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Why does it keep asking me to update?

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Participants restlessdrifter12Rebecca Parkerwearymason4coppersailor28Megan Thomas5driftingcanyon2Michael Jackson10mistybisonswiftowl7
restlessdrifter12 restlessdrifter12 Active MemberOP
78 messages
joined Jun 2016
#1 ·
It’s driving me absolutely insane—I’m running Windows 10, and right after I finished the installation, I made sure to disable Windows 10 Automatic Updates (turned them off), yet here we are about a month later and it’s demanding an update again.
Fine, I let it run through all its processes—it took about 20 minutes or so
But now, after waiting roughly 15... 30 days, that same message pops up saying I need to perform an update once more.
It feels like a constant loop; it keeps asking for updates even though I specifically disabled the automatic update settings.
Does anyone out there actually know how to fix this persistent issue?

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Rebecca Parker Rebecca Parker Member
24 messages
joined Nov 2007
#2 ·
Nope, there's really no way to just turn off updates the normal way. You won't find an option to kill them within Windows itself—the best you can do is hit snooze for maybe a month at most. I know there are third-party apps out there claiming they can disable Windows Update entirely, but I haven't messed around with those myself. Honestly, if you just let one run, you're pretty much left alone for about a month or so.
restlessdrifter12 restlessdrifter12 Active MemberOP
78 messages
joined Jun 2016
#3 ·
What is even the point of having an "on/off" option in the Windows Update settings if this is how it works?
I honestly cannot believe I am being forced to run an update every single 30 days.
From what I can tell—and I've asked around—none of my colleagues at work deal with this kind of constant nagging.
Rebecca Parker Rebecca Parker Member
24 messages
joined Nov 2007
#4 ·
Maybe they’re just looking for a quick fix rather than a total overhaul? Like, just get it done, lose a few minutes, and then finally be left alone? 😁

Where on earth did you find that option to disable Windows Update? All I see is the "pause updates" feature where you have to pick a timeframe.

Honestly, I don't really see a massive problem with updates. 🤔
wearymason4 wearymason4 Active Member
239 messages
joined Oct 2014
#5 ·
I always keep my updates running; I don't see any reason to turn them off. My Windows Security gets updated every single day without fail, and as for this 20H2 thing—it had been sitting there as an available update for about 15 days before I finally just went ahead and installed it yesterday.
restlessdrifter12 restlessdrifter12 Active MemberOP
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joined Jun 2016
#6 ·
Andrew Fox74 said:Where on earth did you find that option to disable Windows Update? All I see is the "pause updates" feature—and even then, you just get to pick how long to wait before they kick back in.

I actually followed these specific steps to get it done:

To disable Windows 10 Automatic Updates:

Head over to the Control Panel — Administrative Tools — Services
Scroll down until you locate Windows Update in that list
Double-click the Windows Update entry
Once that window pops up, if the service is currently running, go ahead and click 'Stop'
Then, set startup Type to Disabled
coppersailor28 coppersailor28 Active Member
156 messages
joined Mar 2012
#7 ·
Andrew Fox74 said:...honestly, I don't see any major issue with updates. 🤔

It doesn't matter if you don't see it—or if I don't...

A user of any software (an OS, an app, whatever) should, upon purchase or installation, have the right to customize it (via settings and such) to suit their own needs and preferences, and not allow any outside intervention (intrusions) into that software by some 'uninvited' third party... At one's own 'risk,' obviously.

I don't update, yet Windows OS has a knack for surprising me exactly when I need it least;
I'm in a rush, I boot the PC... and then:
"... Don't turn off your computer ..."

And to top it all off, (since I manually clear out my downloaded update files)
"We couldn't complete the updates, undoing changes, don't turn off your computer ..."
wearymason4 wearymason4 Active Member
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joined Oct 2014
#8 ·
Look, you didn't actually buy Windows 10 OS from Microsoft; you basically just paid for a license to use it. They still hold all the cards when it comes to making changes, which is exactly what you agreed to when you clicked "accept" during the installation process.
In your settings, you can actually pick a specific window of time for updates so they don't mess with your workflow. It's right there in the top image (the line just above that red exclamation mark).
Megan Thomas5 Megan Thomas5 Active Member
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joined Jan 2021
#9 ·
I’m on the Insider program, so I basically never shut my computer down. That way, updates usually kick in around 3 AM, and everything is ready to go by morning.
driftingcanyon2 driftingcanyon2 Active Member
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joined Feb 2021
#10 ·
This should clear up everything:
https://www.sordum.org/9470/windows-...-blocker-v1-6/
Amen.
I honestly just perform an offline upgrade using an ISO image about once a year; it works perfectly for me and keeps all my headaches at bay.
restlessdrifter12 restlessdrifter12 Active MemberOP
78 messages
joined Jun 2016
#11 ·
Bravo, you hit the nail on the head!
Rebecca Parker Rebecca Parker Member
24 messages
joined Nov 2007
#12 ·
wearymason4 said:I always keep my updates turned on. Why would I even bother disabling them? Windows Security updates itself daily, and after seeing this 20H2 version sitting there for about 15 days, I just went ahead and updated yesterday.

