I guess life just keeps throwing curveballs. Maybe that's all there is to it. kaže:
We actually have the Durex Elite, Ultra Thin, and Real Feel options. It’s pretty rare for that kind of thing to actually work out, I guess. 😢
Yeah, he’s got some kind of mental block there. It's probably not going to get better anytime soon because that constant anxiety over using a condom is just too much. I know a couple who dealt with the exact same thing—he couldn't do the condom thing, and they lived in different cities, too. Once the girlfriend switched to the pill, everything was fine, I guess.
Look, pills aren't exactly peak health, and they definitely cost more than just going unprotected, I guess. But for me, that’s still better than living in constant fear of an unplanned pregnancy. Maybe eventually he'll chill out enough to handle condoms, but maybe he just needs more time. 🤷
Chloe Gray5 said:I was just saying I wouldn't use the pill for only two days out of the month—I didn't say doing nothing was better—but hey, it's her call and there's no point in me lecturing her... she knows exactly what happens when you skip protection.
Before I started on the pill, I always used condoms—and honestly, not once did things work out without protection.
I don't get it. I didn't mean for that to come off like an attack, I guess. 🙂 Condoms are obviously the best way to go here, but since that clearly isn't working, I guess birth control becomes a necessary evil if she wants protection. Maybe.