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hiddenhound3 hiddenhound3 Regular
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#41 ·
ironmarlin1 said:
I honestly can't help but feel that we’re all just circling the drain when it comes to discussing this particular subject, drifting through these endless debates without ever truly grasping the core of the matter. It's much like watching a slow-motion replay of a championship game where you know exactly how the play ends, yet you find yourself mesmerized by the sheer, agonizing tension of the buildup. There is a certain weight to these discussions, a gravity that pulls us in, much like how one might feel sitting in a quiet corner of a dim library in Boston, surrounded by the heavy scent of old paper and the unspoken wisdom of centuries. We tend to get lost in the minutiae, focusing on the tiny, jagged edges of an argument while completely ignoring the broad, sweeping landscape that defines the entire conflict. I find myself wondering if we are even capable of seeing the forest for the trees anymore, or if we have become too enamored with our own specialized lenses to ever appreciate the view from the summit. It feels as though we are constantly rearranging the furniture in a house that is already being reclaimed by the elements, performing these intricate little rituals of logic and rhetoric while the very foundation shifts beneath our feet. Perhaps there is a sense of comfort in the repetition, a way to stave off the realization that some questions simply don't have answers that satisfy the soul, but I cannot shake the feeling that we are merely stalling for time. kaže:
I’ll be the first to admit that the ending is absolutely pathetic, but honestly, even that level of melodrama can’t overshadow the core message this entire film carries. Having followed Lars' work quite closely over the years, I don't think any of his previous takes on Medea have ever truly topped this one. I haven't actually had a chance to sit down and watch *Europa* yet—though my expectations for it are sky-high—but since I know you hold an atheist worldview, I completely understand why those Christian undertones left such a bad taste in your mouth. For me, though, I tend to view those religious elements through a purely symbolic lens; religion doesn't carry much weight in my own life either, but I don't exactly harbor a deep-seated aversion to it like some others might.

I don't really have anything against Christian undertones appearing in films—unless, of course, that religious subtext is the entire point of the narrative or something along those lines. It’s giving off major snuff film vibes. It brings to mind those heavy religious epics—think along the lines of *Passion*. But here, there’s this lingering sense that religion is being used as a sort of cosmic "thank you" note to a woman simply because she sacrificed herself for a man, essentially playing out his specific fantasies. It feels like a strange way to frame devotion, though I suppose I’m just circling back to my own point again. 😍

Just one more little thing... have you ever heard of the Aghori? They’re these Hindu ascetics who, even when engaging in their most gruesome and necrophilic rituals, manage to maintain this incredible, unwavering devotion. It’s a heavy concept, I know, but there's something profoundly striking about that kind of absolute commitment. Clean.There’s something almost "Artemidian" about the way he absolutely surrenders himself to his obsessions; it's a total immersion into these heavy, profound themes that feel almost too weighty for a casual conversation right now. But let's be honest—this film isn't nearly as innocent as it might appear on the surface.

You know, you often see these little archetypal nods scattered throughout cinema—think of those Nietzschean tensions between the Apollonian and Dionysian elements, for instance. Not necessarily in this specific film, but as a general phenomenon in the medium. I can't help but feel that, more often than not, we aren't actually seeing what the film implies, but rather just projecting whatever it is we're itching to see onto the screen. It’s a simple byproduct of the fact that a single cluster of facts, or a sequence of events, can be twisted into countless different and even contradictory interpretations. Honestly, I think the absolute worst thing you can do in art is go hunting for the "artist's intention," acting as if the creator holds some sort of divine authority over how their work is understood.

I certainly agree that one ought to strive for goodness, 😁, but even if Trier's intention was to portray virtue through the lens of cinema, that doesn't mean the film actually succeeds in doing so. Instead, what we see is a depiction of how female naivety can be exploited—or, had the film taken a different path, perhaps a descent into madness.

He tells her to sleep with others and that she should tell him about it. But then, suggesting he actually said this to encourage her independence—and that her telling him about sleeping with others is somehow an issue—makes it sound as though sex itself is a moral failing (even though the film never implies that). If she wouldn't have slept with anyone else under any other circumstances, then the way the film ends suggests that God is satisfied with this exploitation and that her actions were somehow righteous. To me, that feels like a deeply inhumane stance toward women.

