Matthew Cook5 said:Is nobody willing to share what they know about the surgery?
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What counts as a "classic" surgery? In my case, they just cut the external part out and let the wound close on its own... but it takes forever, and it just reopens the moment I have a hard stool. It’s been a month and a half since the procedure, and things are still stinging because I had a rough movement a few days ago that got stuck. More bleeding, too. You really need a ton of patience for this. Definitely apply Bepanthen to keep everything elastic, otherwise, it all goes south again...
cosmicmoose2 said:So... about 11 hours ago I finally went through with that DG HAL procedure for second-degree hemorrhoids. I’ve been dealing with occasional flare-ups for years, but they always seemed to settle down on their own. They just kept getting worse over time, though... slowly creeping up on me. I ended up dealing with an anal fissure too... went through the whole ringer before things finally calmed down around mid-2012... The other day, I was actually free from hemorrhoids, even if my stools were still a bit hard sometimes. But since I’ve basically been processing that trauma from back in 2012, you know, the PTSD side of things, I’ve always stayed on top of my digestive health... just trying to avoid those old triggers, even though that surgery was supposed to be the permanent fix... Ever since that surgery, I've been dealing with a nasty case of prostatitis that just won't quit... It's turned into chronic issues that flare up a few times a year...
So, like I said, the inflammation flared up again after 11 years... and honestly, the mental toll of this is just heavy. Feels like I paid such a massive price for nothing, all that struggle with prostatitis just to get a measly 10 grams of peace. I was promised this method would fix everything for good... Currently taking Daflon and using Faktu suppositories, but so far, nothing's really helping... The thing is, everything is just hitting me all at once now... all those negative emotions are flooding back. I really thought I was finally past the whole hemorrhoid issue. No one in my family deals with this kind of stuff, so I feel like they just don't get it...
I'm a bit worried that the flare-ups might start happening more often... like I won't be able to get my digestion under control enough to stop them... which means I might end up needing one of those surgeries again... Even if I manage to get everything back to baseline, this inflammation might still stick around for a while... The only silver lining is that there was quite a bit of blood on the first day, but since then... nothing. Four days without a single movement...
So, I'm really looking at two main things here... Has anything major actually changed with treatment over the last decade or so? Are there newer surgical options out there that are more permanent, safer, or just less painful? Also, is there anything better than Faktu or using Daflon and Pilex? I'm wondering if the field has truly advanced... Oh, and one more thing—are there any steroid vaccines available? It seems like they only come in ointments, which just isn't practical for me...
And honestly, how are you guys all holding up mentally? Like, how do you stop hemorrhoids from becoming your entire personality... How do you even deal with a desk job where you're stuck sitting for 8 or 9 hours with just one little 30-minute break... it's tough...
Back in 2012, I had the luxury of still being in school... no kid, no family responsibilities. Now, between work and the little one, I can't exactly afford to just shut myself away, even though things are feeling pretty heavy lately because everything is starting to happen all over again... How do you even begin to shake those feelings...
Yeah, it’s honestly traumatic. That constant pain... you can't sit, walk, stand, or even lie down properly... Obsessed with every single bite, every bathroom trip... waking up every morning just dreading what the day is going to hold. I honestly can't even remember what it feels like to actually feel good, to stay focused or interested in things. So, I totally get you. Plenty of other people are going through this exact same struggle too, they're just way too embarrassed to talk about it. Some handle it better than others, I guess... It’s been almost a month since my procedure to fix that grade two external hemorrhoid. Finally seeing some progress—no blood since yesterday, just a tiny bit when I go... but the pain is still there. I definitely need to get one of those donut pillows. Plus, my old tailbone injury flared up again, so sometimes it’s hard to tell which part is actually hurting me... And yeah, all the other organs just go haywire too. My girlfriend is dealing with some vaginal issues, and I've got some irritation in my urethra from drinking way too much water to try and prevent constipation... I just use Sudocr, and those ProktisM rings are honestly the only thing gentle enough for my irritated backside... In the past, I’ve been able to calm things down with Hepan, so maybe give that a shot. My specialist recommended it, though you might need a prescription. I never leave the house without my Hepan handy. Patience is really the biggest part of this whole thing... Anyway, you aren't alone in this.
Karen Green94 said:😂😂😂😂🤣! I've been using compresses—just soak some gauze with Octenisept and tuck it right under my butt. It makes sitting at the office way more bearable now (using a cushion), so maybe give that a shot. Grab the big bottle of Octenisept at the pharmacy because the small one will be gone in three days... Honestly, nothing else I've tried helps with the itching.
I'm mixing Octenisept with Cicatridin spray. Right now, I'm dealing with constipation even though I'm trying so hard to stay hydrated. Every movement is such a struggle since everything feels swollen and less flexible at the moment. I think I'll try adding some Jamnicki and dried fruit to my diet... There's just a tiny bit of blood when I go.
