HELP!!!!

Alright, this thread is definitely where we need to be 😬 Look, can we please just chill with the insults toward guys who haven't even had a girlfriend yet? Like, seriously, stop with the "loser" talk. Just help out those of us who actually have a shot here without being jerks about it 😬 😬 😬

So, for Valentine's Day, I went out and bought this girl roses, but she actually turned them down 😢 I mean, maybe there's a little logic to it since we've only known each other for like three days 🙄
I’m honestly stuck. I'm no relationship guru, obviously, but I don't know if I should keep chasing her or just call it quits. She's awesome, and I could actually see myself being in a serious relationship with her

First off, how old are you? This feels like high school drama to me—am I wrong? Second—did you guys actually know each other before this, or was there something more going on? These are all necessary facts if we're going to analyze this properly...😁

Douglas Ward2 said:First off, how old are you? This feels like high school drama to me—am I wrong? Second—did you guys actually know each other before this, or was there something more going on? These are all necessary facts if we're going to analyze this properly...😁

I'm inclined to agree with that.😁 though in my estimation, you've probably overblown the whole "roses" situation after only three days of knowing her. 😲Maybe she got spooked thinking you were looking for a ring.😬

For what it's worth, it could go either way, but if she truly had feelings for you, I find it hard to believe she would have shut you down quite like that. Then again, if your gut tells you otherwise, I suppose you know the situation better than I ever could...😁

I don't think there's anything wrong with him giving her roses. She might have been genuinely caught off guard by the gesture, but the ball is firmly in her court now. It's up to her to make the next move—assuming, of course, that she actually feels the same way about him.

Douglas Ward2 said:First off, how old are you? This feels like high school drama to me—am I wrong? Second—did you guys actually know each other before this, or was there something more going on? These are all necessary facts if we're going to analyze this properly...😁

yeah, totally, just high schoolers and our little little problems 😬 thanks for the "constructive" feedback, man. Got a text on my phone, someone wants to grab dinner tonight 😎

Anthony Wright4 said:yeah, totally, just high schoolers and our little little problems 😬 thanks for the "constructive" feedback, man. Got a text on my phone, someone wants to grab dinner tonight 😎

So what are you even doing on this thread then? 😲

You got your answer, pal!😬

Good luck tonight.🙂

He'll probably be back tomorrow with that same old emoji... 😍 😉

Anthony Wright4 said:yeah, totally, just high schoolers and our little little problems 😬 thanks for the "constructive" feedback, man. Got a text on my phone, someone wants to grab dinner tonight 😎

I mean, what did I actually say?

brighteagle39 said:I mean, what did I actually say?

Fine then, what now? Are we all supposed to fall over ourselves in awe of how brilliant you are?🥳

😬 😉

wiredsurfer72 said:Fine then, what now? Are we all supposed to fall over ourselves in awe of how brilliant you are?🥳

😬 😉

Of course