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Struggling with studying/learning – any tips?

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Kyle Long6 Kyle Long6 NewcomerOP
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joined Dec 2008
#1 ·
As I mentioned in my title, I am facing a rather significant struggle with my ability to study. I am currently in my junior year of college, and until now, I have never encountered an issue quite like this—so I am truly at a loss as to how to tackle it.
The core of the problem is this: whenever I actually sit down to focus, I can barely manage ten or fifteen minutes before I feel this overwhelming compulsion to get up—to turn on the TV, hop on the computer... then I try to return to the books for another fifteen minutes, and the cycle repeats indefinitely. It is entirely unproductive—just a massive waste of time...
I do not believe it is a lack of motivation, because I have a MASSIVE, absolutely enormous desire to pass this exam—especially since I only have one more course left before my senior year.

Any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated...

Thank you
swiftridge90 swiftridge90 Member
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joined Jan 2009
#2 ·
So, is there anything external that messes with your head, like alcohol, different kinds of stimulants, various drinks, and stuff like that? Are you in love? Did you struggle with focus when you were a kid? Any issues with behavioral outbursts?
Hit me back with those answers so we can keep moving forward with this... 😉
Sarah Fisher67 Sarah Fisher67 Newcomer
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joined Nov 2010
#3 ·
Oh God, it’s like I’m the one who started this whole thread...😕🙏
So, yeah—I’m checking every single one of those "symptoms" off the list. I'm also a junior, except I still have four finals hanging over my head...🤷
Everything was going smooth sailing before, no issues at all, but now? It’s like I've hit a wall—just total burnout. I honestly can't even...🤷 ...I'd do literally anything else right now...🙄
Peter Phillips32 Peter Phillips32 Active Member
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joined May 2009
#4 ·
@Sarah Fisher67/">@@Sarah Fisher67
Honestly, you’ve been doing this wrong for a while now. It’s just finally hitting the surface because you’ve reached a breaking point where you can't ignore it anymore.
It’s kind of like when you realize you're thirsty—by then, your body is already dehydrated, you know? You're already playing catch-up.

You really need to work on your focus. Just like any other skill, concentration isn't some magic gift; it's something you have to train.
Go find some actual, solid material on the subject. And once you stumble upon a method that actually clicks for you, stick with it. Don't jump around. If you keep repeating the same way of focusing, you'll eventually get better at it.

Personally, I’d suggest focusing on your breathing. (Do some digging on that, you'll find plenty of info)
fadedmarlin402 fadedmarlin402 Active Member
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#5 ·
Kyle Long6 said:Like I mentioned in the title, I’m hitting a serious wall when it comes to studying. I’m currently in my junior year of college, and I’ve never dealt with anything like this before. I honestly don't know how to tackle it.
The issue is that whenever I sit down to focus, I can only last maybe 10 or 15 minutes before I feel this desperate need to get up, turn on the TV, hop on the computer... then I try to study again for another 15 minutes, and it just keeps looping. It’s a total waste of time.
I don't think it's a lack of motivation. I have a MASSIVE, massive drive to pass this exam because it's the only thing standing between me and my senior year.

Any advice would be appreciated..

Thanks.

Hahahaha.

Honestly, I've been this way since I started school... there is zero chance I'm sitting still for more than 10 minutes to actually learn something... none at all. Still, I managed to pull through quite successfully in high school and even here at the university... I guess I just go all-in during those 10-15 minute bursts and get lucky with my memory. Who knows. Anyway, my advice? Get away from all the tech. Go find a library where there aren't any computers or TVs, somewhere where nothing can pull your attention away from the book. I tried that once and it worked wonders for me. 😁 Good luck.
Kyle Long6 Kyle Long6 NewcomerOP
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#6 ·
swiftridge90 said:Are there any external factors that throw you off—like alcohol, different stimulants, various drinks, etc.? Are you in love? Did you struggle with concentration when you were a kid? Do you have behavioral outbursts?
Answer those first, then we can move forward with this... 😉

I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I don't touch any kind of stimulants... as for love, I’ve been single for a loooooong time—so I don't think that's really an issue here.
Regarding my behavior—which is also something new to me—I find myself getting incredibly irritated and losing my temper very quickly; I end up yelling (not over trivial things, but it used to take much longer for me to reach a breaking point)...
As for my past behavior—I never had any issues through middle school or high school—everything was always fine, everything was always an A (both grades and conduct).
swiftridge90 swiftridge90 Member
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joined Jan 2009
#7 ·
Kyle Long6 said:I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I don't touch any kind of stimulants... as far as my love life goes, I'm a super long-term guy—so I don't think that's really an issue either.
As for my behavior, which is also pretty new to me, I get irritated and blow up really fast, just screaming at people (not over small stuff, but it used to take me way longer to lose it like this)..
And looking back at how I used to act—I never had any issues through middle school or high school—everything was always fine, always straight A's and perfect conduct.

Man, you're probably just stressed out. You've hit a wall with all the studying. Honestly, the brain only has so much capacity before it just hits a limit. Drink a ton of water, try stretching in the morning and evening (a walk or a run is probably best). If you feel sleepy during the day, grab a one-hour nap (don't sleep more than that). Also, set specific times for your PC or TV usage. Treat it like a reward at the end of the day. That way, you’ll know you can jump online or watch a show and actually relax because you finished the big tasks you planned out. Just don't overload your schedule for one day, be realistic about what you can actually handle.
I used to struggle with studying for a long time too, and what worked for me was doing maybe thirty minutes of hardcore, intense focus. Then I'd get up and do some chores, like washing the dishes, putting a load of laundry in, or whatever... then I'd go right back to the books. Oh, and music helped a lot. It depends on what you like. I went through a phase where I listened to Soundgarden (jumping around to it for like 15 mins at a time), and then later Justin Timberlake (dancing to him). Super silly and childish, I know, but clearly that little bit of physical movement helped wake my brain up.👍
Peter Phillips32 Peter Phillips32 Active Member
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joined May 2009
#8 ·
Just jumping on the back of what abattoir was saying here.

Look, if you hit the gym in the morning, you’re basically priming the engine for the day ahead, but hitting it at night? That’s all about decompressing and letting your body finally chill out after dealing with all the daily grind.

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