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vividmaker532 vividmaker532 NewcomerOP
5 messages
joined Jan 2007
#1 ·
Hello to everyone on this forum.
I woke up this morning and, as usual, was greeted by one of the most repulsive sights the human eye can endure today... It’s—it’s my bathroom mirror. Given how much that rectangular little demon has already caused me misery, I decided to finally end it (though I’ve said that more times than I care to admit, so perhaps this time actually sticks). Some might find my struggle with this redness pointless or even ridiculous—to them, I say enjoy being lucky enough not to deal with this, because I think anyone with even minor breakouts would kill to be rid of them. There are really two ways to approach this: focus on the problem itself, or focus on the fallout. In this case, the fallout would be the stress, the shyness, the social withdrawal, and the frustration; the problem is the acne. Well, after attempting to manage the psychological side for quite a while, I concluded it might be easier to just tackle the actual cause—the acne. Anyway, to avoid rambling about my own philosophy—which, clearly, amuses me—I’ll get to the actual details.

I first tried to fix this about two years ago when I went to my primary care doctor to get a referral for a dermatologist. He recommended Neutrogena (which I applied at night), erythromycin lotion (applied twice daily), and CeraVe (for cleansing before anything else). If I recall correctly, that helped to a certain extent, but it didn't fully clear things up. Unfortunately, I told the dermatologist that things were improving—so she assumed I was satisfied with the results—and recommended a different treatment, which turned out to be weaker and less effective than the first. Back then, I was using a salicylic acid and resorcinol solution (mixed at a local pharmacy) once a day, plus clindamycin twice a day (including overnight). Things started getting worse, and by the time I tried to schedule another appointment with the dermatologist, it turned out the waitlist was two months long—apparently, there was some annual conference or something taking up all her time.

Because of all that, I was pretty disappointed with the specialist route, so I took matters into my own hands. I searched the web and eventually, acne.org convinced me that benzoyl peroxide was the way to go. I looked to see if we had any creams containing it locally, and finally found one. It was called La Roche-Posay Effaclar. That ended up being my biggest headache yet. In my experience, the cream is terrible. Once you apply it, it’s impossible to move your face because it feels so tight and dry. You can only tolerate the effect of the BP after applying a moisturizer—if I understood that term correctly. But unfortunately, once that moisturizer goes on, my skin looks so greasy that there's no way I could leave my bedroom looking like that. Plus, the initial redness caused by the BP—which acne.org claims only lasts a week or two—never actually stopped for me. I would have kept going with the BP, but the redness was the final straw.

After that, I went back to my original treatment since it was the only thing that actually worked, though it isn't yielding the same great results anymore. Even now, as I write this, I’m still using that Neutrogena and erythromycin combo, searching for new suggestions in my desperation. I've been thinking about seeing a dermatologist again, but this time I think it might be better to see someone privately. I contacted a private clinic, and they sound promising, though I forgot to ask about the cost. So, I'll take this opportunity to ask: what does an average consultation with a private dermatologist cost in the US?

To summarize the important parts for anyone who didn't want to read all that above...
Used—Neutrogena, CeraVe, erythromycin, clindamycin, benzoyl peroxide (no oral medication, so far)... and honestly, nothing has really helped.

I'm looking for any suggestions, advice, or products I might not have tried yet. For context, the acne isn't everywhere—it's mostly around my mouth and beard area, then my nose, with a bit on my forehead and sides.

Thanks in advance for any help—best regards to everyone!
Sam Hughes5 Sam Hughes5 Active Member
52 messages
joined Sep 2008
#2 ·
Accutane is usually reserved for those really heavy-duty acne cases. And yeah, obviously, there’s a million side effects to deal with, but I know plenty of people it actually worked wonders for. If you were a woman, you'd probably end up needing birth control... I'm not entirely sure what the deal is for guys, but for women, it happens because of those shifts in hormone levels. Honestly, my advice? Go see a private dermatologist. Don't even bother with the Medicare clinics; they won't get you anywhere, just save your breath. I know a private specialist over in San Jose where $67 the first consultation would be. For somewhere like NYC, I haven't really looked into it
gentlepanther10 gentlepanther10 Member
13 messages
joined Nov 2005
#3 ·
Honestly, you’re going through the exact same thing I did. Nothing worked—actually, it was worse. Every time I tried some fancy new cream or went to see an aesthetician, my skin just flared up even more instead of getting better.
By the time I hit 27, I basically threw in the towel and decided I wasn't doing anything else!
The only thing I do now is wash my face every morning with a really mild soap and then apply the simplest moisturizer possible. I use Johnson & Johnson. They have Dove now, and that’s the one I use. 👍
It's also super important to wash your face with that same mild soap at night and then just leave it alone—let the skin actually recover and breathe for once.