Same here. Neither my laptop nor my girlfriend's machine have been touched—they've been running perfectly for two years now. They just update whenever they feel like it. Honestly, I think people overthink this too much... just let it run when it asks. If you have an SSD, it’s usually done in minutes. The real mess starts when people kill the process halfway through an update and don't let it finish.

On smartphones, having regular OS upgrades is a great feature, but for Windows, it feels like such a massive headache. 😁
Michael Jackson10 Michael Jackson10 Active Member
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joined Feb 2023
#13 ·
Andrew Fox74 said:Same goes for me and my girlfriend—we haven't messed with a single setting. Our Windows setups have been running flawlessly for two years now. They just update whenever they feel like it, no drama. I feel like people overthink this stuff way too much. Why make it complicated? Just let the system run its updates when it asks. If you're running an SSD, it’s usually done in a matter of minutes. The only time things actually go south is when people get impatient and kill the process halfway through. That's how you break things.

Mobile phones have this killer feature where the OS stays updated constantly without you even thinking about it. Why can't things work that way on Windows? Dealing with updates on a PC is such a massive pain. 😁

Look, this is just one side of the story. You’re probably looking at it from the perspective of a home user who doesn't have any "mission-critical" tasks running that actually need priority. I mean, shouldn't the user be the one deciding what matters most? Why should we let some Microsoft scheduler take over and force its own agenda regardless of what we're actually doing?

Look at it from a different angle, like in an office setting. You’ve got certain tasks that just can't be interrupted mid-stream, right? Or honestly, sometimes a user just wants to stay in the zone and keep things moving. Simple as that.
Look, at the end of the day, businesses run on a massive pile of third-party software that isn't made by Microsoft. A lot of these programs aren't exactly "aware" of how much Windows needs constant updates or maintenance, and let's be honest, some of them are just poorly coded junk. But here's the thing: if the software does its job and keeps the company running, isn't that what actually matters? That should be the deciding factor, right?
Look, this kind of setup demands total control over your tools and gear. Your computer isn't some precious thing—it’s just a tool for the job, like a hammer or an excavator. You wouldn't exactly tolerate a bulldozer deciding to run a random update right in the middle of a construction project, would you?

Look, I totally get why an OS needs a refresh. You need those security patches and everything else that keeps you productive. But let’s be real—the sheer number and frequency of these updates just screams that the original code isn't exactly top-tier, right? Still, absolute control should stay with the user. Why shouldn't we have the final say? Ideally, there could be periodic cumulative updates that you actually *have* to run, maybe once a year, but in between? Just leave us alone and stop messing with our settings.
Honestly, I think we should just be happy about it. There’s a totally valid reason why manufacturers want to keep a specific version of the OS consistent across the market—it saves them from having to babysit a million different versions at once. Plus, let's face it, most users just want a stable environment that doesn't change every five minutes. That’s exactly why big corporations struggle so much when it comes to upgrading from one version of Windows to another. Remember how massive the Windows 10 rollout was? Most of the business world was still clinging to Windows 7 back then and had zero interest in moving. When it works, why mess with it?
So many of these updates are just security patches, right? Honestly, most power users aren't even looking at the standard Microsoft stuff anyway. We usually just go with third-party solutions—they're way more reliable than whatever the basic default options from Microsoft offer. Why settle for mediocre when you can get better protection elsewhere?

Finally, those "people who overthink things a bit too much," as you put it, might actually have some different experiences than yours. As for me, here’s what I’ve run into so far:
So, let's talk about that forced jump from Windows 8.1 to Windows 10. Even though Microsoft marketed it as this "optional" choice you could just decline, they eventually decided to just push the button themselves, didn't they? Suddenly, computers started upgrading to the new OS right in the middle of everything. No warning, no heads-up—just boom, it's happening while you're right in the middle of working. It completely ignored whatever apps you had open and the potential mess it could leave behind for the user. In the American corporate world, that kind of move would be an absolute non-starter. You don't just force a massive system change like that without a plan; in a real business environment, every single step is carefully mapped out under controlled conditions. Total chaos, right?
So, I tried running one of those massive "semi-annual" updates on my machine—which, by the way, is running perfectly fine—but the whole thing just completely tanked. Every time it failed, it threw some vague "undefined error" at me. Super helpful, right? I gave it a few more shots, followed every single piece of advice Microsoft puts out for these exact situations, but nothing worked. Each time, the OS would just roll back to its previous state because the upgrade wouldn't stick. I will say this, though: the rollback process itself actually worked flawlessly. Still, what's the point if the update won't install?
But man, one time he tried to run it again and just got stuck at 86%. The whole PC became a total brick—no way to roll back, nothing. The only fix? Buy a brand-new drive, wipe everything, install a clean version of Windows with that specific upgrade, then reinstall every single app, move all the data over (which is why we didn't touch the old drive), and reconfigure everything from scratch... two full workdays down the drain...
- It’s this constant stream of "minor" headaches. Like how every single update messes with my intranet settings, or those random little driver glitches for some hardware. I'm not even counting those, but honestly, they just bleed time...