That is a very wise conclusion, though perhaps you should apply it to yourself. 😁

The reality is that everyone sees exactly what they wish to see—or more accurately, what they are capable of seeing—depending entirely upon the conceptual framework surrounding the viewer.
By observing our own reactions and the concepts we hold, we gain direct insight into ourselves.
ironmarlin1 ironmarlin1 Active Member
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#42 ·
hiddenhound3 said:That is a very wise conclusion, though perhaps you should apply it to yourself. 😁

The reality is that everyone sees exactly what they wish to see—or more accurately, what they are capable of seeing—depending entirely upon the conceptual framework surrounding the viewer.
By observing our own reactions and the concepts we hold, we gain direct insight into ourselves.

Hehe, mind you, that doesn't mean any interpretation goes. Take New Criticism (in literary circles), for instance; it relies strictly on the text itself. The real issue is that the relationship of implication—or even the actual meaning of a text—only carries weight when filtered through a broader theory of the world, whether that's science, philosophy, or art. A work can't be semantically isolated, otherwise it would be nothing more than de facto a string of physical symbols. For example, you simply cannot strip away the fact that the director of Passion of the Christ is antisemitic, nor can you ignore the depiction of Jews killing Jesus (not to mention how Mel Gibson kept the scene where the Jews are cursed while opting to cut the subtitles under pressure, knowing full well how it will be translated in parts of the world where antisemitism is rampant). Ultimately, a work must be interpreted holistically.

Segments that allow for multiple interpretations should be recognized as such, rather than insisting on a single "correct" reading. But with Breaking the Waves, I find it genuinely difficult to stomach the unambiguous moral glorification of a senseless sacrifice as if it were merely some twisted male fantasy.
Roger Long67 Roger Long67 Newcomer
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#43 ·
ironmarlin1 said:
I honestly can't help but feel that we’re all just circling the drain when it comes to discussing this particular subject, drifting through these endless debates without ever truly grasping the core of the matter. It's much like watching a slow-motion replay of a championship game where you know exactly how the play ends, yet you find yourself mesmerized by the sheer, agonizing tension of the buildup. There is a certain weight to these discussions, a gravity that pulls us in, much like how one might feel sitting in a quiet corner of a dim library in Boston, surrounded by the heavy scent of old paper and the unspoken wisdom of centuries. We tend to get lost in the minutiae, focusing on the tiny, jagged edges of an argument while completely ignoring the broad, sweeping landscape that defines the entire conflict. I find myself wondering if we are even capable of seeing the forest for the trees anymore, or if we have become too enamored with our own specialized lenses to ever appreciate the view from the summit. It feels as though we are constantly rearranging the furniture in a house that is already being reclaimed by the elements, performing these intricate little rituals of logic and rhetoric while the very foundation shifts beneath our feet. Perhaps there is a sense of comfort in the repetition, a way to stave off the realization that some questions simply don't have answers that satisfy the soul, but I cannot shake the feeling that we are merely stalling for time. kaže:
I’ll be the first to admit that the ending is absolutely pathetic, but honestly, even that level of melodrama can’t overshadow the core message this entire film carries. Having followed Lars' work quite closely over the years, I don't think any of his previous takes on Medea have ever truly topped this one. I haven't actually had a chance to sit down and watch *Europa* yet—though my expectations for it are sky-high—but since I know you hold an atheist worldview, I completely understand why those Christian undertones left such a bad taste in your mouth. For me, though, I tend to view those religious elements through a purely symbolic lens; religion doesn't carry much weight in my own life either, but I don't exactly harbor a deep-seated aversion to it like some others might.