I eventually realized that anything containing alcohol just trashes my skin; it made the inflammation way worse.

Another big thing: don't squeeze anything! When a whitehead matures and looks ready, it wipes away easily if you just dab it with a tissue or a Kleenex. Then just wash with mild soap, put on a little Dove, and call it a day.
Skin needs hydration, not grease!

I really think things will start looking up for you eventually—that's just how it goes.
Just watch what you eat, too. Try not to go overboard on pork or greasy stuff 👍
especially fast food.

If you want to actually do something good for your skin, grab two slices of fresh cheese this weekend (or whenever you feel like it). Spread it over your face—just stay away from your eyes and mouth—and let it sit until it firms up, maybe about 30 minutes. Then rinse it off with lukewarm water until it's all gone. After that, just apply a bit of Dove again and 👍 (like, you could even do this while you're in the shower)

It acts like a natural peel, and your skin just soaks up whatever nutrients it needs from the cheese. 😉
darksurfer39 darksurfer39 Member
13 messages
joined Feb 2007
#4 ·
Benzoyl Peroxide (PanOxyl gel) is one of those classic treatments, and my dermatologist actually suggested it to me. It definitely worked better than most other things I tried... but it still didn't solve the underlying issue... I struggled with acne from the age of 10 all the way through 18... and honestly, I felt so self-conscious about it because they were so red and obvious... just covering my entire face. They didn't finally start clearing up until I began taking Diane-35 (an oral contraceptive) due to some issues with my ovaries, and then things started to recede... later, I switched to a lower dose—Yasmin—and I can tell you that after two years of taking it, they completely vanished. I don't have a single pimple left, nor even a trace that they were ever there. However, I did notice that when I stopped the Diane and took a year-long break, they came back—not quite as bad, but still a lot. But once I stayed on Yasmin, they disappeared for good! I’m so happy about it. It was clearly necessary for me since changing my diet didn't help much (even though I cut out as much sugar as possible and focused on eating a diverse, healthy diet)...
darksurfer39 darksurfer39 Member
13 messages
joined Feb 2007
#5 ·
Benzoyl Peroxide (PanOxyl gel) is one of those classic treatments, and my dermatologist actually recommended it to me. It definitely worked better than most other things I tried... but it still didn't solve everything for me. My acne followed me constantly from age 10 through 18... I honestly felt so self-conscious about it because they were so red and obvious... my whole face was just covered. They didn't finally start clearing up until I started taking Diane 35, which I needed for my ovaries anyway (an oral contraceptive), and then they began to recede... later, I switched to a lower dose, Yasmin, and I can honestly say that after two years of taking it, they completely vanished. I don't have a single pimple left, nor any scars to show they were ever there. However, I did notice that when I stopped the Diane and took a year-long break, they came back—not quite as bad, but still pretty noticeable. But once I stayed on Yasmin, they disappeared for good! I'm so relieved. It was clearly necessary for me since changing my diet didn't help much at all (even though I cut out as much sugar as possible and focused on eating a diverse, healthy diet)...
darksurfer39 darksurfer39 Member
13 messages
joined Feb 2007
#6 ·
Benzoyl Peroxide (PanOxyl gel) is one of those classic treatments, and my dermatologist actually suggested it to me. It definitely worked better than most other things I tried... but it didn't quite solve the whole issue for me. I struggled with acne from the age of 10 all the way through 18... and honestly, I felt so self-conscious about it because they were so red and noticeable... my whole face was just covered. They didn't really start clearing up until I began taking Diane-35 (an oral contraceptive) for my ovaries, and then things finally started to recede... later on, I switched to a lower dose, Yasmin, and I can honestly say that after two years of using it, they vanished completely! I don't have a single pimple left, nor even a trace that they were ever there. However, I did notice that when I stopped the Diane and took a year-long break, they came back—not quite as bad, but still quite a bit. But once I stayed on the Yasmin, they disappeared for good! I'm so happy about it. It was clearly necessary for me since changing my diet didn't help much (even though I cut out as much sugar as possible and tried to eat a super diverse, healthy diet)...
darksurfer39 darksurfer39 Member
13 messages
joined Feb 2007
#7 ·
Benzoyl Peroxide (PanOxyl gel) is one of those classic treatments, and my dermatologist actually recommended it to me back in the day. It definitely helped more than other stuff I tried... but it didn't quite solve the whole problem for me. I struggled with acne from when I was about 10 until I turned 18... honestly, I felt so self-conscious about it because they were so red and obvious... my whole face was just covered. They didn't really start clearing up until I started taking Diane-35, which I was prescribed due to some issues with my ovaries (it's an oral contraceptive), and things finally began to recede... then I switched to a lower dose, Yasmin, and I can honestly say they completely cleared up after two years of taking it. I don't have a single pimple left, nor any scars to show they were ever there. However, I did notice that when I stopped the Diane and took a year-long break, they came back—not exactly the same way, but quite a bit. But once I stayed on the Yasmin, they vanished completely! I'm so happy about it. It was clearly the only thing that worked for me, since changing my diet didn't make much of a difference (even though I cut out as much sugar as possible and tried to eat a super diverse, healthy diet)...
