Posts by Carl Rivera43

Basically just an irrelevant woman with an even more irrelevant way of communicating

She shot me a message around 2 p.m., but then my Facebook started acting up on me. I tried giving her a ring, but she didn't pick up, so eventually, she called me right back.

She gave me a call—just a quick chat, really—but I feel completely wiped out. And the weird part? She didn't say a single pessimistic thing during the whole conversation.

There’s also that dark humor, you know? The kind that actually feels a bit closer to how life really works.

I'm 28, plus a little extra, living in Washington, D.C., and working full-time. I’m looking to connect with people roughly between 24 and 40 for some casual hangouts around town. Honestly, anyone is welcome—even if you just want to grab an early coffee at 8 AM. I don't mind the evening chill, as long as the wind isn't biting too hard. My main goal? Finding people who are chilled out and easygoing. Let's just live life at our own pace and push back against all that media-driven gloom everyone seems obsessed with lately.

Of course you can learn it! Honestly, you could probably just go out and develop your own set of principles from scratch if you really wanted to.

I mean, yeah... you’ve gotta stay tough. I honestly didn't realize how much better life feels when you stop double-texting someone who clearly isn't ready for a real conversation—especially when they don't even bother giving you a valid excuse for why they're ghosting.

So, she asked me today: "How did you write my middle name?" And now? It’s been nearly three hours and absolutely nothing else from her side.... weird, right? But hey, I'm not about to double-text her twice in a row... I've officially started a communication revolution here.

New York City Christmas Meltdown
Dictionary expert
Mr. Wordas
Flyer rescue

wanderingpanther3 said:Heart.

But hey, even hearts change their minds sometimes.

nimblesurfer21 said:What absolute fools. Honestly, she’s exhausting—just completely draining—and I don't want anything to do with her because she isn't my type at all. Now she’s acting all jealous just because I was hanging out with someone else, and it’s becoming this whole exhausting ordeal.

I actually think she doesn't even realize how much she's overreacting. It's almost like she's fighting against being this jealous, you know?

It looks like about ten years ago, back before everyone had a smartphone glued to their hand, she was really into writing love letters

mistydrifter55 said:🤦

I’ve got a buddy in one of those MILF relationships where the "daughter" actually ended up being more high-maintenance than her own mother at one point. 🤦

Why is that?

neonsailor26 said:A reform school🤣? A prison🤣? Or maybe some kind of group home for kids🤣?

A boarding school

mistydrifter55 said:Well, who said you had to get into a relationship with her?
Just grab a quick bite, finish your coffee, and get back to texting.☕

Her ego is just way too massive for her to ever go for something like that.

neonsailor26 said:They're still a minor, ☕. So—who are they living with over there? Is it their dad? Or maybe they're staying at some kind of reform school?

Kind of like a reform school

Andrew Barrett4 said:Honestly, I suppose I just want all the attention in the world to be on you 🙂 so that things finally fall into place exactly the way you want them to 👍

Look, I'm all for equality... everyone deserves some attention. So, we should probably just split all that attention up among roughly 7 or maybe soon 8 billion people, right?

neonsailor26 said:Such a poor kid, having to deal with a mother like that 🤦 .

Look, the kid is 17 and living in a different city altogether

Andrew Barrett4 said:I honestly have no idea why anyone would bother remembering clones or wasting their time taking screenshots of such nonsense.

It’s kind of strange that you didn't catch 😁. I mean, you were around all day and posting on those threads too—well, except for that other PDF, I think.🙂

A kitten? A sad little kitten?

mistydrifter55 said:🙂 🤣

🤦

Man,

Quincy:

She seems to be head over heels, but honestly? It’s kind of ridiculous. Her messages are full of these childish habits that just stand out, even though she acts way more reserved in person. Her friend keeps hot-and-colding her—blocking her one minute and letting her back in the next. And get this: just a few weeks ago, she was bragging about how every guy in town was chasing her. Now, suddenly, she says that's all changed. What happened to all that attention?

So, she’s into your buddy, he’s into her, and suddenly you’re just drifting in like a third wheel? Then, out of nowhere, you realize you’ve actually got feelings for her too. Now you’re stuck in this weird, three-way mental loop trying to figure out the dynamic. It's messy, isn't it? Honestly, the whole situation is just plain awkward.
Two roosters and one hen.
We aren't a community. We're just competitors—predators and prey.
Look, let’s be real: the hound acts like a total coward during mating season. No offense intended, but that's just how it goes. They start putting on this whole act whenever you're all together—it’s just a pattern. It's what they do.
Women need intimacy, and honestly, looking at you two, I can't tell which one of you is more clueless.
And then there’s that phase where you’re just stuck in an endless loop of texting. It drags on and on. The flirting starts to feel forced, almost like an act, even if they still reach out to chat normally every once in a while. What are we even doing here?
But once those hormones kick in and get everyone worked up? Suddenly, you two "tough guys" are wide open, and of course, that’s when the absolute nonsense starts flying.

So, what’s the move? Are you finally going to step up and handle this properly, or are you just going to let your buddy take care of it? Though, let's be honest—is he even actually going to show up?
If you both drag your feet, she’s definitely going to find someone else. Guaranteed.

Either go all in and win that princess over right now, or if you’re just looking to mess around, wait until the three of you are hanging out and suggest a threesome. 🍿.

To be honest, I'm not even that into her. What's the point of hanging out constantly when she just talks about herself, then him, then her daughter? She wants to be with him, but apparently, he won't give her what she's looking for.

She's basically hunting for a third, fourth, or fifth option, but it doesn't look like she's actually ready for anything serious.