Bill Gates
Maria Nelson12 said:That sounds great on paper, but honestly, it's almost impossible to pull off. There’s always something popping up that drags you back into the negative. A pipe bursts in the bathroom, the car breaks down, you get hit with two wedding invites you can't refuse... For instance, I had to go into the red the other day because I needed a laptop for work and my company wouldn't or couldn't buy one for me. And boom, $1333 in the hole. And I even grabbed one of the cheapest models. Why didn't I just finance it or use a credit line? Well, because I'm already paying $2,500 on my mortgage, plus I'm still paying off the last car service, insurance, and registration, not to mention the credit I used for a TV after my old one died. So, yeah. I know plenty of people making minimum $1667, and I also know folks pulling in over $10,000 who are still overdrawn by $4667. Then they get a tax refund or some little bonus at work and finally clear the balance. But then they fall right back into it, maybe take out another loan to cover the gap, then an unexpected expense hits, so they borrow from a friend or put it on a credit card to pay someone back, then gas prices spike or whatever... It’s just a constant cycle. If things were as simple as you're making them sound, most Americans wouldn't be perpetually broke. I don't really believe everyone is just greedy or incapable of handling money.
This is a painfully true story that honestly makes me sick.
My wife, our little kid, and I bring home a total of $4500 a month; my mortgage payment is $2333, utilities are $500, and childcare and essentials run about $233 monthly. That leaves me with $1433 to actually live on.
I've never once been in the red—I still have that student checking account that doesn't even allow overdrafts, and God willing, I won't need it.
This mortgage is killing me; if I could pay it all off tomorrow, I would, but it’s just not happening.
Now, look at my sister—she lives in the condo my parents bought; she’s single, her salary is $2000, plus utilities $333 and food for her birds.
And just look at her overdraft status now: $5000, with two unplanned loans of $5,000 and $7,000.
I’m talking skiing trips, summer vacations, buying new shoes every single month—sometimes two pairs—closets full of clothes, yet somehow there's nothing to wear. It just keeps happening.
Honestly, I can't wrap my head around it; it's a lifestyle I despise and find completely foreign. Who do you think is the smarter one, me or her? Everyone tells me it's her, because she’s "enjoying the finer things in life." The bank loves handing out money, but they love collecting more than they give.
I should emphasize that my family isn't starving, nor are we dirty, nor are we walking around barefoot or naked. We just try to live within our means.
Sometimes I'll eat potato salad two days in a row, sometimes it's chicken, sometimes pork, sometimes a simple rice dish—but I live without being in the red.