darksurfer39 darksurfer39 Member
13 messages
joined Feb 2007
#8 ·
Hey, could you please clear out the duplicates? Thanks!
Melissa Brooks5 Melissa Brooks5 Newcomer
8 messages
joined Apr 2007
#9 ·
Personally, I don't struggle with breakouts myself, but I’ve definitely done my homework on the subject.
Our skin is actually our body's largest organ, consisting of three primary layers. In the second layer, known as the dermis, you'll find hair follicles, sweat glands, and sebaceous glands. Right alongside the hair follicles are the tiny ducts from those sebaceous glands, which release sebum onto the surface of the skin. Think of sebum as a natural mix of oils, waxes, and carbohydrates that serves the essential purpose of keeping our skin hydrated and protected. So, why do some people deal with acne while others stay clear? There are quite a few factors at play here. Primarily, it comes down to genetics—specifically, an inherited sensitivity where your glands overreact to various stimuli and pump out excessive oil. On top of that, acne usually makes its debut during puberty due to the sudden shift in androgen levels. When those male hormones spike in the bloodstream, they trigger an overproduction of sebum, a condition often called seborrhea. However, if you aren't following a proper skincare routine, bacteria can easily move in, turning that excess oil into actual acne. Beyond genes, hormones, and basic care, lifestyle plays a massive role too. A balanced diet is huge; I always recommend loading up on fruits, vegetables, lean meats, and whole grains, while staying incredibly well-hydrated—plain old water is always your best bet. I also suggest trying to keep the stress levels to a minimum.
It’s always a smart move to start with a consultation from a dermatologist to figure out exactly what type of acne you're dealing with and tailor a treatment plan accordingly. For milder cases, local therapy using various creams and lotions usually does the trick. For more severe issues, doctors might prescribe oral medication, and in truly extreme cases, surgical options like dermabrasion might be recommended. It is important to clarify, though, that we aren't talking about the microdermabrasion you see offered at most high-end spas in cities like Los Angeles; we are talking about a legitimate surgical procedure where the superficial layer of skin is actually removed. This kind of "treatment" should only ever be performed by medical doctors, and the recovery process is quite long, requiring a lot of patience and diligent aftercare. Generally speaking, women may find it slightly easier to manage since their issues can often be addressed through hormonal therapy, such as birth control pills.
Once you've had your exam and started your prescribed treatment, visiting an esthetician can be a great next step—but only if you're dealing with mild acne. Your dermatologist is really the best person to tell you what specific type you have and whether professional facials are even advisable for you. Furthermore, any professional esthetician who truly cares about their clients should know exactly where to draw the line between what is safe to touch and what is strictly off-limits. An esthetician should also be able to identify different acne types so they can either treat you appropriately or refer you straight back to a doctor. In my opinion, these are essential qualities to look for; if you haven't noticed these traits in your current professional, it might be time to find someone new! As for how often you should go in, that's ultimately up to their professional judgment. But based on my own observations regarding acne comedonica (the mildest form involving blackheads and whiteheads), a facial once a month for the first two sessions is usually plenty. After that, if things are improving, you might only need one every month and a half or even longer. For acne papulopustulosa (where you can see pustules or pimples), estheticians can provide treatment, but only if there isn't visible active inflammation, and typically no more than once a month. In many cases, it's actually better to come in twice in one month for maintenance rather than letting things escalate until the whole face needs "massacring." Other forms of acne should be handled primarily by a dermatologist, and you should only consider manual extractions once you have their green light.
I also want to emphasize how vital it is to recognize your specific skin type. Most people struggling with breakouts assume they simply have oily skin. But you have to be careful there. There is a big difference between your skin *type* and your skin's current *condition*. For example, someone might actually have dry or normal skin, but their current state is just "unclean" or congested. If they treat it with aggressive products designed for oily skin, they might not even realize they are actually stripping their skin and leaving it severely dehydrated deep down. My point is this: you have to distinguish between type and condition to ensure your routine is effective. You choose your products based on your skin type, but you choose your treatments based on your skin's condition.
Ultimately, you’ve got to arm yourself with plenty of patience, because that’s really the secret weapon when you're fighting acne. It's also important to remember that we all have unique skin, so everyone reacts differently to various products, treatments, and routines. Take your time to experiment and find what actually works for your specific skin type—I promise the effort will be worth it!
I hope this helped clear some things up and makes it a little easier for you to wrap your head around everything as you put together your battle plan.😉
Karen Myers4 Karen Myers4 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Jan 2007
#10 ·
This topic has popped up a few times already, I'm just doing a quick copy-paste here

