Angela Reyes3
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joined Sep 2010
I’ll be honest, I can't stand injustice—not when it's directed at me, and certainly not when it's happening to someone else. But if I’m the one who messed up? Well, the idea of trying to justify my own mistakes by pointing out how someone else got away with something even worse never even crosses my mind. Take a ban, for instance. No matter how you spin it, or how "unfair" it feels that you were the one caught while the guy speeding way past you wasn't, you still broke the rules and you have to face the consequences. You can't just start comparing yourself to everyone else to dodge accountability. Sure, there are countless crimes out there where people evade justice because they simply weren't caught or managed to slip through the cracks, but what does that mean? Does it give us all a green light to just dive headfirst into a life of crime?
Then there's the other thing... It’s always possible for things to be worse. No matter how bad any illness gets, there’s always something more severe out there, right? And just because someone else has it harder doesn't mean my own struggles aren't significant. Does someone else's hardship somehow strip me of my right to suffer through my own health issues? I mean, really, think about it.
The same logic applies to everything else—jobs, salaries, cars, houses, clothes, you name it. It doesn't matter. It is ALWAYS possible for things to be worse. Acknowledging that doesn't diminish my own struggles at all. In fact, if I follow that line of thinking and look toward those who are doing better off than I am... then my own situation starts looking even more dire!
And thirdly, just because a situation could be more dire or a crime could be more heinous, it doesn't negate the existence of the current wrongdoing, nor does it mean there shouldn't be accountability for it. That recent news story about the girl and the dogs really shook me to my core; I truly couldn't wrap my head around how a single child could harbor such malice and subject innocent little puppies to that kind of suffering. Yes, I feel just as much heartbreak for every innocent creature that is beaten, killed, or abused, and I won't try to compare those tragedies or deny them, but that doesn't change the fact that what that little girl did was absolutely brutal.
It honestly feels like such a logical fallacy to constantly go searching for a greater injustice; it's probably the easiest thing in the world to do. At that point, it isn't even about the old cliché of the grass being greener on the other side—it's more like claiming the neighbor's grass is even more dead than mine just to make my yard look better.
I'm really trying my best to view most problems and situations as individual experiences rather than constantly measuring them against what others are going through, because if you start down that path, there is simply no end to it...