I don't really have anything against Christian undertones appearing in films—unless, of course, that religious subtext is the entire point of the narrative or something along those lines. It’s giving off major snuff film vibes. It brings to mind those heavy religious epics—think along the lines of *Passion*. But here, there’s this lingering sense that religion is being used as a sort of cosmic "thank you" note to a woman simply because she sacrificed herself for a man, essentially playing out his specific fantasies. It feels like a strange way to frame devotion, though I suppose I’m just circling back to my own point again. 😍

Just one more little thing... have you ever heard of the Aghori? They’re these Hindu ascetics who, even when engaging in their most gruesome and necrophilic rituals, manage to maintain this incredible, unwavering devotion. It’s a heavy concept, I know, but there's something profoundly striking about that kind of absolute commitment. Clean.There’s something almost "Artemidian" about the way he absolutely surrenders himself to his obsessions; it's a total immersion into these heavy, profound themes that feel almost too weighty for a casual conversation right now. But let's be honest—this film isn't nearly as innocent as it might appear on the surface.

You know, you often see these little archetypal nods scattered throughout cinema—think of those Nietzschean tensions between the Apollonian and Dionysian elements, for instance. Not necessarily in this specific film, but as a general phenomenon in the medium. I can't help but feel that, more often than not, we aren't actually seeing what the film implies, but rather just projecting whatever it is we're itching to see onto the screen. It’s a simple byproduct of the fact that a single cluster of facts, or a sequence of events, can be twisted into countless different and even contradictory interpretations. Honestly, I think the absolute worst thing you can do in art is go hunting for the "artist's intention," acting as if the creator holds some sort of divine authority over how their work is understood.

I certainly agree that one ought to strive for goodness, 😁, but even if Trier's intention was to portray virtue through the lens of cinema, that doesn't mean the film actually succeeds in doing so. Instead, what we see is a depiction of how female naivety can be exploited—or, had the film taken a different path, perhaps a descent into madness.

He tells her to sleep with others and that she should tell him about it. But then, suggesting he actually said this to encourage her independence—and that her telling him about sleeping with others is somehow an issue—makes it sound as though sex itself is a moral failing (even though the film never implies that). If she wouldn't have slept with anyone else under any other circumstances, then the way the film ends suggests that God is satisfied with this exploitation and that her actions were somehow righteous. To me, that feels like a deeply inhumane stance toward women.

Her kindness is portrayed with such overwhelming conviction—I mean, even the doctor eventually caves and admits that Bess was simply a "good" person—that there are really only two reasons why you might have missed it. Either you’re just like those rigid, ideologically blinded townspeople, or you’ve never actually experienced true feminine love in your life. If you had, you would’ve recognized so many hallmarks of a woman in love within Bess's behavior—especially if she's perhaps a little "tipsy" on top of it all. The only way I can see it is if you believe a woman in love is inherently naive or just plain crazy. Does love always have to be held back by reservations? Because if it does, then I'm not sure we're even talking about the same thing.

Beyond that—and I know you’ve made your stance clear in your previous posts—we’re living in such a cynical, pragmatic era now that people like Bess are becoming an endangered species. But we really have to keep in mind that this story is set in the 70s, back when these kinds of eccentric souls were actually a bit more common in the world.

ironmarlin1 said:
I honestly can't help but feel that we’re all just circling the drain when it comes to discussing this particular subject, drifting through these endless debates without ever truly grasping the core of the matter. It's much like watching a slow-motion replay of a championship game where you know exactly how the play ends, yet you find yourself mesmerized by the sheer, agonizing tension of the buildup. There is a certain weight to these discussions, a gravity that pulls us in, much like how one might feel sitting in a quiet corner of a dim library in Boston, surrounded by the heavy scent of old paper and the unspoken wisdom of centuries. We tend to get lost in the minutiae, focusing on the tiny, jagged edges of an argument while completely ignoring the broad, sweeping landscape that defines the entire conflict. I find myself wondering if we are even capable of seeing the forest for the trees anymore, or if we have become too enamored with our own specialized lenses to ever appreciate the view from the summit. It feels as though we are constantly rearranging the furniture in a house that is already being reclaimed by the elements, performing these intricate little rituals of logic and rhetoric while the very foundation shifts beneath our feet. Perhaps there is a sense of comfort in the repetition, a way to stave off the realization that some questions simply don't have answers that satisfy the soul, but I cannot shake the feeling that we are merely stalling for time. kaže:
I’ll be the first to admit that the ending is absolutely pathetic, but honestly, even that level of melodrama can’t overshadow the core message this entire film carries. Having followed Lars' work quite closely over the years, I don't think any of his previous takes on Medea have ever truly topped this one. I haven't actually had a chance to sit down and watch *Europa* yet—though my expectations for it are sky-high—but since I know you hold an atheist worldview, I completely understand why those Christian undertones left such a bad taste in your mouth. For me, though, I tend to view those religious elements through a purely symbolic lens; religion doesn't carry much weight in my own life either, but I don't exactly harbor a deep-seated aversion to it like some others might.

