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[QUOTE=libetoži;24858033]I totally disagree with Jonathan Adams2. Today’s school curriculum is insane—it's way too much for them. Back when I was in elementary school, grades 1-4, I never actually "studied" at home; I just did my homework. Real studying didn't even start until 5th grade, and even then, not really. Serious studying only kicked in during high school and then college... My mom never sat down with me to teach me anything; I did everything myself. Meanwhile, my sister sits with my niece from the first grade onwards. It's not that my niece is any less smart than my sister and me, it's just that the curriculum is brutal. And it's not just her; it's all kids, some more than others. My niece is in 5th grade now and things have leveled out slightly, but she's still an honors student who spends all day studying. It's not normal to have to study that much in 5th grade, yet she's been doing it since 1st grade. All my sister's friends sit down and work with their kids. When I saw some facts in a 5th-grade history textbook, I couldn't believe it—stuff I didn't even touch until I was in law school taking a national history exam...
...basically, my takeaway is that if a kid hasn't learned to read before kindergarten, they're going to struggle to keep up in 1st grade. That was the case in my niece's class: kids who could already read before school started needed less help from parents, while those who couldn't had to spend all their time after school sitting at the table with their parents... bottom line, it's not fair. I couldn't read before school either and I learned it all in class... it's the teacher's job to teach us... today's curriculum is too fast, too heavy, packed with way more material and data, and if a kid can't read before starting school—parents, watch out—you're gonna be stuck sitting there working with them 😁 ☕[/QUOTE]
this kind of mindset is exactly why our kids turn out the way they do....
if I weren't a teacher, I'd be embarrassed to even say something like that....👎
does anyone actually think you shouldn't work with your kid???
you gotta work with them starting at age 4 if you want them reading and writing early... and as far as that goes... most of us back when I was in school already knew how to read and write by the start of 1st grade....
and then you guys complain about the grades????
no point arguing with you people because we're clearly on opposite sides....
I just want the best for everyone, but you HAVE to work with your kids.[/QUOTE]
...basically, my takeaway is that if a kid hasn't learned to read before kindergarten, they're going to struggle to keep up in 1st grade. That was the case in my niece's class: kids who could already read before school started needed less help from parents, while those who couldn't had to spend all their time after school sitting at the table with their parents... bottom line, it's not fair. I couldn't read before school either and I learned it all in class... it's the teacher's job to teach us... today's curriculum is too fast, too heavy, packed with way more material and data, and if a kid can't read before starting school—parents, watch out—you're gonna be stuck sitting there working with them 😁 ☕[/QUOTE]
this kind of mindset is exactly why our kids turn out the way they do....
if I weren't a teacher, I'd be embarrassed to even say something like that....👎
does anyone actually think you shouldn't work with your kid???
you gotta work with them starting at age 4 if you want them reading and writing early... and as far as that goes... most of us back when I was in school already knew how to read and write by the start of 1st grade....
and then you guys complain about the grades????
no point arguing with you people because we're clearly on opposite sides....
I just want the best for everyone, but you HAVE to work with your kids.[/QUOTE]