Punishing "grammar police
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feralmaker7 said:I’m stepping up as the "intruder" here, using the post above to help clarify my point.
It doesn't bother me at all when people write with their local slang—like when folks from the South write exactly how they talk in real life—because I don't see that as a flaw. BUT, what really gets under my skin are posts like the one mentioned, where people try to write in formal, academic English but can't even spell basic words correctly. Honestly, I just can't wrap my head around how someone misses something so fundamental—it's a word used constantly, you see it everywhere, and I truly don't get how it can be unknown (and I'm sure this isn't just a typo from typing too fast). I've seen people write "receve" instead of "receive," or "definatly" instead of "definitely," and every single time, it makes my skin crawl to see how much literacy is slipping lately (speaking generally, of course). I'm not trying to insult anyone—I make mistakes too—and I'm not going around the internet correcting everyone because there's just too much of it. But if someone corrects me when I slip up, I don't mind it at all; in fact, I appreciate it because I actually care about communicating properly. It's especially grating when I see these kinds of errors in the newspapers or when highly educated professionals butcher the language. I don't get why people take offense—to me, it's perfectly logical that people would want to fix their mistakes (and stop repeating them) and learn something new (unless they're just boring). If they want to be wrong on purpose just because they can, fine. Just as some people hate being corrected, I hate it when people refuse to be corrected. Of course, I don't support insults like calling someone an "uneducated hillbilly"—because what good is knowing how to spell if you lack the decency to tell someone they're wrong in a polite way? (If you're going to say it, at least be civil).
P.S. The only thing that bugs me about regional dialects is when they add extra letters to verbs and turn them into something weird. Ugh!
So, that's my take. Try to see where I'm coming from.🙂
Either way works, depending on how you spell it. Just watch your hair. 😉
feralmaker7 said:I notice typos because—honestly, when I'm reading, things like a missing letter just jump out at me. If you want to call that "keeping tabs," fine, be my guest. On the flip side, I don't really care if someone forgets a space after a period, a comma, or a parenthesis. I'll never nitpick that—mostly because I make the same mistake myself since I rarely write on a desktop and I'm just not used to hitting those extra spacebar strokes. I don't see it as a spelling error or anything major, but hey, if you want to frame it as my own failing and lecture me about it, go ahead. Like I said, I'm not going around the forum calling people out on their typos, but the truth is, it does bug me when I see them. Why? I don't know—that's just how I am. When I'm typing, I'm not always thinking about perfect spelling (usually), but I *do* have to think about spacing, and I just don't have the bandwidth for it right now, as you can tell.
Btw, I don't mind the question, but I really don't like the tone you used.
It really bugs me when people just don't realize that... Does this bother you? It’s all about the dative case. (I don't even know where to start with this. Just one more thing to deal with....instead of using the accusative case.meAnd man, it really gets under my skin when someone just doesn't know that... Notice. It’s a long haul. I end up writing a whole damn essay just because of one thing he said. The solution.Then you're just gonna screw up the exact same thing again... It's a little inconsistent, honestly. 😁
There’s zero point in trying to correct someone else when you don't even know what you're talking about. It honestly drives my blood pressure through the roof—and that's coming from me, a linguist, an editor, and a total bitch. 😍Suddenly everyone thinks they’re an expert capable of correcting everyone else. I only step in when steelskipper5 points something out; otherwise, I just watch. Why would I waste my time and energy on people? It makes zero sense. If they were paying me, maybe, but otherwise... not happening. 😁