I don't really have anything against Christian undertones appearing in films—unless, of course, that religious subtext is the entire point of the narrative or something along those lines. It’s giving off major snuff film vibes. It brings to mind those heavy religious epics—think along the lines of *Passion*. But here, there’s this lingering sense that religion is being used as a sort of cosmic "thank you" note to a woman simply because she sacrificed herself for a man, essentially playing out his specific fantasies. It feels like a strange way to frame devotion, though I suppose I’m just circling back to my own point again. 😍

Just one more little thing... have you ever heard of the Aghori? They’re these Hindu ascetics who, even when engaging in their most gruesome and necrophilic rituals, manage to maintain this incredible, unwavering devotion. It’s a heavy concept, I know, but there's something profoundly striking about that kind of absolute commitment. Clean.There’s something almost "Artemidian" about the way he absolutely surrenders himself to his obsessions; it's a total immersion into these heavy, profound themes that feel almost too weighty for a casual conversation right now. But let's be honest—this film isn't nearly as innocent as it might appear on the surface.

You know, you often see these little archetypal nods scattered throughout cinema—think of those Nietzschean tensions between the Apollonian and Dionysian elements, for instance. Not necessarily in this specific film, but as a general phenomenon in the medium. I can't help but feel that, more often than not, we aren't actually seeing what the film implies, but rather just projecting whatever it is we're itching to see onto the screen. It’s a simple byproduct of the fact that a single cluster of facts, or a sequence of events, can be twisted into countless different and even contradictory interpretations. Honestly, I think the absolute worst thing you can do in art is go hunting for the "artist's intention," acting as if the creator holds some sort of divine authority over how their work is understood.

I certainly agree that one ought to strive for goodness, 😁, but even if Trier's intention was to portray virtue through the lens of cinema, that doesn't mean the film actually succeeds in doing so. Instead, what we see is a depiction of how female naivety can be exploited—or, had the film taken a different path, perhaps a descent into madness.

He tells her to sleep with others and that she should tell him about it. But then, suggesting he actually said this to encourage her independence—and that her telling him about sleeping with others is somehow an issue—makes it sound as though sex itself is a moral failing (even though the film never implies that). If she wouldn't have slept with anyone else under any other circumstances, then the way the film ends suggests that God is satisfied with this exploitation and that her actions were somehow righteous. To me, that feels like a deeply inhumane stance toward women.

At first, he framed it as this purely altruistic thing—that he’d maintain a normal sexual life just so he could eventually find her stories appealing again, since they served as a kind of mental stimulation that kept him feeling "alive." Regardless of how you spin it, HER choice was to embrace that "exploitation" as the ultimate expression of unconditional love. Honestly, I don't see why a story like this couldn't be set in some small, remote village in rural India or deep in the heart of an Islamic community. At its core, the narrative is really about rebelling against the rigid norms of a dominant religious society.
ironmarlin1 ironmarlin1 Active Member
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#44 ·
Roger Long67 said:Her kindness is portrayed with such overwhelming conviction—I mean, even the doctor eventually caves and admits that Bess was simply a "good" person—that there are really only two reasons why you might have missed it. Either you’re just like those rigid, ideologically blinded townspeople, or you’ve never actually experienced true feminine love in your life. If you had, you would’ve recognized so many hallmarks of a woman in love within Bess's behavior—especially if she's perhaps a little "tipsy" on top of it all. The only way I can see it is if you believe a woman in love is inherently naive or just plain crazy. Does love always have to be held back by reservations? Because if it does, then I'm not sure we're even talking about the same thing.

Beyond that—and I know you’ve made your stance clear in your previous posts—we’re living in such a cynical, pragmatic era now that people like Bess are becoming an endangered species. But we really have to keep in mind that this story is set in the 70s, back when these kinds of eccentric souls were actually a bit more common in the world.

