris. It was actually quite peaceful; most of the people there seemed like family types—maybe even religious folks or traditionalists. They were just showing they disagree with the new law. Nobody was out there spreading hate or being intolerant. I didn't see anyone carrying signs with hateful slogans or anything like that, you know?
And then you have groups like Femen showing up just to spread hate, carrying hateful signs and starting trouble everywhere they go.
Can you imagine if some far-right radicals showed up to a Pride parade acting like this—carrying signs that say "hate gay" or "in Hitler we trust" and spraying participants and police with fire extinguishers? How many years of prison time would they actually face under summary judgment?