mistybison said:The "Philosophy" subforum is basically a guys' pub, so I’d suggest the author stick to other sections to discuss her interests. 🙂
1.)
I honestly think this post is sexist—specifically, "woman-sexist." 😁
2) First off, let me say that I don't buy into the whole sexism thing; to me, it feels like an ideology used as a vague way to throw accusations mostly at men...
based on those ever-shifting standards where
if a man is quiet and polite, he's just a pushover
but if he's active, suddenly he's some macho type or an aggressor. 😁
3)
By the logic of those looking for sexism everywhere, then mistybison's text would be considered sexist. She quite pointedly, and somewhat condescendingly, labeled the Philosophy section as "male," even though plenty of women write there too.
And she intentionally chose to call it a "pub" rather than a cafe. 😁
See, calling something a "pub" carries a certain lower status compared to a cafe, a bar, a club, or a restaurant.
4)
So, it’s pretty obvious that mistybison wrote a "man-sexist" post intended to belittle both the Philosophy section and the men who contribute to it.
5)
Personally, though, I find this post entertaining. It actually makes me smile because mistybison almost always writes so politely and gracefully, with such genuine understanding. If we were sitting in a lively bar or a pub right now, I’d probably try to playfully point out that inconsistency to everyone, including her. 😁
6)
But here’s the kicker: when someone writes something "harsh" in a "masculine" way, people feel forced to react. To me, that’s just a more blunt, masculine way of expressing criticism toward someone or something.