SPECIALIST DERMATOLOGY CLINIC
Dr. Vesna Magdić-Jelavić
Specialist Dermatologist

5th Avenue
San Jose
555-012-3456

My daughter struggled hard with acne, but she’s been on this regimen for 6 months now
Skinoren cream in the morning
Differin cream at night
PanOxyl lotion (for inflammation)
and one Aknefug tablet daily

After 6 months, her skin is totally clear—not a single pimple or inflamed spot left
Just stay persistent... it pays off. Make sure to go in for monthly check-ups too

You absolutely have to see a dermatologist. If your current treatment isn't working, find a new doctor immediately
Douglas Price5 Douglas Price5 Member
15 messages
joined Dec 2007
#11 ·
I’m going through the exact same struggle.
I've tried just about everything out there.
The only thing that actually seems to help is brewer's yeast.
I'm heading out to grab some more tomorrow.
And honestly? I'm probably going to buy it by the pound.
Someone please talk me out of it before I go overboard.
Douglas Price5 Douglas Price5 Member
15 messages
joined Dec 2007
#12 ·
So, would those birth control pills actually help guys if they're dealing with acne issues too?
Michael Anderson10 Michael Anderson10 Member
31 messages
joined Dec 2007
#13 ·
darksurfer39 said:Benzoyl Peroxide (PanOxyl gel) is one of those older treatments; my dermatologist actually recommended it to me back in the day. It definitely helped more than other stuff, though it didn't quite solve everything... I struggled with acne from age 10 all the way through 18. Honestly, I felt pretty awful about it because they were so red and obvious—my whole face was just covered. They didn't really clear up until I started taking Diane-35 (an oral contraceptive) due to some issues with my ovaries, and then things started receding... eventually, I switched to a lower dose—Yasmin—and I can say they completely vanished after two years of use. I don't have a single pimple left, nor any scars from when they were there. However, I did notice that when I took a year-long break from Diane, they came back—not exactly the same, but still quite a bit. Once I stayed on Yasmin, they disappeared entirely! I'm quite relieved. It seems I had to go that route, since changing my diet didn't seem to help much, even though I cut out as much sugar as possible and tried to eat a varied, healthy diet.

