Nathan Doyle said:It seems like most former atheists who end up finding faith usually went through some kind of serious illness or a massive life crisis right before they converted... Then you've got the other crowd, people who were deep into drugs or getting caught up in crime, so they basically just swapped one extreme lifestyle for another, and now they're acting more devout than the Pope himself. For people who couldn't quite figure out how to handle the weight of life, religion acts like this defensive mechanism, sort of a crutch for their emotions... And then there are those who claim they had some kind of "transcendental" experience—whether that was triggered by substances, a medical seizure, or a near-death experience—which flipped a switch in them, even though doctors can pretty much explain those sensations away quite easily...
Personally, I find my way of looking at things just much simpler and more beautiful, and honestly, everything feels crystal clear this way... Those deep philosophical questions that nobody can actually answer just stay unexplained, and frankly, they don't really affect me as they are. To me, the whole point of life is just actually living it. My conscience is totally clear. You guys can't even skip Sunday service or deal with certain private habits without feeling a massive wave of guilt hitting you. I don't need to go out of my way to act religious just to realize it isn't any better, just like I don't need to put a bullet in my head to know that I wouldn't like it... 😁
So, looking at where we're at now, we all basically know that Earth wasn't actually formed in just seven days, that Eve didn't pop out of Adamov's rib, and that the burning bush probably wasn't literally talking... back in the day, people used to get burned at the stake just for suggesting stuff like that, but now that we actually understand how things work, everyone just pivots and claims those stories were always meant to be allegories and that's what they intended all along. Like, what else are we supposed to pretend they didn't mean? It feels like such a tragedy when you think about all those people who were persecuted or even killed just because they were sticking to scientific facts that contradicted the Bible, and it makes you wonder why a good God would let people suffer like that just because His own book wasn't written clearly enough... He had one job... 😁
I mean, if He’s truly all-knowing, He’d definitely know every single individual soul out there that needs a nudge to accept His existence... So if He’s also all-powerful, proving Himself to everyone one by one shouldn't even be a challenge for Him. If He could show up for "Doubting Thomas," why wouldn't He just show up for every other skeptic out there? Just popping into their room and pulling off a few miracles until they finally get it should be a total breeze for someone like that...
Even a flat-earther would be convinced the Earth is round if you just floated them up in a warm air balloon way past the stratosphere and into space, where they could see the whole thing at once. If some hypothetical omnipotent being actually wanted people to realize the planet is a sphere, it would honestly be in their best interest to just make it happen and convince them...
So what's the deal then with this god you guys believe in? Why does He rely on this one ancient book that fewer and fewer people actually take seriously anymore?...
It’s either because He isn't all-powerful, or He just doesn't care about us. Or, you know, He just isn't there... 😁
Obviously not, that "Catholic" is probably heading straight to hell because it’s hard to imagine someone with such a shallow faith confessing all those sins they were busy committing throughout their life... You spend your whole life overeating and drinking too much at weddings and baptisms and then just forget about it all, boom, you're in the eternal fire. As for a Muslim, I don't know, that's why I'm asking...
So, in your eyes, is the whole point of religion just blind faith, regardless of what exactly you're believing? Like, as long as you act according to whatever you blindly believe, that's enough to stay in God's good graces? Even if you're physically disciplining your wife in accordance with your faith, or looking down on people from other religions?...
I’ve had an experience that was somewhat similar—though, in my case, the struggles didn't really kick in until after I had already convinced myself of God's existence on a purely rational, intellectual level. So, it might not fit perfectly into the standard pattern you're describing here. I'll admit, though, that what you're laying out is definitely a common occurrence. The thing is, that doesn't actually tell us anything about whether the theism held by those converts is actually true. It's easy for me to claim that atheism is just a byproduct of people being angry at God for reasons A, B, or C—or to argue that atheism is merely a way to rationalize lifestyles that don't align with Christian morality. I mean, I could say those things, but they're really just passing observations. They don't work as actual arguments because the logic just doesn't follow. It's a bit like arguing that someone is only Roman Catholic because they were born into a Roman Catholic family in a heavily Catholic country like Italy. Okay, sure—but that still doesn't tell you anything about whether the God those people believe in actually exists.
