Kevin Evans2 said:Good afternoon to all the ladies, women, girls, and mothers out there...
I’ve been doing some reading lately and thought perhaps some of you might be able to offer me a bit of guidance. I have a few questions weighing on my mind.
I’ve been trying to conceive for about six months now—sorry, I should say it’s actually been longer than that—but so far, nothing. My period is consistently late, usually by anywhere from ten days to two full weeks. I’ve spent quite a bit of money on pregnancy tests, only to be met with a negative result every single time.
Right now, I am exactly two weeks late again. Honestly, I’m hesitant to even take a test because I’m so afraid of another disappointment. Usually, my breasts get incredibly tender right before my period arrives, but this time, I haven't felt that at all. A few days ago, I noticed a tiny bit of spotting—just a few drops of blood—and I thought, "Okay, here we go, my period is finally starting," but then nothing happened. Beyond that, I haven't noticed any other physical changes.
Last month, I went to see my OB-GYN, and she told me everything looks healthy. My Pap smear results were perfect, too. The only thing noted was a small, clear cyst on my right ovary that sits just outside the ovary itself. She said it doesn't require surgery and that I shouldn't worry about it one bit.
On another note, I experience vaginal discharge pretty much constantly. Is that something pregnant women deal with as well?
Also, does the volume of semen play a role in conception? My husband produces very little; especially during my ovulation window when we are trying every day, there is hardly anything left—maybe just a tiny teaspoon's worth.
If anyone has any advice or insight, please let me know!
Thank you so much, and best wishes to you all.🙂
Look, when it comes to cysts, I’m basically an expert. Sort of. Your period might be late because of it. It can mess with pregnancy, too, even if doctors claim it won't. Personally? I used to deal with constant cysts, some as big as 7x8 cm, sometimes three at once. I lost three babies because of it—the last one was just last year. I actually had to stay on bed rest specifically because of a cyst, just to make sure it didn't rupture. It didn't burst during my D&C, but then there's the whole surgery issue.
After the D&C, I went in for a laparoscopy under general anesthesia. I made it very clear that I wasn't letting them take my ovary. The doctor wanted to, though. He actually tried to tell me I was "old enough" already 😲—can you believe that?—but I stood my ground. I told him, "Fine, scrape whatever you need to scrape, but you aren't touching my ovary."
We barely reached an agreement. But then, as they were prepping me for the procedure, the doctor just backed out. Said he didn't have enough time for me. I haven't gone back to get the cyst checked since then.
I heard later on that they can grow back, so I'm just leaving it alone for now. As long as I'm resting, I don't touch it.
So, my advice? If you're pregnant, please, take it easy. Rest. No baths, no heavy lifting, no straining or anything strenuous.
And if you aren't pregnant but you're considering surgery, think long and hard. Get second, third, fourth opinions so they don't screw you over and take your ovary. A cyst can easily grab onto the ovary and pull it along.
Good luck. 😉