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Jose Carter2 Jose Carter2 MemberOP
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joined May 2017
#1 ·
I think I’m becoming addicted to working out.
For over a year now, I've been sticking to this really solid fitness program, hitting the gym five days a week.

So, what’s the issue? The issue is that I haven't trained since Saturday, and honestly... the lethargy is setting in. A bit of depression, some apathy... I just feel lost.

I’m getting back at it today, and I'll keep it up until Saturday. I know once I finish, I'll feel so much better—more focused, more confident.

Is this actually normal?
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 Veteran
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#2 ·
Honestly, there’s no point in pushing yourself too hard. I mean, what’s even the goal? What are you actually gaining by forcing it?

Feeling totally lost just because you missed two days at the gym? Seriously? Why not pick up a book, try sketching, listen to some music, or play an instrument? Just shift that focus toward things that are actually interesting. You could always just sit back and watch the Olympic Games.
Angela Gray12 Angela Gray12 Member
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joined Jan 2013
#3 ·
Jose Carter2 said:I think I’m becoming addicted to working out.
For over a year now, I've been sticking to this really solid fitness program, hitting the gym five days a week.

So, what’s the issue? The issue is that I haven't trained since Saturday, and honestly... the lethargy is setting in. A bit of depression, some apathy... I just feel lost.

I’m getting back at it today, and I'll keep it up until Saturday. I know once I finish, I'll feel so much better—more focused, more confident.

Is this actually normal?

Heh, man... I've been exactly where you are.

First off, you really need to sit down and ask yourself who you're actually doing this for. What’s the actual driver behind your training sessions?
If you're doing it to impress other people or just so you don't look like a loser in front of someone else—that's a losing game.
But if you're doing it for yourself? Bravo. Good for you. 😁

That post-workout high? That’s just the endorphin rush. Congrats, you’ve become a legitimate fitness junkie thanks to those sweet, sweet hormones that hit your system after a heavy session. There’s nothing wrong with that; it’s basically like a free, healthy, natural high. But—and there's always a "but"—this often leads straight into one major trap: overtraining.

Look, if you want muscles to actually recover and grow, you can't just grind constantly; you have to eat right and, more importantly, you have to rest.
If you’re relatively new to this—say, a year or two in—and you aren't a pro athlete, hitting it this hard can be way too much for your body to handle, especially if your nutrition isn't dialed in. All you're going to achieve is muscle fatigue, which eventually triggers a total counter-effect to whatever goals you're chasing.

Also, if you’ve been following the exact same training program for an entire year, I’m telling you right now: that’s a mistake. You’re essentially running in circles. You should be switching things up every three months once your body adapts to the old movements. If you keep doing the same repetitive patterns, your body stops being challenged. It gets comfortable. And when it gets comfortable, you’re basically inviting chronic fatigue, muscle wasting, and either fat gain or extreme weight loss (depending on your specific metabolism), not to mention a massive invitation for injuries!

That guilt you feel when you miss a session? That’s pretty standard. But that’s exactly why everyone from amateur hobbyists to professional athletes uses a system of recovery. You absolutely need at least two or three rest days a week. And once you finish a full cycle of your program (remember that three-month rule I mentioned?), you ought to take two or three weeks of deloading—where you don't push yourself hard and just let your body actually recover properly.
Jose Carter2 Jose Carter2 MemberOP
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joined May 2017
#4 ·
Carl Rivera43 said:Honestly, there’s no point in pushing yourself too hard. I mean, what’s even the goal? What are you actually gaining by forcing it?

Feeling totally lost just because you missed two days at the gym? Seriously? Why not pick up a book, try sketching, listen to some music, or play an instrument? Just shift that focus toward things that are actually interesting. You could always just sit back and watch the Olympic Games.

Ahhh... you just don't get it. It's not that I feel totally lost, it's more like... I'm missing something. Like I missed a dose of something essential.

I make sure to take regular breaks every 4 to 6 weeks.
And honestly, if I'm burnt out or just sick of the grind, I have no problem taking 10 days off. No ego about it.

The issue is when I'm rested, yet I still feel that void... like I haven't taken my dose...
Jose Carter2 Jose Carter2 MemberOP
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joined May 2017
#5 ·
I’m big on deload weeks. I usually bake them in every four to six weeks... or honestly, even sooner if my body starts feeling completely spent, or if I'm just exhausted, or simply can't find the motivation...

I've been eating right for five years now...

The problem lies elsewhere... 😁

My body just can't seem to catch its rhythm... It's because this is such a professionally structured program where you're switching up the activity every few minutes.

