silverfox91 said:Drop the milk act? What am I supposed to do, start turning down gifts? To me, that's a gift. If she gives me $1000 instead of $100, then she (the teller) messed up and she’s the one who needs to fix it. If she gave me too much, that's her problem. It's the same as if she handed me ten cartons of milk when I only wanted one. She told me, "Take the milk," so I took it. Let the bank or the store deal with her. In almost every other industry, people who screw up have to own it. But in these sacred banks, nobody is responsible except always their customers. Nobody asks if the teller is doing okay; they just harass an innocent person.
If I had done this through online banking, I’d be singing a battle hymn because I’d be the one who screwed up. My problem. But if someone hands you a gift on the street, you take it. Doesn't matter if it's a candy bar or a car. Why should someone come sniffing around two days later asking for that candy back? They gave it to me.
You tell me to drop the milk thing, but you aren't even addressing the point. Ten cartons of milk is $17 and a significant amount of money to some. Why is that any different from these $1000 which don't mean much to me?
What about those groups that go out on the streets handing out Christmas money? Are they supposed to give it all back two days later once someone realizes they actually needed the cash?
I love how lawyers think they're the only holy, honest people left while everyone else is an idiot. We all know there aren't many people more dishonest or crooked than lawyers. Just turn on the TV at any hour.
Frank Walker7, remember that crew in Indianapolis with RBC? Remember how the teller and the outsiders did exactly that, and look what happened... the teller had to pay it all back along with those two outsiders. And she ended up in a jam because she wasn't just accidentally underpaying—she was stealing from people's accounts. She wasn't just transferring 10 million because someone told her to; she was looting accounts. It's just like that situation in Seattle or that guy... or that other guy...
That isn't a gift; it's just a blunder, or as you put it in your next sentence, a mistake.
This is a unique situation because of that repossession, but it could have been handled with a simple agreement to keep things civil without escalating the tension.
I remember once I didn't receive my PIN (maybe the mailman missed it, or someone swiped it...🤷), and they tried to charge me for a replacement. I told them there was no way I was paying for a reissue when I never got the first one. Since I only needed the PIN for one specific card, and we both knew that, we reached a gentleman's agreement: they’d send the one I actually needed for free, and I wouldn't worry about the other one.
There's always a way to fix things, but being stubborn doesn't help anyone.