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George Kelly60 said:I’m 14 and a half, and I really want to get into BJJ. I was wondering about what the monthly dues usually look like and how many times a week people typically train. Also, how intense are the sessions? What kind of strength training do you guys actually do?
It would be awesome if anyone here trains in the suburbs of Chicago—I heard there’s a new club called Alliance—and could give me the lowdown on the sport and the gym itself.😁
Benjamin Robinson3 said:Alright, here's the deal.
I'm 14, female, and I currently have zero stamina—let alone any actual strength. 🤦
What kind of martial art would you recommend for just getting in shape, building some muscle, and stuff like that?
I used to do Tae Kwon Do, but that was ages ago and I wasn't really a big fan. 🙂
Zachary Mendoza17 said:I would suggest Kyokushin Karate. There is an excellent club called "Sosai" near the Panorama Hotel. They have a highly skilled instructor and a great group at training. Just drop by and see. You should also look into other martial arts options.
Zachary Mendoza17 said:I would suggest Kyokushin Karate. There is an excellent club called "Sosai" near the Panorama Hotel. They have a highly skilled instructor and a great group at training. Just drop by and see. You should also look into other martial arts options.
Benjamin Robinson3 said:Alright, here's the deal.
I'm 14, female, and I currently have zero stamina—let alone any actual strength. 🤦
What kind of martial art would you recommend for just getting in shape, building some muscle, and stuff like that?
I used to do Tae Kwon Do, but that was ages ago and I wasn't really a big fan. 🙂
hiddensailor14 said:Why would you recommend a karate club if she wasn't even feeling the Taekwondo vibe?🤷>
Roger Gonzalez said:So why didn't you like TKD?
Benjamin Robinson3 said:The training sessions were just too intense, and since I was pretty young—maybe around 11 or 12—I started losing my drive for the sport.
Besides, the absolute breaking point was when I lost a match I really should have won. That's why I quit; I just couldn't stomach such an unfair defeat.
Roger Gonzalez said:Look, if you want to be an athlete, you have to be ready to swallow a hundred unfair losses. My advice? Give it another shot. You’re stronger and more mature now. Personally, I think Taekwondo would be perfect for where you are at; you'll get that explosiveness, flexibility, and solid balance.
darkgardener4 said:With all due respect, Kyokushin isn't even close to TKD—not even in the same ballpark.
hiddensailor14 said:Why would you recommend a karate club if she wasn't even feeling the Taekwondo vibe?🤷>
I suppose I should probably say something here, though I’m rarely one for the constant chatter that seems to define these forums. It’s funny how people gravitate toward certain topics with such intensity, almost as if they’re trying to prove something to an audience that isn't even really listening. I’ve been sitting back and watching the way discussions unfold lately, and there’s a certain predictable rhythm to it all. People jump in with their convictions, ready to defend their ground, while others just drift through the periphery. There’s a weight to some of these debates that feels unnecessary, yet everyone treats them like life or death. Personally, I tend to prefer the quieter corners of things... the parts where you don't have to shout to be heard. But then again, maybe that's just my way of looking at it... kaže:
That’s just how it is. Honestly, I’d almost be embarrassed to say it out loud, but we're talking about two completely different worlds...
I’ve been sitting here thinking about how much noise there is lately... just constant, aimless chatter that doesn't actually say anything. It feels like everyone is shouting to be heard, yet nobody is actually communicating. You see these threads popping up everywhere, full of people performing for an audience rather than having a genuine exchange of ideas. It’s exhausting, really. I tend to prefer the quieter corners of the internet, where you can actually sit with a thought for a minute before reacting. There’s a certain dignity in being deliberate with your words. If you’re going to contribute to a conversation, shouldn't it at least carry some weight? Lately, it feels more like a race to see who can be the loudest or the most provocative, which usually just results in a lot of empty calories for the brain... maybe I'm just getting old, or perhaps I've just lost my appetite for the spectacle. kaže:
Because it’s just fundamentally different. Once they actually sit down and look at the training footage, they'll see what I mean...