Karen Green94 said:So, about six days ago, I had some external bumps removed. My doctor mentioned they aren't actually external lumps, but more like skin remnants from where there used to be hemorrhoids. Not totally sure, anyways, the procedure is the same—they just excise it and stitch it back up. I checked the forums beforehand and everyone said things were fine after a couple of days. Honestly, I can't emphasize enough how much pain you're in after surgery. The stitches themselves when you try to lie down (sitting is out of the question for at least 5 days) aren't even the worst part. You expect that. But having a bowel movement! Oh my god... maybe the most intense pain I've ever felt. Seriously, just take a laxative the day before surgery to clear everything out, then basically fast for three days. Only eat what you absolutely have to, and make it something easy like yogurt, soup, or smoothies. No one really warns you about this, not even the doctors, and the pain is honestly borderline unbearable. Anyway, today is day seven, and I can finally sit on a cushion. It's starting to itch, which means I'm healing. But that idea that recovery takes only three days? Total bullshit!
It’s been 12 days since my procedure and the wound is still bleeding a little bit. I don't really see any improvement with the bleeding. The pain is decreasing, but the stinging and itching are getting worse. I apply Bepanthen. Sitting is definitely not happening... eating on my left side like the ancient Romans used to do.
Lisa Kim5 said:Hey everyone, just wanted to jump in and share... finally solved my anal issues after years, maybe over five years now. Doctors gave me all sorts of specialized creams for hemorrhoids and cracked skin, but nothing worked. It was painful just to go to the bathroom... so I decided to try some basic zinc cream used for acne, since I heard it helps. After applying it for a few days, the pain is totally gone. I'm so happy! Honestly, I'm just annoyed that none of those specialists thought to suggest this all these years... such a waste. Anyway, that's my experience. Just glad to be living normally again... Cheers!
I used to mix zinc ointment with Vaseline to get the right consistency, then I found Sudocr at a DM and it works wonders for small wounds and the anal area. What really caught me off guard was the psyllium. Even though I was drinking gallons of water, my stools became harder than ever. A quick search online suggested it might not be great for people with GI narrowing and can actually backfire. Going back to flax, chia seeds, kefir, fruit compotes, and donatmg
Hey there, everyone! Has anyone here dealt with external hemorrhoid removal lately? I'm curious about the recovery process. I finally had a grape-sized thrombosed one cut out on Friday after spending nearly three weeks trying to tackle it myself (using Faktu, Hepan, and Daflon). My first bowel movement two days after surgery was like a rock... I honestly thought my rectum was going to split open. The next day, the second one was just as hard, though at least it was formed enough to pass easier. Naturally, both caused some pain and light bleeding. Since I'm the impatient type, this whole recovery is starting to feel incredibly long and exhausting... Has anyone else gone through something similar? I'd love to compare experiences...
Hmm, gum. Just gum and an apple? I'll be starving like a horse... It’s fine if you have a little dark chocolate after dinner. At least you won't spend all day craving sweets.
Cut out the puff pastry, fried meat, deli meats, heavy cheeses (I'm obsessed with mozzarella!), burgers, creamy sauces, thick stews, donuts, and all those sugary frostings... I love chocolate too, but I prefer it dark and less sweet. And try to find ice cream that isn't too heavy on the cream (I'm a fan of Coldplay Blackpink).
Just a heads up—orange juice right before bed might mess with your stomach... especially if you have a sensitive one.
Oh, also—forget about artificial sweeteners. They aren't good for you. Grab some brown sugar (it smells amazing) or maple syrup instead, and just use a tiny bit.
Skip the heavy cream cakes... go for fruit strudels or light biscuits instead.
Most importantly—try doing some light ab work and stretching every morning. Walk more, take the stairs, or grab your bike... it's great.
I totally agree—staying active just makes you feel better overall. People tell me I actually look better at 36 than I did back in high school, and I was never even overweight... After a few years of sticking to a routine (aerobics for me), your body really starts to shift—you get more definition, better posture, all that good stuff. The key is just staying consistent and being persistent, because you won't see results overnight. Try to make working out as essential as sleep... just an existential necessity. Even the birds know that moving around boosts your mood. And when you're feeling good, those unhealthy cravings usually fade away. I'm a huge fan of the Mediterranean diet; it’s delicious and super healthy. Definitely recommend it. I don't know how you make it past 5 PM, but I can't go to bed on an empty stomach. Maybe grab some fruit... a banana is great since it's easy on an empty stomach. Try eating smaller meals throughout the day so you don't end up starving and diving into fast food. And load up on fresh veggies. You can build these habits! Just make sure they're healthy ones that actually make you happy.
dustyowl29 said:Feeling a lot better today—fever's gone and my stomach isn't killing me anymore.. It doesn't happen to me all that often, but if you’re dealing with this stuff on a regular loop every two or three months, there might be some stubborn bacteria nesting itself in your stomach lining or something similar. A buddy of mine has been battling H. pylori for a year now, and man, his stomach gives him constant grief..
