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What to do when he's blowing you off...

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Participants crimsonheron80granitepilot282Morgan Collins20Abrightridge59mistycobra13jadepilot3Samuel Davis16Matthew Williams42bluefalcon122rustyskipper7Brenda Cooper3hollowtrucker77Michelle Alvarez8ruggedsurferDavid Davis88Jeffrey Barrett2Emily Sullivan97Jason Reyes98Linda Rodriguez38
crimsonheron80 crimsonheron80 Active MemberOP
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#41 ·
Emily Sullivan97 said:You're truly in deep trouble here.
There’s a thread over there about why nobody likes you, and right here, it's just this guy telling you off.
It’s all connected. That’s just who you are. If you don't change, you'll be opening these same types of threads every single year until the day you die.

That actually hurts. I have zero interest in changing, by the way. And your mother is a piece of work—we all know why. ☕
crimsonheron80 crimsonheron80 Active MemberOP
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#42 ·
Michelle Alvarez8 said:Custom User Text 🤦

What exactly are you talking about? And why the facepalm? Is that supposed to hide your IQ?
crimsonheron80 crimsonheron80 Active MemberOP
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#43 ·
Linda Rodriguez38 said:Is there even a way to say that in American English—like, how would you even word that? 🍿

Let's stick to the topic! — keeping things on track, right?
Royal Flush energy! 👑✨ Once you finally start standing up to the people you've been too soft on—seriously, why haven't you yet?—you won't even feel like posting stuff like this anymore!

---------------> New York
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
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#44 ·
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hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
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#45 ·
Linda Rodriguez38 said:Love it when I get the mods all worked up by going totally off-topic!😁

And personally, I love forcing colorblind people to see red.
😛
I’m just not going to hide behind some illiterate excuse or throw out half-baked jokes.
Michelle Alvarez8 Michelle Alvarez8 Regular
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#46 ·
crimsonheron80 said:What exactly are you talking about? And why the facepalm? Is that supposed to hide your IQ?

Yeah, you're totally right.
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
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#47 ·
Just admit you’re kicking yourself right now for even bothering to show up here in the first place.
😁
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
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#48 ·
hollowtrucker77 said:Just admit you’re kicking yourself right now for even bothering to show up here in the first place.
😁

honestly, I'm like 😂😂😂
well, at least I chatted with you for a sec
looking for a silver lining in all this mess, right?
calling me colorblind?? 😛

now I get why this thread belongs in a psych textbook instead of a random forum
she’s basically got her own therapist here—can't go five minutes without supervision🤣

hey, maybe if you gave this "colorblind" girl a little gray hair, it wouldn't be such a disaster, huh?
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
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#49 ·
Linda Rodriguez38 said:honestly, I'm like 😂😂😂
well, at least I chatted with you for a sec
looking for a silver lining in all this mess, right?
calling me colorblind?? 😛

now I get why this thread belongs in a psych textbook instead of a random forum
she’s basically got her own therapist here—can't go five minutes without supervision🤣

hey, maybe if you gave this "colorblind" girl a little gray hair, it wouldn't be such a disaster, huh?

honestly, you probably wouldn't mind a checkup yourself if one were offered
my comment was actually meant for Michelle Alvarez8
when I called you colorblind, it was because you clearly didn't realize I'm not a moderator anymore, so now I just spend my time enjoying the spiritual wealth of this forum without feeling the need to lecture anyone
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
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#50 ·
hollowtrucker77 said:honestly, you probably wouldn't mind a checkup yourself if one were offered
my comment was actually meant for Michelle Alvarez8
when I called you colorblind, it was because you clearly didn't realize I'm not a moderator anymore, so now I just spend my time enjoying the spiritual wealth of this forum without feeling the need to lecture anyone

oh my god 😲
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
😂😂
why do you always do this? 🤣
my bad! 😁
now give me those two red cards you tossed at me back!! ☕
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
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#51 ·
good grief
Emily Sullivan97 Emily Sullivan97 Newcomer
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#52 ·
crimsonheron80 said:That actually hurts. I have zero interest in changing, by the way. And your mother is a piece of work—we all know why. ☕

And then you wonder why nobody likes you.🤣
Linda Rodriguez38 Linda Rodriguez38 Active Member
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#53 ·
Emily Sullivan97 said:And then you wonder why nobody likes you.🤣

I actually think she's pretty sweet 😁
ruggedsurfer ruggedsurfer Newcomer
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#54 ·
crimsonheron80 said:Fine, maybe I did brush someone off by being indifferent.🤷 But what does that have to do with anything? Don't worry, I'm not bothered by my lack of empathy.☕

I'm not perfect. As for others, I doubt they are either... ☕

Where did I say he made it clear at the beginning? Where did I call him a jerk? I have no interest in commenting on the rest of this nonsense. ☕

I mean, don't get me wrong. I'm not even worried or anything. I'm just, you know, stating the obvious here. Like, looking at most of your posts, it seems pretty clear you’re having a really hard time with that whole situation. And honestly? I only mentioned it because I was trying to be helpful. Just being a good person, I guess.

crimsonheron80 said:Fine, maybe I did brush someone off by being indifferent.🤷 But what does that have to do with anything? Don't worry, I'm not bothered by my lack of empathy.☕

I'm not perfect. As for others, I doubt they are either... ☕

Where did I say he made it clear at the beginning? Where did I call him a jerk? I have no interest in commenting on the rest of this nonsense. ☕

So, I was basically just talking about that whole thing where you feel good about yourself, you know? Like, finding that sweet spot where someone else actually gets who you are and totally vibes with your core values—it’s like reaching some kind of perfect balance or whatever. That’s why I thought, maybe, it might be a good idea to work on yourself a bit or try to change things up. But, uh, you mentioned a few times now that you’re really not feeling that, and honestly? Who am I to tell you how to live? If you want to just sink into your own funk, hey, go for it. It's your call, I guess. 🙏

crimsonheron80 said:Fine, maybe I did brush someone off by being indifferent.🤷 But what does that have to do with anything? Don't worry, I'm not bothered by my lack of empathy.☕

I'm not perfect. As for others, I doubt they are either... ☕

Where did I say he made it clear at the beginning? Where did I call him a jerk? I have no interest in commenting on the rest of this nonsense. ☕

So, look, you didn't explicitly call him a scumbag or anything, but I don't know, the whole vibe you're putting out makes it feel like that's exactly what you think. He seems pretty rude, and honestly? Probably a liar too. It just feels like... I guess the general takeaway from everything you post here is that you've been totally played by someone who isn't even worth those big, intense emotions you have. And maybe I'm the only one seeing it, but it feels like you weren't even really in a relationship to be dumped from—it’s more like you just built this whole thing up in your head, obsessively. It actually kind of hurts my feelings that you called my first post total garbage, especially since I was being super chill and respectful when I reached out. I mean, doing that just proves you're kind of stuck in your own world, I guess. Which, honestly, maybe that's why leaving this forum was probably the right move for you. Your emotional headspace probably needs something way more focused than this chaotic mess of voices we've got going on here. Anyway, I truly wish you nothing but the best.

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