Monday... back at it again.

Cardio i
Light intensity: Jog 2 min / Run 6 min / Jog 2 min...
(Strength ii)
Dumbbell bench Press (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Flys (20 reps)...
Bar Dips (30 reps)
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
Mid-intensity session: 30 seconds of sprinting followed by 30 seconds of jogging... just keep that cycle going for a total of 10 minutes.
Strength ii...
Dumbbell bench Press (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Incline bench Press (20 reps)...
Tricep Extensions (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2, 2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
Top tier: Jog 2 min / Run 6 min / Jump Rope 2 min
Core...
V-Ups (20 reps)...
Bicycle Crunches (20 reps)...
Twisting Plank (20 reps)...

Tuesday Workout Routine = 3-2-1 Lower Body Workout

(Cardio i)
A quick 10-minute jog... just to get the blood moving.
Strength ii...
Forward Lunge with Dumbbell Bicep Curl (20 reps)
Squat Thrust (20 reps)...
Squat Press... also known as the Push Press (hitting 20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit 2 more Times...
Cardio ii...
Sprint for 30 seconds, followed by a 30-second jog... just keep that cycle going for 10 minutes total.
Strength ii...
Walking Lunge with Dumbbell Bicep Curl (20 reps)
Squat Thrust (20 reps)...
Squat Press (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2, 2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
A quick little warm-up... Jog 2 min / Run 6 min / Jump Rope 2 min.
Core...
AB Crunches (20 reps)
Bosu Ball Knee Tucks (20 reps)
Forearm Planks (hold for 30 seconds, 3 sets)...

Wednesday Workout Routine = 3-2-1 Back Workout

(Cardio i)
Ten minutes on the stationary bike... just enough to get moving.
Strength ii...
Dumbbell Rows (20 reps)...
Bent Over Dumbbell Flys (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Lateral Raises (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2 more Times...
Cardio ii...
Sprint for 30 seconds, then ease into a jog for 30... just keep that cycle going for 10 minutes total.
Strength ii...
Dumbbell Rows (20 reps)...
Bent Over Dumbbell Flys (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Lateral Raises (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2. Strength Training Circuit 2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
A quick 10-minute jog... just to get the blood moving.
Core...
V-Ups (20 reps)
Bicycle Crunches (20 reps)...
Twisting Plank (20 reps)...

Thursday Workout Routine: A little 3-2-1 Upper Body Workout...

(Cardio ii)
Find a steep hill and try this: Jog 2 min / Run 6 min / Jog 2 min...
Strength ii...
Dumbbell bench Press (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Incline bench Press... 20 reps.
Bar Dips (20 reps)
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
Find a hill with a serious incline. Sprint for 30 seconds, then ease into a jog for 30 seconds... just keep that rhythm going for a full 10 minutes.
Strength ii...
Dumbbell bench Press (20 reps)...
Dumbbell Incline bench Press (20 reps)...
Tricep Extensions (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2, 2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
Hit an incline: Jog 2 min / Run 6 min / Jog 2 min...
Core...
AB Crunches (20 reps)
Bosu Ball Knee Tucks (20 reps)
Forearm Planks... hold for 30 seconds, three rounds. Simple, but effective.

Friday Workout Routine: 3-2-1 Lower Body Workout

(Cardio ii)
Jump Rope 2 min... plus some more. Just a quick 10-minute session to get the heart rate up.
(Strength ii)
Forward Lunge with Dumbbell Bicep Curl (20 reps)
Squat Thrust (20 reps)
Squat Press (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit 2 more Times...
Cardio ii...
Sprint for 30 seconds, then settle into a jog for 30... just keep that cycle going for a solid 10 minutes.
Strength ii...
Walking Lunges paired with a Dumbbell Bicep Curl... 20 reps. Total killer.
Squat Thrust (20 reps)...
Squat Press (20 reps)...
Repeat Strength Training Circuit #2, 2 more Times...
Cardio ii HIIT Training...
Jog for 2 minutes... then pick up the pace and run for 5.
Core...
V-Ups (20 reps)...
Bicycle Crunches (20 reps)
Twisting Plank (20 reps)
Angela Gray12 Angela Gray12 Member
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joined Jan 2013
#6 ·
Look, here’s the deal... this is a pro-level program, and you aren't a pro athlete.
The first thing I notice is how they’ve mashed together cardio with strength and endurance training, then thrown in heavy hypertrophy work on top of it all.
That is a massive red flag. Unless you have a private nutritionist managing every single gram of food you eat, your body isn't going to recover properly. You’re basically confusing your muscles—you beat them down with cardio one minute, then try to pump them up the very same day! You're just tearing them apart.

