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I was with this guy for three years
At first, we just hooked up for about a week, and then he just ghosted me
A few months later, we got back together, but his excuse was that he was terrified I’d dump him, so he figured he should just end things first to protect himself. 😁
We actually made it work for about a year after that, but then he suddenly flipped out again and decided we couldn't be together anymore.
Fast forward through a few months of no contact, we started seeing each other again, and eventually, we were official once more. When we talked about getting back together, I asked him why he wanted this so badly—he was acting like he loved me and couldn't live without me. We stayed together for another year, but things got rocky. I reached my breaking point because, honestly, I just needed a little more attention and effort from him. I told him several times that it was over, but he wouldn't even call me back. So, I finally called him to ask what the hell was happening, and he just said he "needed to think about it." He took a few days to deliberate, and then a week later, he tells me it's done. He says he doesn't love me anymore and that we were just a habit. Of course, he suggested being friends, which we obviously aren't.😁..We've spoken a couple of times since then, and that's basically it..
The thing is, I still love him. I haven't felt this way about anyone else, but I can't tell if what we had was real or just a routine for him. I know people change, but there's just so much history there that I don't even know how to process any of this anymore.
At first, we just hooked up for about a week, and then he just ghosted me
A few months later, we got back together, but his excuse was that he was terrified I’d dump him, so he figured he should just end things first to protect himself. 😁
We actually made it work for about a year after that, but then he suddenly flipped out again and decided we couldn't be together anymore.
Fast forward through a few months of no contact, we started seeing each other again, and eventually, we were official once more. When we talked about getting back together, I asked him why he wanted this so badly—he was acting like he loved me and couldn't live without me. We stayed together for another year, but things got rocky. I reached my breaking point because, honestly, I just needed a little more attention and effort from him. I told him several times that it was over, but he wouldn't even call me back. So, I finally called him to ask what the hell was happening, and he just said he "needed to think about it." He took a few days to deliberate, and then a week later, he tells me it's done. He says he doesn't love me anymore and that we were just a habit. Of course, he suggested being friends, which we obviously aren't.😁..We've spoken a couple of times since then, and that's basically it..
The thing is, I still love him. I haven't felt this way about anyone else, but I can't tell if what we had was real or just a routine for him. I know people change, but there's just so much history there that I don't even know how to process any of this anymore.