Keith Jones76 said:Then you have the people whose spirituality and search for wisdom actually play a constructive role in their lives. They tend to be calm, tolerant, and genuinely capable of respecting someone else's path, even if that person is looking for the same truth in a completely different way.
Everyone else is just a spiritual vampire, trying to fix themselves using all the wrong methods. It’s a classic neurotic trait: the desperate urge to self-medicate, which almost always fails and usually just ends up deepening the underlying disorder. It really comes down to using maladaptive defense mechanisms. In my experience, you can spot them easily by their intense dogmatism—which, predictably, just loops them right back to square one and fuels more intolerance.
It is honestly wild how arrogant and full of themselves proponents of the hard sciences can be... I know quite a few former neurotic women who struggled with depression, suicidal thoughts, eating disorders, etc., who basically had a total rebirth after practicing certain spiritual disciplines. And, it's important to note, they weren't just mindless sheep following some cultish dogma; they were incredibly well-read and informed. They pulled themselves out without psychotherapy or being drugged up on meds, and their level of tolerance and mental openness is honestly enviable.
Then again, I also know a few poor souls whose lives were absolutely wrecked by official objective science, psychotherapy, and medication—stuff that destroyed their memory, their brains, their livers, their individuality, their attitude, their common sense, and their creativity.
There is wheat and there are weeds on both sides of the "front line"
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It is absolutely inhumane—and frankly, it feels racist or even touches on eugenics (targeting Black people, Jews, Romani, and "the crazies")—to discredit and discriminate against neurotics as if they are, by default, incapable of rational thought or unable to find their own way to healing through willpower and a diamond-hard spirit. I'm not saying everyone succeeds in that mission, but the number of people who have grabbed "fate" by the balls is fascinating and deserves huge respect.
"Healing the wrong way"? When it comes to the number of orphans psychiatry has sent to their deaths—whether literal death or just a mental, spiritual, and emotional vegetative state—even Hitler could probably take the title.
Any healing is valid and acceptable as long as it works and makes the person happy, functional, and productive, whether that healer is a PhD in Medicine (and only if they're a genius at altruism!) or Baba Yaga. ☕