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Ticklishness

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dustyskipper3 dustyskipper3 Active Member
192 messages
joined Dec 2009
#21 ·
Now, this is a rather ticklish subject to tackle, isn't it?

I suppose you could say being ticklish is just an atavism. It’s a leftover trait, much like having those tiny muscles for ear hair trimmingβ€”which most people don't even have anymore, I think. Or maybe excessive body hair. I once read about some guy who supposedly had a ten-centimeter tail that would pop up whenever he got angry. Another example of an atavistic trait might be stage fright; that primal urge to run away was probably incredibly intense for early humans, and honestly, it seems pretty hard to shake off even today. I guess modern people find being ticklish a bit irritating, perhaps because it serves as a reminder of how genetically similar we still are to cavemen. Back then, it was a way to involuntarily express positive emotions or signal that you weren't a threat and someone could approach you without fear. In a sense, it's a bit like shaking handsβ€”you're showing you aren't hiding a knife or a club behind your backβ€”except ticklishness is something completely outside of your control. If you want to stay composed and avoid the whole thing, I'd suggest practicing your tolerance. Maybe find someone willing to tickle you daily, and eventually, you might get used to it. I've heard it also helps if your skin isn't dry, but rather slightly moist or oiled. You could also try convincing yourself that you aren't ticklish at all and that nothing can catch you off guard. Just act totally blasΓ©, you know? Look at the person trying to tickle you as if they've simply lost their mind and are acting on some bizarre whim; they'll probably give up before they actually succeed.

A little tickle test for you:

http://www.gotoquiz.com/women_over_2...still_ticklish

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Raymond Garcia3 Raymond Garcia3 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Dec 2009
#22 ·
Thomas Garcia40 said:I can tickle myself... 😒 (though putting my hand over someone else's doesn't seem to work for me)
It isn't a massive issue, really. Except when I want to scratch my feet, for instance. I can't even get near them because the sensation is just too intense.🀣

You know what you should do? Just get lost. If you have an itch on your feet, try tickling yourself instead... or just don't use your nails. Use your fingertips, it's less intense. Or just use your palm without the nails...πŸ™‚
Raymond Garcia3 Raymond Garcia3 Newcomer
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joined Dec 2009
#23 ·
Douglas Scott47 said:Lucky you! Whenever I feel like being tickled, I can just do it to myself! 😬

I just don't get it. How can someone be ticklish under the arms but totally fine on their feet? It makes zero sense...πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•
silverraven7 silverraven7 Active Member
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joined May 2012
#24 ·
Sean Cruz said:So, you're dealing with extreme ticklishness? Great topicβ€”I’ve been looking for answers myself. If someone ever decided they wanted me dead, this would be the perfect method.

Welcome to the Club !!!
When I was just a little kid, my mom used to grab me by the legs and tickle me until I was basically unconscious. There is absolutely zero chance I'm ever getting over that.

Then, during a few years of marriage, my husband kept doing the exact same thing to me. He thought it was hilarious, but I’d literally be sitting there crying because I couldn't handle it. After a while, the laughter just turns into straight-up sobbing.
He wouldn't stop until I finally had to lay him out.

Totally terrifying!!!
Carl Jones41 Carl Jones41 Newcomer
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joined Apr 2010
#25 ·
Jose Johnson79 said:It’s just impossible. At least, I can't pull it off! It's not like you lack the physical ability to tickle someone, it's more like... no matter how hard you try, the magic just isn't there.🀷

Why is it that the brain instinctively knows exactly where you're about to be tickled?😁

I'm quite ticklish myself, and honestly, it doesn't bother me. It isn't exactly a major issue right now...
shadowfox49 shadowfox49 Active Member
53 messages
joined Aug 2010
#26 ·
I’m pretty ticklish.
I can make myself laugh by tickling my own feet, but it’s just not the same as when someone else does it.
The usual spots get meβ€”underarms, stomach, especially my feetβ€”but I’ve also got some random sensitive areas, like my butt or that area right between my backside and... well, you know.
My boyfriend tries to tickle me because he just wants to see me smile and be happy, but I’m actually dying over here. Honestly, there have been a few times where I felt like punching him. 😒
Sean Cruz Sean Cruz Regular
265 messages
joined Apr 2008
#27 ·
I finally sat down and tackled this ridiculous test. The results? Honestly, pretty devastating: 😳

http://img179.imageshack.us/img179/3118/skakljivost.png
George Collins4 George Collins4 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Mar 2010
#28 ·
I tend to get pretty jumpy if someone touches my feet or neck, whether they're kissing me or just using their fingers.β˜•
Raymond Garcia3 Raymond Garcia3 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Dec 2009
#29 ·
Carl Jones41 said:Why is it that the brain instinctively knows exactly where you're about to be tickled?😁

I'm quite ticklish myself, and honestly, it doesn't bother me. It isn't exactly a major issue right now...

He's spot on, though. Your brain knows when you're being targeted, but it also sees what everyone else is doing. The body and the mind are one unitβ€”it sees everything you see, provided nothing is blocking your view...
Matthew Gomez10 Matthew Gomez10 Newcomer
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joined Dec 2011
#30 ·
So, a buddy of mine found these specific spots on my feet that were super sensitive, and then he basically spent the next week teasing me, trying to teach me how to handle being tickled through all those twitches and stings. It took him about seven days, but he finally got me. Now, he can mess with my feet however he wants and I don't even flinch. It’s wild because before, even just walking barefoot on sand or pulling on a pair of tights would make me jump from the discomfort...
If you're looking to toughen up, I guess I'd recommend my friend.

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