restlesscrane152 I guess what they're saying is...
I mean, isn't it just kind of obvious, I guess, that most of the people hanging out in coffee shops are actually just smokers? It feels like you can barely find a quiet corner without someone blowing a cloud of smoke right in your direction, though maybe I'm just being cynical about it.
I mean, I wouldn't say they're the *only* reason, but if we're looking at a massive 50 to 60 percent drop in revenue, then I guess it’s pretty safe to assume that smokers aren't exactly some tiny, insignificant minority of their customer base. It just seems like such an obvious correlation when you look at those kinds of numbers, though maybe I'm oversimplifying things.
First off, I guess if you really look at the numbers, smokers are actually a bit of a minority in our society these days; most people out there aren't even touching a cigarette anymore.
I mean, look, if you ask me, restaurateurs really ought to be fighting harder to cater to the majority—you know, the non-smokers. It honestly seems incredibly shortsighted that, up until now, so many establishments have been essentially "hosting" a tiny minority of smokers in these thick, hazy rooms, while the actual majority just gets turned away or forced to sit there inhaling secondhand smoke they never asked for in the first place. I guess it’s just one of those things where common sense wasn't exactly the priority, maybe.
I guess you could say this whole shift in the crowd isn't actually a bad thing for folks running the local bars and eateries. If anything, it’s kind of a blessing in disguise, maybe? It basically gives them a chance to pivot from catering to that small, gritty minority—you know, the ones who spend half their night hovering around an ashtray with a lukewarm coffee—and actually start focusing on the much larger crowd that just wants to drink without having to dodge a cloud of smoke every five seconds.
I mean, if you look at the timing, that whole smoking ban thing just happened to hit right when the economy was absolutely cratering, which I guess makes it easy to point fingers. People like to blame the ban for everything, but honestly, the massive slump in sales for furniture, appliances, cars, or even vacations... that wasn't exactly caused by people not being allowed to light up indoors. It’s not like only smokers were out there buying refrigerators and washing machines, right? And the struggle for restaurants and bars—well, a huge chunk of that misery was driven by the financial crisis itself. Even without that smoking ban, things probably would have tanked anyway, I suppose.
I guess I should probably start by saying that whenever someone decides to drop a Quote like that, it really just sets a certain tone for the whole conversation, doesn't it? It’s funny, in a way, how we all cling to these little snippets of text as if they're some kind of absolute truth or a definitive anchor, though maybe I'm just being overly cynical about the whole thing, which, let's be honest, is probably my default setting at this point. It feels like we're all just circling around these ideas, trying to find some sort of footing, but then someone pulls a move like this and suddenly the floor feels a bit more slippery than it did a moment ago, I suppose.
restlesscrane152 said:Then enlighten me—what's the actual difference? Or is the difference just that it's obvious women mostly walk into salons, while it's not "obvious" that most cafe patrons are smokers?
Second, this theory that cafes have only hosted smokers until now is total nonsense.
Not exclusively, sure. But if their revenue is tanking by 50-60%, then smokers definitely aren't some tiny minority of their customers.
What, haven't you seen it on NBC or USA Network?
Nope. Not really. But hey, giving them the benefit of the doubt—I don't watch them, so I wouldn't know.
Is the "proposal to repeal" a daily topic? By that logic, we could listen to restaurant owners' fairy tales every single day until 2080. Or requests to legalize prostitution. That proposal is a daily thing too.
I don't know which news site mentioned it, but one said the law might be scrapped due to the crisis—so yeah, the topic is current.
Enlighten me. I'm only interested in hearing from cafe owners. And their tragic little lives.
So you're not a restaurant owner?
What a truly fascinating "breaking news" story we have here. It seems like ever since someone brought it up, we’re being force-fed these endless little dramas about local restaurant owners on every major nightly news broadcast, day in and day out. It’s just one constant stream of trivial nonsense being treated like front-page headlines on networks like Fox, and honestly, I guess it feels a bit ridiculous when you consider that there are actually significant, world-altering events happening everywhere else at the same time.
restlesscrane152 said:Then enlighten me—what's the actual difference? Or is the difference just that it's obvious women mostly walk into salons, while it's not "obvious" that most cafe patrons are smokers?
Second, this theory that cafes have only hosted smokers until now is total nonsense.