hiddensailor14 said:I suppose I should probably say something here, though I’m rarely one for the constant chatter that seems to define these forums. It’s funny how people gravitate toward certain topics with such intensity, almost as if they’re trying to prove something to an audience that isn't even really listening. I’ve been sitting back and watching the way discussions unfold lately, and there’s a certain predictable rhythm to it all. People jump in with their convictions, ready to defend their ground, while others just drift through the periphery. There’s a weight to some of these debates that feels unnecessary, yet everyone treats them like life or death. Personally, I tend to prefer the quieter corners of things... the parts where you don't have to shout to be heard. But then again, maybe that's just my way of looking at it... kaže:
That’s just how it is. Honestly, I’d almost be embarrassed to say it out loud, but we're talking about two completely different worlds...I’ve been sitting here thinking about how much noise there is lately... just constant, aimless chatter that doesn't actually say anything. It feels like everyone is shouting to be heard, yet nobody is actually communicating. You see these threads popping up everywhere, full of people performing for an audience rather than having a genuine exchange of ideas. It’s exhausting, really. I tend to prefer the quieter corners of the internet, where you can actually sit with a thought for a minute before reacting. There’s a certain dignity in being deliberate with your words. If you’re going to contribute to a conversation, shouldn't it at least carry some weight? Lately, it feels more like a race to see who can be the loudest or the most provocative, which usually just results in a lot of empty calories for the brain... maybe I'm just getting old, or perhaps I've just lost my appetite for the spectacle. kaže:
Because it’s just fundamentally different. Once they actually sit down and look at the training footage, they'll see what I mean...
If you don't actually know what you're talking about, everything just starts looking exactly the same. It’s like people think Karate and Taekwondo are interchangeable, but they aren't. You see them all flailing their arms and legs around in those white gis, thinking they're doing the same thing...
hiddensailor14 said:I suppose I should probably say something here, though I’m rarely one for the constant chatter that seems to define these forums. It’s funny how people gravitate toward certain topics with such intensity, almost as if they’re trying to prove something to an audience that isn't even really listening. I’ve been sitting back and watching the way discussions unfold lately, and there’s a certain predictable rhythm to it all. People jump in with their convictions, ready to defend their ground, while others just drift through the periphery. There’s a weight to some of these debates that feels unnecessary, yet everyone treats them like life or death. Personally, I tend to prefer the quieter corners of things... the parts where you don't have to shout to be heard. But then again, maybe that's just my way of looking at it... kaže:
That’s just how it is. Honestly, I’d almost be embarrassed to say it out loud, but we're talking about two completely different worlds...I’ve been sitting here thinking about how much noise there is lately... just constant, aimless chatter that doesn't actually say anything. It feels like everyone is shouting to be heard, yet nobody is actually communicating. You see these threads popping up everywhere, full of people performing for an audience rather than having a genuine exchange of ideas. It’s exhausting, really. I tend to prefer the quieter corners of the internet, where you can actually sit with a thought for a minute before reacting. There’s a certain dignity in being deliberate with your words. If you’re going to contribute to a conversation, shouldn't it at least carry some weight? Lately, it feels more like a race to see who can be the loudest or the most provocative, which usually just results in a lot of empty calories for the brain... maybe I'm just getting old, or perhaps I've just lost my appetite for the spectacle. kaže:
Because it’s just fundamentally different. Once they actually sit down and look at the training footage, they'll see what I mean...
If you don't actually know what you're talking about, everything just starts looking exactly the same. It’s like people think Karate and Taekwondo are interchangeable, but they aren't. You see them all flailing their arms and legs around in those white gis, thinking they're doing the same thing...
Zachary Mendoza17 said:But look, standard karate and Kyokushin are worlds apart.
Personally, I wouldn't touch any other style of karate; Kyokushin is the only one for me. What kind of martial art or sport is it if there’s no contact and you just mimic strikes? With all due respect to practitioners of other styles, Kyokushin is exceptionally grueling, raw, and honest. That is the bottom line. Anyone who has ever had the chance to watch a Kyokushin tournament will understand my point. The exchanges, the technique, the power, the spirit, and even the beatings you take... those are true fighters with a genuine warrior's soul.
Zachary Mendoza17 said:But look, standard karate and Kyokushin are worlds apart.
Personally, I wouldn't touch any other style of karate; Kyokushin is the only one for me. What kind of martial art or sport is it if there’s no contact and you just mimic strikes? With all due respect to practitioners of other styles, Kyokushin is exceptionally grueling, raw, and honest. That is the bottom line. Anyone who has ever had the chance to watch a Kyokushin tournament will understand my point. The exchanges, the technique, the power, the spirit, and even the beatings you take... those are true fighters with a genuine warrior's soul.
Benjamin Robinson3 said:So, if I decide to sign up, I should probably prepare for a whole lot of bruising?
Sounds good, sounds good.
I'm going to go check out a training session once this week. If I like it, great; if not, also great.🙂🙂
