Emergency: My friend is pregnant
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Peter Myers29 said:I don't think the decision has anything to do with maturity. Someone can be completely immature and still want something—and then when they actually get it, everything falls apart....
So, according to you, a woman can never really know if she's ready for a kid? It’s just a matter of waiting for fate to step in, and then she accepts this "gift from above" because she couldn't figure out the timing herself... regardless of what works for everyone involved.
My ex ended up having an abortion, and so what? We were both college students back then. I told her she had the right to decide what she wanted, and whatever she chose, I’d be there for her—emotionally and financially. She decided to go through with it. I paid for the procedure and went to the clinic with her. Anyone who thinks that's an easy choice to make is just being naive.
It wasn't about my ex, though. I didn't even want kids for ten years after that—only now 🙂
Anyway, none of you ladies have answered my question: how many children do you actually have?