Posts by Rachel Allen5

If anyone’s looking to hang out with a small group—maybe three or four women in their 30s or 40s and two guys around 30—or if you just need some company while you're down in Miami... let me know.👍

If anyone’s actually interested in a little meetup for the Forums folks down in Split, a few of us are planning to gather this Thursday around 4:00 PM at Adriana on the waterfront. It’ll be four girls and one guy so far...

Austin Nelson2 said:Find a career that you would pursue even if you weren't getting paid.

Seek out work that actually sparks a bit of genuine interest.

And please—don't be afraid to stand up to workplace harassment. Be brave, stay resolute, and hold your ground... say exactly what needs to be said. You might need to intimidate them slightly at the start to establish boundaries... this comes from someone who has survived several instances of toxic management. Look them right in the eye and refuse to blink.
Master your craft until you are the absolute best at what you do.

I’m with you on that. That was my experience too. The only way I finally dealt with the toxic environment at my old firm was by showing some teeth. It doesn't work any other way when you're dealing with people who act like animals... If you don't set boundaries early on, it gets so much harder later. I spent a few years just taking it, until I finally hit a breaking point. Once I snapped, everything changed. Looking back, I wonder why I waited so long... maybe it's just how we're raised, feeling like we have to be compliant and play nice.😵

What’s actually holding you back there? Is it just some deep-seated fear or maybe just a bit of insecurity getting in the way?

I’m still out there hanging out in Miami, dodging all the leftover pandemic vibes while grabbing coffee. If anyone’s looking to connect or just meet some new people, feel free to reach out 😁 (looking for folks roughly between 25 and 45, regardless of gender)....

Still hanging out around Miami too, despite everything with the pandemic making coffee shop visits a bit tricky lately... if anyone's looking to connect, feel free to reach out 😁 (looking for folks roughly between 25 and 45, both men and women)....

I’m 42 and looking for some good company, sort of like the vibe you get hanging out in Miami. I’ve already got a solid little circle of friends—both guys and girls—but I’d love to branch out and meet some new people too. Most of my go-to hangouts involve just walking around, maybe hitting up Golden Gate Park, grabbing coffee, catching a movie, things like that...😁

If anyone happens to be looking for some free English conversation practice over Zoom, let me know... right now there are just six of us, mostly Splitters who ended up meeting for coffee through some online therapy group......

Hey there. So, a small group of us here in San Francisco—mostly people in that 26 to 40 age range hanging out at Psohokauč—are looking to expand the circle. If anyone feels like joining us, just shoot me a DM.
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Hey there!

A few of us girls (anywhere from our mid-20s to early 40s) are hanging out here in Miami, so if anyone’s looking to expand their social circle and meet some new people... 😉

If anyone happens to be in San Francisco and wants to hang out, a few of us from the forum usually get together... maybe grab a coffee, stroll through Central Park, catch a movie or something. We’re mostly somewhere between our late 20s and 40, but honestly, the birth year doesn't really matter to us. You’re more than welcome to join the group! 👍