I'm with you. I have gastritis too, without HP, but last week made it clear it was something else. Four days of nausea and morning diarrhea. Thought it would never end. But it did... then it moved to my sinuses, and man, that was rough. That's when the fever started. I'm taking Amoxil, but it's not doing much. After three days of fever, it seems to be gone, but my nose is still running like crazy, my eardrums feel plugged, and I have constant headaches.
So weird, one day it's the nose, then the gut, then back to the nose... hope the gut doesn't follow next 🤣
Look, some people handle it fine, others just go numb. For me, the gas caused such intense spasms from the burping that I nearly fell right off the table. I was crying tears of pure reflex, while they were rushing around like maniacs trying to wrap everything up. My throat was sore for two days after... I wasn't about to put myself through that again, so the next time, I opted for anesthesia. Absolute bliss. I got plenty of sleep, and the whole exam was slow, thorough, and handled with total class.
Maybe try skipping the face cream before bed. It can clog your pores and lead to breakouts, basically those little inflammatory spots... Plus, using those drying products actually makes your skin overcompensate by producing even more oil. Just let your skin find its own balance...
I’ve officially switched over to Dr. Hauschka. I really love the whole idea of following your skin's natural rhythm... like how you shouldn't apply cream right before bed because your pores need to breathe at night. The other thing is how constant moisturizing actually helps dry skin find its balance. It's like if you drive everywhere instead of walking—eventually, even a short stroll feels like too much effort. If you keep adding moisture to oily skin, your body eventually realizes it doesn't need to produce as much oil on its own.
For dry skin types, they recommend using light, natural moisturizers.
Thermal waters are amazing, and I also spray on some Dr. Hauschka toner. I honestly thought my dry skin wouldn't handle the change since I was so used to heavy night creams, but everything is working out perfectly. Now I just need to find a good lip balm...
Definitely stay away from anything with alcohol in it. And man, the hard water here is such a nightmare.
Don't sweat it. I went through the exact same thing at your age, and it was all mental... just insecurity, nerves, and all that stuff. My hands used to sweat so much I constantly had tissues in my pockets, just shoving my hands in there to dry them out. Now I'm 35, been working for ten years, have a two-and-a-half-year-old son—so yeah, life happens—and everything moves at such a crazy pace that you barely have time to think, let alone worry about this. You're just happy if you make it to work fully dressed.
Try to relax a bit, maybe get into some sports, work on yourself and your confidence (basically, learn to value yourself more than anyone else, because if you don't, who will?), and keep your days busy with fun stuff.
It'll pass on its own. So many people I've met... and even shaken hands with... deal with the same thing, and you'd never even guess...
No matter how you look at it, I just don't get how any doctor would suggest giving an adult their medication behind their back. It's totally unthinkable... and illegal too.
I don't know what his injury looks like, but a buddy of mine was stuck in the hospital for quite a while—young guy too—just because they were tracking down a blood clot caused by a fracture. That's no joke...
Hold on a second. You have to realize they aren't even allowed to do that to him. Just imagine being in his shoes! Is this guy under their legal guardianship? If he isn't, is he even capable of working? If he’s not fully lucid, then his parents shouldn't be having any trouble becoming his guardians. But if he is sharp enough to function on his own, then they really need to sit down and talk to him about seeing a psychiatrist—which is pretty much the standard nowadays anyway—just to get things back on track. Though, the doctor definitely needs to know about any "off-the-books" meds...
Bottom line, seeing a psychiatrist is a must. He might be dealing with schizophrenia, or maybe there are just better medications out there for him.
One thing you can try right away, though, is physical activity. Get him out of the house and worn out with some sports or just spending time outdoors. It won't seem suspicious to him, and it should help settle that restlessness...
But again, I'm telling you—talk to a psychiatrist. The parents could even reach out for advice on their own first.
Hold on a second—this guy is 35 years old. And his parents are secretly slipping medication into his coffee??? Are they even his legal guardians? If not, they really shouldn't be doing that... I’d say it’s illegal, and he could seriously come after them once he finds out. I know I would.
I’ve definitely spent way too much money on out-of-pocket tests over the last few years... I just didn't have the energy to sit in a waiting room at my primary care doctor for hours, only to wait days for a specialist appointment later. Thank God we have private labs and clinics, plus some good health insurance options. When you're sick but still have a job to get to, what else can you really do?