At first, he framed it as this purely altruistic thing—that he’d maintain a normal sexual life just so he could eventually find her stories appealing again, since they served as a kind of mental stimulation that kept him feeling "alive." Regardless of how you spin it, HER choice was to embrace that "exploitation" as the ultimate expression of unconditional love. Honestly, I don't see why a story like this couldn't be set in some small, remote village in rural India or deep in the heart of an Islamic community. At its core, the narrative is really about rebelling against the rigid norms of a dominant religious society.

Her kindness is indeed suggestively portrayed, as you put it. However, there is a fundamental issue here: what the director intends to suggest isn't necessarily what is objectively suggested. I fail to see why you assume I didn't recognize Bess's intentions, motives, or desires. What I disputed was Trier's final verdict on how her love is realized, not her intention to do good. Now, I could certainly list several reasons why you missed the mark (just as you are doing to me), but it’s probably better to skip the low blows. As for your question, the answer is that love must have reservations (which is painfully evident in many cases of domestic abuse). Perhaps certain religious practices might tolerate or even glorify the sacrifice of women for men, but that says far more about those religions than anything else.

Sometimes, a greater love and self-sacrifice toward someone is shown by leaving them behind, which is a much harder path to walk. But that’s a different conversation entirely, and since the film ended the way it did, it shouldn't have been used to morally endorse or celebrate such a humiliation of a woman in the service of a sick male fantasy.

And regarding your claim about "endemic species," you’re really just proving my point about the film's sexist undertones. To produce a "pure" type of woman, one has to be raised within a strict patriarchy.

At the start, he altruistically wanted her to continue a normal sexual life so that, over time, he would begin to enjoy her stories, as they served as a form of mental masturbation that kept him "alive." Regardless, HER CHOICE was to permit this "exploitation" as the most sublime act of unconditional love. And I don't see why such a story couldn't be told in some small rural village in the Middle East or India. After all, the core of the story is a rebellion against the norms of the dominant religious community.

Yes, and it is also a choice for some women to permit any kind of abuse in the name of love. Many accept it as an act of unconditional devotion while knowing they are suffering at the same time. I can easily imagine how a woman like that might interpret this film. Hmm, cynicism and pragmatism—it truly is the very cynicism you speak of.
Roger Long67 Roger Long67 Newcomer
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#45 ·
Look, Davor, there's a massive difference between some quasi-philosophical internet trolling and actual—real—LIFE. Heaven forbid you run into someone like Bess one day; you'd be forced to overhaul your entire life philosophy from the ground up, and honestly, that sounds like an absolute nightmare...😲 because apparently, philosophy is supposed to be *über alles*, right? As if we wouldn't let a little thing like raw emotion disrupt our carefully curated life concepts. We humans are just such incredibly rational creatures—it’s almost fascinating, isn't it?...
And regarding your constant grudge against "Trier's final verdict on the realization of her love"—look, if heaven doesn't exist, then people like Bess deserve to have it invented just for them. It's the least they could ask for. But don't worry, you'll figure it out once you grow up.
Carl Nguyen5 Carl Nguyen5 Active Member
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joined Dec 2012
#46 ·
I'm watching it right now—just hit the halfway mark—and man, this Bess character has absolutely lost her mind 😁😁😁
Gerald Jones3 Gerald Jones3 Member
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joined May 2008
#47 ·
The better the movie, the more agonizing it is to watch. Either way, it's a masterpiece.
Kate Nguyen87 Kate Nguyen87 Newcomer
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joined Feb 2018
#48 ·
I remember watching this when I was 18.
Morbid, twisted, boring, monotonous, slow... I had about 15 different dreams where I asked myself why the hell I was even watching this and if I should just turn it off, but I didn't.
A MASTERPIECE 10/10. Maybe the greatest film ever made. It's the closest thing to a divine experience the seventh art has ever achieved.
Brandon Myers93 Brandon Myers93 Newcomer
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#49 ·
An exceptional film...
Douglas Clark2 Douglas Clark2 Member
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#50 ·
Bess is honestly such a total badass...

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