jadetinker85 said:That’s my plan too. It goes back to that idea of teaching a kid to actually play music rather than just stressing them out. I was at a local music school recently, and there were these intense exams going on—one parent was practically thanking Bob that their kid managed to pass. Honestly, with all the daily pressures kids face already, I can't justify adding this to the list.
Look, not every school is the same, and kids aren't clones either—nor are parents. For us, the whole point was just to try something different. He’s a high-energy kid, so we thought maybe it would help him focus better during school hours, you know? We wanted him to enjoy it without us breathing down his neck. Turns out, it was a great call, and I'd definitely recommend it. Plus, playing music gives kids such a huge confidence boost through performing. You know, standing up there in front of an audience... at first, it's just parents, but then it turns into actual little concerts. If that's what it takes to make the time, money, and driving worth it, then so be it. And yeah, he did try to quit right before his first big recital at the academy, but we talked him through it and didn't let him walk away. We made a deal: he tries it, and if he still hates it later, he can quit. He was terrified of messing up. Can you imagine? :-) Once he finally performed and heard the applause, he absolutely loved it. Long story short, he finished middle school doing it. Once he hit puberty, though, he decided he wasn't feeling it anymore, so he didn't want to continue in high school. The piano is still sitting in our house, though. Every now and then he'll sit down and play something just for fun, and who knows—maybe he'll pick it back up one day. If not, whatever. I even picked up a few things myself along the way, so I'm not just sitting around doing nothing. :-))