Compulsive sexual behavior - Need advice/help

I need help ASAP 😢

So, look, my diagnosis is F20, if that even matters. But man, I've been struggling for a while now with this insane, overwhelming sex drive. I'm 25, never really had anything happen, and I feel like I'm in my absolute prime biologically—my body is just screaming for it. Like, the other day I was out walking on the beach, and it was so embarrassing because I was getting hard so bad, and I was literally eyeing every single woman I saw. Old, young, honestly, at this rate I’ll probably be looking at dogs and cats too. IT'S HORRIBLE!!! 🙂🙂🙂 My standards are basically non-existent right now. Zero. Still, I can't make anything happen. Some people told me there are girls out there who are easy to hook up with, but harder to build something long-term with. I don't know if that's true, but it just makes me more depressed because I start wondering, if they're so easy, why am I still failing?

So, what's the move? There are no hookups at the beach, and honestly, paying for sex is way too expensive. But I'm so obsessed that it’s actually crossed my mind. What if I screw up and just get played? I can't even get my psychiatrist or my GP to prescribe anything to kill my libido. This is eating me alive and making me miserable 😢 Sorry for saying this, but I'm seriously jerking off every five minutes. I'm hard like 90% of the day. I'm telling you, anything with a vagina attracts me.

Since there's zero help out there. Doctors just DON'T GET IT. I'm terrified of where this is heading... I'm having all these suicidal thoughts, and even thoughts about sexual assault 😢 I don't want to do either of those things, but this INTENSE force, this primal urge... I'm scared it's going to push me over the edge. It's so hard, and I really don't want to be remembered like Elliot Rodger. Please, seriously, do not mock me... What do I do? Help me, please! 🙂 I've even thought about cutting my balls off. Because this pain is beyond anything I can imagine. It's just not normal for a 25-year-old in his prime to be constantly dealing with this. That's it, I don't know what else to say. Where do I go? What do I do? I'm lost!

Just please don't tell me to find a hobby or try some homeopathic or holistic remedies. I literally cannot focus on anything except jerking off every five minutes. From the bottom of my heart, I'm desperate, please help me 🙂

I suspect that your various "issues" might not actually have any direct correlation with your diagnosis ☕

Lawrence Bailey77 said:I suspect that your various "issues" might not actually have any direct correlation with your diagnosis ☕

Look, I get it, okay? I was just saying it for the sake of it. Probably shouldn't have even brought it up. But seriously, I need some damn help here or things are gonna go south fast🙂

Now I'm sitting here losing my mind looking at your avatar. Oh my God, man, you gotta watch out, look at what I just typed😢

The whole damn country is basically one big provocation with sex on every single corner! Even in forum avatars. No wonder I'm struggling with this stuff.

rowdybison said:Look, I get it, okay? I was just saying it for the sake of it. Probably shouldn't have even brought it up. But seriously, I need some damn help here or things are gonna go south fast🙂

Now I'm sitting here losing my mind looking at your avatar. Oh my God, man, you gotta watch out, look at what I just typed😢

The whole damn country is basically one big provocation with sex on every single corner! Even in forum avatars. No wonder I'm struggling with this stuff.

What kind of "sideways" are we talking about? What exactly does that mess look like to you?

What sort of help are you looking for?

Now I’m sitting here losing my mind just looking at your avatar. Good grief, you really have to watch yourself, given what I just wrote 😢

Watch ourselves from whom... God? 😬

The entire damn world is practically flaunting sex on every single corner! Even in the avatars on this forum. It’s hardly surprising I’m dealing with these issues.

What issues are you actually having? 🐔

In short, what's the actual problem? ☕ Define it.

Honestly, some people can’t even wrap their heads around basic American English, and let’s be real—the IQ levels in this thread are just tragic. I probably shouldn't have even bothered starting this discussion. Just a bunch of total idiots. 🙂

I’m not entirely convinced this isn't tied to your diagnosis, even if it isn't a direct link. Look, I'm going to assume you're just acting out because you're feeling pretty desperate right now, which is probably why you're posting all this nonsense about rape.

Be real with me—do you actually hang out with girls your age, like just being friends or having a social circle? Or does the idea of talking to women actually freak you out?
And how are you with people in general? Like, do you actually have a sense of humor or any talent for making people laugh? If you do, what's your vibe? Just give me a real description of who you are as a person.

cosmichound said:I’m not entirely convinced this isn't tied to your diagnosis, even if it isn't a direct link. Look, I'm going to assume you're just acting out because you're feeling pretty desperate right now, which is probably why you're posting all this nonsense about rape.

Be real with me—do you actually hang out with girls your age, like just being friends or having a social circle? Or does the idea of talking to women actually freak you out?
And how are you with people in general? Like, do you actually have a sense of humor or any talent for making people laugh? If you do, what's your vibe? Just give me a real description of who you are as a person.

And hey, I caught those little sexual hints in your username too. Man, what is wrong with people? Fine, I'll answer. The thing is, I don't want this! I want to kill my sex drive entirely. Just like I managed to kill my urge to get married and start a family (ya know, all that baby-making stuff). I’d honestly take whatever pills I could find or even pay for castration if it meant getting rid of it :/ But doctors won't prescribe me anything. Not even something like Andur, nothing. I already asked. As for social stuff, I don't really have any contact with anyone except for one buddy of mine who's also in the same boat. But I don't buy into "friendship" either. Everything's transactional. Men want sex, women want money and favors. It's not that I'm scared of girls, I just hate the whole process of meeting people outside of my circle. Besides, I know millions of people meet online anyway. And what does humor have to do with it, for real? What, am I supposed to smoke weed until I'm laughing like a complete idiot? Is that supposed to make me successful? Lol

You’ve got much bigger issues on your plate than just wanting sex. Fix your hang-ups first... maybe spend some more time talking to a therapist. Once you handle that, then you can worry about where to blow off steam.