My advice? Walk away from this mess and adopt a "3+3+3" system instead. Think of it like this: three months dedicated to building mass (usually during the winter), followed by three months focusing on pure strength and endurance, and finally, three months of cardio to get that definition.
Depending on which phase you're in, you pick your specific exercises for the day, but following a top-down approach works wonders. For example, dedicate the first two days of the week to an Upper Body Workout, make the third day about hitting your 😁, and let the fourth day be a rest day or something light like lower back work. Then, save the fifth day specifically for a Lower Body Workout to hit those legs and glutes. The key is not overdoing it; if you push too hard, you'll end up getting the exact opposite result of what you want.

It’s good to hear you’ve been eating right for five years now, but the real question is: what does "eating right" actually mean to you?😁
Looking at the routine you laid out, a layman would tell you that you’d need to be slamming somewhere between 3,000 and 5,000 calories a day just to keep up, and I’m betting you aren't eating nearly that much, right?🙂

Stick to the fundamentals. That’s the golden rule of training.
Jose Carter2 Jose Carter2 MemberOP
41 messages
joined May 2017
#7 ·
This workout calls for about 2,400 calories. Honestly, I don't even need a nutritionist when I can just spend time digging through sites like this on my own...

http://caloriecount.about.com/

And that isn't even an elite pro athlete's routine.

I'm not here looking for coaching tips. What I'm trying to get at is that without training, I feel like a smoker going through withdrawal...
Jose Carter2 Jose Carter2 MemberOP
41 messages
joined May 2017
#8 ·
I wouldn't have any trouble switching over to your workout routine, but the addiction part? That stays exactly the same. 😉

Let's just say it’s like an adrenaline rush. A long time ago, I actually joined a hardcore sports fan club for that exact reason...

I live for the roller coasters. I always end up leaving everything until the absolute last second because I crave that sense of urgency and tension.

I even love rushing to catch a train by the skin of my teeth... just for that little hit of excitement.
Angela Gray12 Angela Gray12 Member
13 messages
joined Jan 2013
#9 ·
Jose Carter2 said:I wouldn't have any trouble switching over to your workout routine, but the addiction part? That stays exactly the same. 😉

Let's just say it’s like an adrenaline rush. A long time ago, I actually joined a hardcore sports fan club for that exact reason...

I live for the roller coasters. I always end up leaving everything until the absolute last second because I crave that sense of urgency and tension.

I even love rushing to catch a train by the skin of my teeth... just for that little hit of excitement.

Then just switch over to extreme sports😁

if you want to see what a real adrenaline surge feels like.😉
Angela Gray12 Angela Gray12 Member
13 messages
joined Jan 2013
#10 ·
Jose Carter2 said:This workout calls for about 2,400 calories. Honestly, I don't even need a nutritionist when I can just spend time digging through sites like this on my own...

http://caloriecount.about.com/

And that isn't even an elite pro athlete's routine.

I'm not here looking for coaching tips. What I'm trying to get at is that without training, I feel like a smoker going through withdrawal...

So, tell me, what's your build? Are you an ectomorph, endomorph, or mesomorph?
Maybe the guy who designed this routine needs 2400 calories, but that doesn't mean you do.

A nutritionist isn't there just to count your calories; they're there to structure how you eat properly.
How many meals are you eating a day? What's the timing? Are you using protein, mass gainers, or creatine?

In my opinion, this workout is overkill—especially if you're just running the same repetitive loop over and over. You might need a break after 6 or 7 weeks, sure, but if you're constantly cycling back to the exact same exercises without actually challenging your body, I don't know... This looks like something meant for a pro or semi-pro athlete staying in shape, definitely not for someone who's still relatively new to all this.🤷

Alright, alright, you aren't looking for training tips—just calm down your hormones, David Vaughn75, all five of them... but you have to realize you're doing something wrong if you're bringing up fatigue and "prevention" of things.