It’s all because Microsoft's policy basically treats everyone exactly the same—whether you're a casual user, running a small home office, or just some kid playing shooters. To them, it's all the same: "Oops, our bad, we'll patch it in the next version. The number of people affected is relatively small and they aren't loud enough to make waves, so who cares..."

Look, I'm not saying we should be paranoid and reject every bit of progress, but shouldn't the user actually be the one deciding when and how things happen?
driftingcanyon2 driftingcanyon2 Active Member
76 messages
joined Feb 2021
#14 ·
Windows Update can be such a massive headache, especially when you're dealing with business PCs. Since Windows 10 tries to act way smarter than it actually is—often stripping away the basic control a user should have over their own system—I’ve found that using a "wildcard" solution like a Windows Update blocker is honestly one of the most useful tools out there. Believe it or not, it just makes life easier. I also find that performing an offline upgrade using an ISO image to move to a completely new version of the OS is much more reliable and secure than messing around with online incremental updates, where you're never quite sure if the process will actually finish or what might end up broken in the aftermath.
mistybison mistybison Regular
495 messages
joined Aug 2008
#15 ·
driftingcanyon2 said:This fixes everything:
https://www.sordum.org/9470/windows-...-blocker-v1-6/
Amen.
An offline upgrade from an ISO image once a year is more than enough for me; that’s my routine, and I haven't had a single issue since.

I constantly push my updates back by a month, but they usually pop up right when I'm in the middle of something else—you just can't keep checking when they'll start. I'm always worried the installation won't finish properly or will mess something up, forcing me to take my computer to a repair shop. It's honestly quite stressful...

Thanks for sharing this tool. 🙂

If I can find the courage, I'll give it a try. 😁
driftingcanyon2 driftingcanyon2 Active Member
76 messages
joined Feb 2021
#16 ·
mistybison said:I tend to push off updates for weeks at a time, and they always seem to trigger right when I’m in the middle of something else since I can't just sit there staring at the screen waiting for them to start. I’m always worrying about whether the installation will actually finish or if it’ll just glitch out and force me to haul my computer over to a repair shop. It’s a bit of a headache...

Thanks for putting this tool together. 🙂

If I can find the nerve, I might give it a shot. 😁

You should definitely try it; if you ever need to let a macOS update through, it's pretty easy to just toggle those settings back to enabled, reboot, and you're good to go. That said, before any major update, I always suggest making a full system image on an external drive or a backup disk. You won't need a repair shop if you have a solid backup to restore everything to its original state.
swiftowl7 swiftowl7 Member
46 messages
joined Dec 2017
#17 ·
driftingcanyon2 said:I always make it a point to grab a full system disk image and save it to an external drive or a backup disk before any big update rolls around. Honestly, you won't even need to call tech support if you've got a solid backup that lets you roll everything back to exactly how it was.

Creating a disk image of your C:/ drive is actually something I wouldn't recommend under any circumstances, mostly because that kind of heavy lifting can really take a toll on your hard drive heads.

The best way to go is just to keep your essential files tucked away on external drives or secondary disks, and honestly, that’s more than enough for most people.
mistybison mistybison Regular
495 messages
joined Aug 2008
#18 ·
swiftowl7 said:The only things worth backing up to external or secondary drives are your essential files, plain and simple.

I already have multiple backups for everything so I can recover my data, but if the OS itself fails, I'd have to take it to a repair shop. Since I'm just a novice, I wouldn't know how to handle a system recovery on my own. 😳 😁
driftingcanyon2 driftingcanyon2 Active Member
76 messages
joined Feb 2021
#19 ·
mistybison said:I've already backed everything up in a few different spots so I can roll back if needed, but if the whole system fails to boot, I’d probably have to take it to a repair shop since I’m a total novice and wouldn't know where to start on my own. 😳 😁

Don't listen to the Android; having a disk image is pretty much non-negotiable for anyone who actually uses their computer, and you can handle the backup/restore process in Windows 10 using the built-in tools right here:
https://www.windowscentral.com/how-m...kup-windows-10
It’s nothing too crazy, honestly, even someone without a tech background could manage it.

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