Heh, PanOxyl... seeing a stain on the wallpaper always brings back memories of that stuff.
vividmaker532 vividmaker532 NewcomerOP
5 messages
joined Jan 2007
#14 ·
Thanks for the advice, everyone. I’ll probably head to a private dermatologist in a week or two—once I finish dumping this current stash of chemicals onto my face. 😬

Regarding the brewer's yeast—I tried taking capsules for a while, but it didn't seem like enough, so I bought a half-pound of the raw stuff and ate a teaspoon three times a day. It helped somewhat, I guess, but not entirely. 😳

Karen Myers4 said:My daughter struggled with major acne issues and has been on this regimen for 6 months now:
Skinoren cream in the morning
Differin at night
PanOxyl lotion (for inflammation)
and one Aknefug tablet daily.

Can you actually get those without a prescription? I've tried looking for Differin before, but it's either impossible to find here or apparently requires a script, from what I hear. Also, I'm a little worried because they say your skin gets significantly worse with Differin before it gets better—which I know is typical for anti-acne products, but apparently, it's especially intense with this one...🙄
Karen Myers4 Karen Myers4 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Jan 2007
#15 ·
vividmaker532 said:Thanks for the advice, everyone. I’m going to see a private dermatologist in a week or two, once I finish burning through this current stash of chemicals I've been throwing at my face. 😬

Regarding the brewer's yeast—I tried taking it in capsules for a while, but the dosage felt too low. So, I just bought half a kilo of bulk brewer's yeast and ate a teaspoon three times a day. It helped a little, but it didn't solve everything. 😳

Can you get this stuff over the counter? I've tried looking for Differin before, but I can't find it anywhere here, and from what I hear, you need a prescription. Honestly, I'm a bit terrified because people say using Differin makes your skin look way worse before it actually gets better. I know that's common with acne treatments, but apparently, it's especially brutal with Differin... 🙄

I have no idea who told you Differin causes those reactions. From what I've seen with my daughter, she hasn't had any side effects at all (she's been on it for a year now). Her skin is flawless—no spots, no scarring, nothing. As for prescriptions, you'll get one from the dermatologist, but you're paying out of pocket for the creams and pills since they aren't covered by Medicare.
A dermatology appointment is about $100, which I don't think is that bad of a price to pay..
Douglas Price5 Douglas Price5 Member
15 messages
joined Dec 2007
#16 ·
Here’s how you can keep that extra $100 right in your pocket.
Basically, this was my experience.
I went to my primary care doctor to get a referral for a dermatologist, and instead of heading to a public hospital, I decided to see a private specialist who accepts insurance.
Later on, I went back to her for a facial cleaning, which ended up costing me $83, even though I could have just gone to the hospital and had it done for free through Medicare.
But honestly, since I didn't want to risk someone doing a half-baked job, I chose the private clinic—I feel like they actually put in the effort when I'm paying them out of my own pocket!
Douglas Price5 Douglas Price5 Member
15 messages
joined Dec 2007
#17 ·
So, let’s talk about creams and skincare products for a second.
If you want stuff that actually works, stick to these:
-La Roche-Posay Effaclar cleanser
-PanOxyl 5% Benzoyl Peroxide
Both are from Dr. Wolff.
Everything else you find sitting on the shelves at Walmart is basically just overpriced, colored water—it won't do a single thing for your skin.