Every single person has some version of OCD. For some, it doesn't interfere with life; for others, it ruins everything.
Athletes—whether they're casual gym rats or pros—tend to have those obsessive-compulsive traits dialed up a bit higher. Many people I know (myself included) become worse than any soldier during intense training periods. Everything has to be perfect; everything has to happen to the minute. The second a session is skipped or delayed (maybe due to being sick), the guilt and depression hit immediately.
That's all normal, and it comes as part of the package deal with serious training. It only stops being normal when it starts tanking your quality of life—whatever that means to you, of course.😁
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 Regular
626 messages
joined Sep 2015
#11 ·
Look, let's be real—getting totally obsessed with working out is actually a recognized thing in psychiatry, and honestly, if you aren't careful, it can spiral into full-blown psychosis
Nicholas Gonzalez8 Nicholas Gonzalez8 Regular
293 messages
joined Feb 2015
#12 ·
Look, staying active is great—truly, it’s vital—but if you find yourself getting totally hooked on the same routine every single day, it’s probably a sign that you need to turn your attention elsewhere. It's like when someone spends all their time obsessing over a single stock on the NYSE instead of looking at their whole portfolio; you're missing the bigger picture. Think about it—what's actually missing from your life, or what's causing the friction?
lonejackal6 lonejackal6 Member
16 messages
joined Feb 2014
#13 ·
I’m certainly no expert on what you’ve got going on, nor am I someone who spends much time in the gym myself, but I do follow sports closely. Honestly, looking at your routine, you’re training like you’re prepping for the NBA—even Kobe Bryant didn't push himself through all that intensity in the weight room quite like this... and for what, exactly? I mean, sure, you might have become somewhat addicted to the grind, but have you ever considered actually applying all that effort to a sport when you aren't lifting? Just playing some recreational basketball or soccer would give you a chance to actually utilize that physical conditioning 😁

That just popped into my head as a suggestion for you. For instance, I don't really "work out" in the traditional sense, but I play basketball recreationally. I definitely don't have your level of stamina or peak physical condition—mostly because I smoke and my diet isn't exactly gourmet health food—but playing sports keeps me sane. After ten games of hoops, I can barely walk, but man, it feels incredible.
mistywolf15 mistywolf15 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Oct 2015
#14 ·
I’m getting absolutely zero endorphin rush after my workouts. All I feel is pure exhaustion. Is this normal, and how do I fix it?
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active Member
69 messages
joined Mar 2015
#15 ·
mistywolf15 said:I’m getting absolutely zero endorphin rush after my workouts. All I feel is pure exhaustion. Is this normal, and how do I fix it?

It depends on your training style, but for beginners, it’s always a tougher slog, and frankly, genetics and individual predisposition play a role too. Don't go expecting a runner's high right out of the gate.
It's perfectly normal, and obviously, your nutrition plays a massive part in the equation.
Benjamin Wilson4 Benjamin Wilson4 Member
12 messages
joined Mar 2013
#16 ·
I can only speak from my friend's experience. He’s become addicted to the gym because of deep-seated insecurities. Back in elementary and middle school, he was that kid—short, chubby, wearing thick glasses, and sporting a high forehead that made him look half-bald. He hit the gym for the first time in high school, and it turned into a full-blown obsession. For ten years now, he’s been grinding for three hours every single day. If he misses even one session, he feels absolutely miserable. Now, he’s built, and women actually show interest, so I guess he lives in constant fear that those old demons—that extra weight—will come crawling back if he ever stops lifting.
Casey Gomez Casey Gomez Active Member
69 messages
joined Mar 2015
#17 ·
Exercise addiction is driven by an increased release of endorphins—it's essentially a chemical high similar to morphine. Personally, I follow my own advanced regimen; on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays, I perform four sets of pushups, pull-ups, and squats every single day. On Thursdays and Fridays, I run three laps around my office chair. The weekend is reserved for recovery and the sauna. My diet consists strictly of eggs (consumed thirty minutes before and one hour after training) because I don't eat meat, and I find whey protein to be loaded with toxins. If anyone actually cares to learn more, feel free to DM me; I'm happy to share some advice.
Roger Barrett25 Roger Barrett25 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Apr 2013
#18 ·
Calling this an addiction is a straight-up insult to people dealing with actual addictions.
It’s just a solid habit and a healthy lifestyle.
Daniel Gomez10 Daniel Gomez10 Active Member
74 messages
joined Jul 2012
#19 ·
That’s why people call it a positive addiction.
electriccanyon2 electriccanyon2 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Feb 2014
#20 ·
Roger Barrett25 said:Calling this an addiction is a straight-up insult to people dealing with actual addictions.
It’s just a solid habit and a healthy lifestyle.

Nah, I gotta disagree. Working out can totally turn into a full-blown obsession where everything else in your life just falls apart because you're spending 6 or 7 hours at the gym every single day. That's a real problem right there.
It's officially called Exercise dependence.

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