Posts by Nathan Doyle8

I honestly don't know how to comfort you, and if I'm being totally real, I'm not even sure if a high-quality acne cream actually exists? My sister is an esthetician and she just told me to go get professional facials here and there, but when it comes to creams... most of them don't do squat. It’s because, unfortunately, you have to tackle the root cause of the breakouts, and a cream just can't do that! I have to admit, my skin stays clear whenever I'm on birth control, but hey... that won't help you! Oh, and one more thing: stay far away from dermatologists—my mom's doctor did way more damage to her face than any product ever could!

So, I had sex with my boyfriend back on December 21st. We used a condom, but he didn't put it on right away—he waited a few minutes after getting aroused before sliding it on, and then he finished inside the condom. But now, my period is totally MIA this month! Usually, my cycle is super regular, so I’ve been freaking out thinking I might be pregnant. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, but still... nothing. No period. I've had some discharge, and today I noticed a few drops of spotting, but that stopped immediately. My lower abdomen is aching too, and while I'm not actually vomiting, I definitely feel nauseous. No weird metallic taste in my mouth, though. Has anyone ever dealt with anything like this??? Is there any way I could be pregnant even if the test says otherwise? Has this happened to anyone else? I took the test three days ago, which means it’s been over 19 days since that "critical encounter" (you know, following those instructions on the box about waiting at least 19 days). I made sure to follow every single step perfectly, too!

silenttiger21 said:Thanks! Honestly, I'm getting a little paranoid about the doctors, but if I want to have sex, I don't really have any other choice... does anyone know if they can knock me out or something like that?

They use local anesthesia! By the way, you definitely feel them working, but it doesn't hurt... kind of like when you're at the dentist and they give you that shot to numb everything up. It’s a little gross, I know... but just be brave!!! AND DON'T ACCIDENTALLY LOOK!!!

My boyfriend actually went through with the circumcision, and honestly? I can't even try to comfort you... it’s just not fun. It hurts, and let me tell you, it is especially rough when you get an erection! We had to take a total break from sex and everything else for about 2 or 3 weeks. But hey, looking on the bright side—it looks way better now!!😬

You should head over to the clinic near downtown Miami. Get checked out by a urologist first, and then you can see the surgeon.

Exactly, there are several ways an abortion can happen... and one way is through dilation and evacuation, you clueless girl!!!!!!!! There are contractions induced, and then the fetus is slowly removed; that process takes anywhere from 10 to 48 hours. After the fetus is out, they remove the placenta, and if any part stays behind, they have to perform a curettage... Did you seriously think you just take a pill and you're done? No, they extract it, and if it doesn't come out whole, it comes out in pieces... Or maybe you think you just take some "pills" and bleed it out? You could do that too. Either way, the result is the same: you kill a human being. Honestly, besides the ignorant fools who seem to think condoms were invented just for sheep, I feel so sorry for every girl who thinks an abortion is some painless, beautiful experience!!! You can call me stupid all you want, but what does that make you—someone who doesn't know basic biology, or someone who just doesn't care about "removing" their own child? It makes me sick to see girls like that. And hey, laugh at me all you want; maybe I am "uneducated" like you said, but I truly wouldn't want to be in the shoes of a girl who feels nothing for her own baby... because at the end of the day, that’s a child, whether it's 1 mm or a meter and a half long!!

And please, just stay quiet when you're this poorly informed and clueless.......
I feel for all the women who have had or are thinking about having an abortion. I feel for everyone who felt they had no choice, but that isn't the only way. And honestly, to anyone looking to do this, I advise you to think long and hard and stop listening to the "well-meaning" advice from girls who act like experts but haven't the slightest clue what they're talking about!
Abortion isn't the answer! Not for a 16-year-old and not for a 36-year-old!! I'm not talking about girls who were raped or anything like that; I'm talking about girls who CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE NOT TO PROTECT themselves, and then they come here to cry and whine on forums just looking for validation from other hens that an abortion is perfectly fine. You just show up, get it done, and go home! Sorry, but that's just how primitive people think. If you love someone, prove it, but to do something like this, you really have to be a piece of work, not a decent human being! It's not like buying pills and condoms is some massive financial burden for a woman or a girl, especially if they end up spending $150-$200 on an abortion later anyway! Or do you still insist on calling that the "best solution"?