Not exclusively, sure. But if their revenue is tanking by 50-60%, then smokers definitely aren't some tiny minority of their customers.
What, haven't you seen it on NBC or USA Network?
Nope. Not really. But hey, giving them the benefit of the doubt—I don't watch them, so I wouldn't know.
Is the "proposal to repeal" a daily topic? By that logic, we could listen to restaurant owners' fairy tales every single day until 2080. Or requests to legalize prostitution. That proposal is a daily thing too.
I don't know which news site mentioned it, but one said the law might be scrapped due to the crisis—so yeah, the topic is current.
Enlighten me. I'm only interested in hearing from cafe owners. And their tragic little lives.
So you're not a restaurant owner?
What exactly do you mean when you throw around a term like "hospitality professional"? I guess it’s one of those labels that people toss around like they mean something specific, but honestly, it feels a bit nebulous, doesn't it? Maybe you're talking about the person behind the bar at a local pub in Chicago, someone just trying to get through a shift, or maybe you mean the high-end restaurateurs who run these massive, polished establishments in Manhattan. It could be anyone from a small-town diner owner to some corporate executive managing a hotel chain like Marriott. It’s a broad spectrum, really—it might imply a certain level of grace and service, or it might just be a fancy way of describing someone who works in the service industry, which, let’s face it, can be pretty soul-crushing sometimes. I suppose there's a difference between someone who truly lives for the art of hosting and someone who is just punching a clock, but I don't know, the line seems pretty blurry to me.
I mean, what kind of guy actually goes through the whole grind of culinary school just to come out the other side as a chef, a server, a pastry specialist, or some kind of high-end hotel manager? It’s a lot, I guess. You spend all those years mastering the art of the perfect souffle or learning how to balance a tray while navigating a crowded dining room in downtown Chicago, and then you realize that the industry is basically just one giant, beautiful, exhausting whirlwind. Maybe it's the passion for the craft, or maybe people just have a weirdly high tolerance for standing on their feet for twelve hours straight, but I can't help but wonder what drives someone to commit to that specific life path.
Or maybe you’re thinking about what I mean by a "hospitality professional"—you know, an American? Because, honestly, in the States, everyone seems to be in the service industry in some capacity. It feels like every single American is born with a server's degree already tucked in their pocket, and then, of course, you have all those mobsters or pro athletes who suddenly become "small business owners," which is just a fancy way of saying they own a local bar or a diner. So, if I’m an American, I guess that technically makes me a hospitality professional too, if we're going by that logic.
Look, if what I was trying to get at—and I guess I was just trying to point out that since I’m not some professionally trained hospitality expert, you know, like someone who went to culinary school or spent years grinding as a server or a pastry chef—was basically just a roundabout way of saying, "then maybe just keep quiet because you clearly have no clue how grueling life actually is for a small business owner running a local pub," then I honestly think I owe you an explanation. I mean, maybe I didn't phrase it right, but I was really just attempting to say that unless you've lived the struggle of owning a dive bar or a neighborhood diner, you probably don't grasp the sheer weight of it all.
I can't help but wonder, I really do, just how much schooling someone actually needs to go through to pull off owning a bar—you know, to actually be the one calling the shots behind the counter instead of just scrubbing floors. I guess it’s one of those things where you wonder if there's some formal degree involved or if it’s all just learned on the fly through trial and error, which seems more likely, honestly. And then there's the grind of it all... I mean, how many hours is this person actually pulling in every single day? It’s probably exhausting, and I can't help but think about the physical toll, like, does their back just absolutely ache by the end of a shift from standing around all night? Maybe. Plus, you have to consider the whole life balance thing; like, is there even enough left over at the end of the month to buy schoolbooks for the kids, or is everything just swallowed up by overhead? And where do they even find the money for extra supplies or stuff for homework? It makes me wonder if they're just scraping by, maybe taking the bus or the subway to get to work every morning just to save a few bucks. It's a lot to juggle, I suppose.
I mean, the real crux of the matter here is how we’re comparing this supposed "hard life" to what everyone else is actually going through. There are so many people out there—way more than just the restaurant owners, I'd say, probably ten times as many—who are feeling the crushing weight of this crisis every single day, struggling just to scrape together enough cash for school supplies or even a bus pass, yet you never see Fox or any other major network putting them front and center in the nightly news cycle...