On a side note, I've been trying to track down some Accutane through unofficial channels lately. If anyone knows a lead, please let me know.
Rebecca Williams11 Rebecca Williams11 Member
15 messages
joined May 2008
#18 ·
Look, you can't just go buying Accutane on the black market. I don't care how desperate you feel right now—just get that idea out of your head immediately.🙂
To even get handed those pills by your doctor, you have to jump through all these endless hoops with medical tests, and then if you're actually lucky enough to get them, you're stuck going back for constant checkups.
Side effects can be endless, and honestly, they can get pretty damn dangerous too.
Rebecca Williams11 Rebecca Williams11 Member
15 messages
joined May 2008
#19 ·
I get the feeling that so many people dealing with this stuff just "give up" on seeing a dermatologist way too easily, or they wait forever before actually asking for help.
Honestly, all this DIY experimentation is totally pointless—in a lot of cases, you're just making things way worse.
Someone mentioned putting cottage cheese on their face earlier, and I seriously don't get how that's supposed to help someone with inflamed breakouts all over their face?! To me, that’s just messing around and smearing junk on your skin, which probably just lets bacteria pile up even more.
My advice? Just go to a dermatologist. Try whatever they prescribe, and if you don't see any improvement after a few months, go to a different one or go back and demand answers. It's better than listening to old wives' tales about brewer's yeast—I mean, I know B vitamins are good for your skin, but that kind of thing isn't going to cure you.

Here's some stuff I've picked up regarding problematic skin:
-Wash your face with lukewarm water morning and night using a mild cleanser; I read somewhere that an intimate wash actually works pretty well for this.
-Pat dry—don't rub—and use a clean towel.
-Most estheticians and dermatologists recommend a toner right after washing to regulate your skin's pH (pretty much every skincare line has a cleanser or gel followed by a toner... I can't give you a specific brand recommendation because everyone is different, and there are honestly too many options to list them all).
-After the toner, apply a moisturizer. Look for something super gentle and oil-free specifically for acne-prone skin. You can layer it with an acne cream—just apply the acne treatment first when your skin is dry, then put the moisturizer over it (if you're using anything at all).
-Keep your hands off your face. Don't touch, don't fidget, and definitely don't squeeze.
-Be persistent. Nag your dermatologists and doctors if you have to; a lot of them won't take your issues seriously enough.
-Don't quit or start experimenting on your own—you can only do that in very small doses.
-Try to find the root cause. Get your blood work done to check for vitamin deficiencies or if you have inflammation somewhere else in your body.
-How's your digestion?
-A ton of people with stomach ulcers, food allergies, or gluten sensitivity deal with skin issues.
-You should watch your diet. Most dermatologists claim diet has nothing to do with skin, but plenty of people notice their skin changes based on what they eat.
-You really ought to slash your intake of flour, sugar, and alcohol, since those contribute to Candida growth in your gut, which triggers breakouts.
-Seriously, what's your diet like? How's your digestion? Are you regular? Do you deal with bloating, stomach pains, or a nervous stomach?
-Eat fruits and veggies, fresh food, and whole grains. Cut out everything greasy, fried foods, fast food, too much red meat, overly spicy food, and soda.
-And the classic: drink at least 2 liters of water a day.
-Sometimes doing a body detox before starting acne treatments helps. I read that olive leaf extract in pill form kills bacteria, parasites, and fungi in the gut. I don't know how accurate that is, but a cleanse like that is recommended for everyone at least twice a year.
-Take your vitamins and minerals daily—like a multivitamin.
-Omega-3 helps soothe inflammation.
-Vitamin D is huge; without it, your body can't absorb the calcium needed for cell regeneration.
-Get as much Vitamin C as you can.
-Are you getting enough protein?
-Are you physically active?
-Do you get out into the fresh air?
-Try to stress less and do things you actually enjoy.
That's basically everything I can think of right now; hopefully, this helps you out a little.
Oh yeah, I also read that laser treatments help with problematic skin, but apparently only for people whose breakouts are caused by Propionibacterium.
-Clay masks should help too, so ask your dermatologist about them.

Anyway, good luck fighting off those little pests.
Douglas Price5 Douglas Price5 Member
15 messages
joined Dec 2007
#20 ·
First off,
you don't deal with nearly as many breakouts as I do or as many people in this community do, so you might not fully grasp the reality of it.
Beyond just being an aesthetic issue, acne carries a much heavier burden: the psychological toll. It hits your self-worth hard and absolutely tanks your confidence. Teens and young adults are already navigating such unstable emotional waters, and dealing with skin issues can push things way over the edge. It can lead to devastating consequences, even suicidal thoughts.

At the end of the day, mental health is far more critical than physical appearance.

So, if someone is struggling, they should just take those damn pills.

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