And one last comment regarding what you said about your mom... mine got pregnant at 40. We didn't have money either, and people advised her to get rid of it for the sake of her health since she could have died during childbirth. She refused. We scraped by, I gave up so many things, and my parents helped so we could let that child live! Now, I have a mother I can hold hands with for courage and a sister I love more than life itself! But you? You have your "best solutions"... though I wonder, best for whom, dear...?
I won't say anything else. You think this is right, I don't. There's no point in dragging this out...

Take care

I honestly feel bad for your kids—both the ones you’ll have and the ones you won't... It’s pretty obvious you think you're "so brilliant," isn't it? Did your mom tell you this was perfectly fine? Why all the scare tactics, girl? Don't you know how ABCs work? You really think that "helps" him???? Ugh... what's the point in arguing? Like I said... it's just your opinion versus a mountain of facts. Everyone can do whatever they want, I guess... bye!

Sandra Wood45 said:I never wish ill or sadness on anyone. 🙂

(Seriously, some people act like they have a moral compass regarding other people's abortions, yet they don't feel any remorse about wishing bad things on others! 👎 )

P.S. And how on earth are you supposed to know what someone was thinking before they made a choice (whether it was sex or an abortion)??? 😕

I have zero intention of judging anyone, really! But I am strictly talking about what the girl above you just pointed out. Isn't it just sad? Nobody talks about contraception anymore! It feels like girls are acting "worse than the guys" these days. Unfortunately, guys are the ones making the choices while girls just go along with it because they’re sleeping around with everyone—it’s like they couldn't care less about whether they end up pregnant or not, and then they just head to an abortion clinic like they're getting a haircut. It's just tragic!!! A girl who finds herself pregnant needs support, not a doctor who treats her like she's just "cleaning up" a mess! That's exactly what my friend's mom did, and believe me, YOU HAVE NO CLUE WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. I saw firsthand what she went through and what she is still dealing with today. Her second home is basically a psychiatric ward. So, if you want to write me off for "preaching," fine! But I would tell every young woman out there: before you do this, please talk to women who have actually lived through it. You don't need a priest, a therapist, or even your mom—talk to the ones who have been there! Then, honey, do whatever you want.... Not only do thousands of girls think this is the only way out, but they don't even realize the actual consequences of that "solution"!!!
Anyway, I don't think there's any point in debating this further. There are thousands of reasons "against" and just as many "for." But the real heart of the problem? It's an uneducated youth that spends money on an abortion instead of buying condoms + the fact that love, commitment, and trust don't mean anything anymore! It's all about sex, everyone with everyone... and then, when it "happens," it's straight to the clinic... Girls who advocate for abortion but haven't had one themselves are the biggest hypocrites, trust me... Personally, I haven't been in a position where I had to choose, but I know plenty of girls and women who were, and believe me, not one of them died after giving birth. Sex has consequences, just like I said... so if you aren't ready to handle the consequences, then don't have sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good luck!

Sandra Wood45 said:If you're going to act like an expert, maybe try actually reading? She clearly took precautions.

Seriously, just take your attitude somewhere else! You love to lecture, but you clearly can't handle a simple quote. 🙂 😛

I’m not talking about someone who got pregnant by accident. I mean the girls who think they're "protected" just by tracking their fertile days!! Sorry, girl, but I can only feel bad for someone if a condom breaks or something—otherwise, I just can't pity people who are being that reckless!
And as for the lecturing, honey, maybe those girls should have a word with the women who designed the apps they use, so they might actually start thinking straight... honestly, you guys are unbelievable!

I’ve been scrolling through this thread and honestly, who am I even supposed to feel sorry for? Is it the girls who learned how to be intimate but completely forgot about protection? Or is it the ones popping up on forums later asking where they can go for an "abortion" because $8.25 was just too much to handle? My goodness, what is the world coming to? And here's another thing: Is abortion really the answer for a child that won't even have a chance to live? You know how those procedures work... things get messy...
Look, I'm not trying to lecture you, I just have to ask: Can you actually sleep peacefully at night after doing something like that?

Best,