Personally, I find my way of looking at things much simpler—and honestly, a lot more beautiful—because everything feels crystal clear to me. Those deep philosophical questions we can't quite wrap our heads around? They stay unexplained, and frankly, they don't really affect me. To me, the whole point of life is just... living it. I have a clean conscience. You guys can't even skip Sunday service or indulge in a little private vice without feeling an immediate wave of guilt. I don't need to pretend to be religious to realize it isn't a better way to live—just like I don't need to test out a bullet to the head to know I wouldn't enjoy it. 😁
It’s not exactly crystal clear, though—if you look at things through a purely naturalistic lens, there isn't any inherent meaning to life; everything eventually just boils down to being meaningless. Any sense of purpose we feel is just an illusion of meaning, an illusion of morality, and even the idea that a higher power exists is really just a byproduct of the programming left behind by our evolutionary history. In that sense, there's no reason why you wouldn't turn that same skepticism toward the very beliefs you hold dear. Meaning is just a human invention—a fiction—just as much as God is. That’s why, when I talk to atheists like this, I usually tell them they can apply that same level of scrutiny to the concepts of meaning or morality as they do to the question of God. You can't really look at the existence of God in a vacuum; a lot of these ideas come bundled together. This is why I mentioned in my last post that theism feels much more coherent to me—because atheism seems to be in total opposition to how we actually experience ourselves and the world around us. I mean, even if you argue that objective morality doesn't exist, or that there is no true purpose, your own behavior and your lived experience—your personal reality—will still be largely at odds with that stance.
So, let's look at the facts—we already know that Earth wasn't created in just seven days, that Eve didn't pop out of Adam's rib, and that the burning bush probably wasn't actually talking, right? It’s funny—back in the day, you could get burned at the stake just for suggesting those things, but now that we actually know the truth, everyone suddenly pivots and claims these stories were always meant to be allegories. They claim they never intended them to be taken literally. But what else are we supposed to pretend they didn't mean? It feels like such a tragedy when you think about all the people who were persecuted or even killed—people who were just trying to speak scientific truths that happened to contradict the Bible. If God is as good as we say, why would He allow people to suffer like that just because His own book wasn't written clearly enough? I mean, he had one job... 😁
I feel like I’ve already covered this ground with that other forum member.
I mean, if we’re talking about an omniscient being, He would theoretically know every single individual who needs to believe in Him just to acknowledge His existence. So, if He's also all-powerful—which is the whole premise, right?—then proving Himself to every person one by one shouldn't actually be a challenge. If He could pull that whole "Doubting Thomas" routine and show up to prove a point, why wouldn't He just do that for everyone else? I guess appearing in someone's living room and performing every miracle imaginable until they were finally convinced should be, what, a walk in the park for Him?
Honestly, you could probably convince even the most hardcore flat-earther that the Earth is actually round if you just lifted them up in some kind of warm air balloon—way past the stratosphere and right out into space—where they could finally wrap their eyes around the whole thing at once. If there really were some hypothetical, all-powerful being out there who wanted people to grasp the truth about the shape of our world, wouldn't it be in their best interest to just make it happen and convince us?
So, what exactly is the issue with the God you all believe in? Why pin everything on one primitive book that fewer and fewer people seem to take seriously these days?
Is He not all-powerful, or does He just not care about us? Or—maybe more simply—does He even exist? 😁
Maybe He gave us everything we actually need—it just might be our own fault if we fail to see it. Honestly, I feel like we’ve already lost that battle against temptation.
It’s pretty obvious—that "Catholic" is probably headed straight for hell. It’s hard to imagine someone confessing all those sins they spent their entire life racking up so casually. I mean, if you spend your weekends at weddings and christenings just overindulging on the buffet and the open bar, only to forget about it all by Monday—well, boom, you're stuck in the eternal fire. As for Muslims, I honestly don't know, which is why I'm asking.
That’s exactly my point. People tend to take things like this way too literally—as if you just go to confession, recite the required lines, beg for forgiveness, and call it a day. But even if you aren't a believer, you can still see that it shouldn't be that hollow or superficial.
So, are you saying that the whole point of religion boils down to just having blind faith—regardless of what those specific beliefs actually are? Like, as long as you act in accordance with whatever you blindly follow, that’s enough to stay in God's good graces? Even if that "acting in accordance" includes things like physically disciplining your wife because your faith dictates it, or treating people from other religions with total contempt?
I honestly feel like all the major religious traditions out there are legitimate paths leading toward God. Different groups of people have followed their own unique historical journeys—walking through different chapters of time, really—and they carry these distinct collective stories with them. To me, the variety of religions we see across the globe is just a reflection of that, yet they’re all ultimately reaching for that same transcendent truth that serves as the ultimate Source for everyone. Think of it like a single spring that feeds into several different rivers—rivers that branch out, flow separately for a while, but eventually find their way back to merge into one single stream. Personally, I am Roman Catholic and I hold that to be my truth, but that doesn't mean I lack respect for other faiths or assume they don't hold any truth within them. They simply view that truth through their own lens, though our perspectives overlap quite a bit in many ways. Of course, there are some significant differences, too. For instance, Muslims believe Jesus was a prophet, whereas we believe he is the Son of God. I suppose one day, those kinds of things will finally be resolved.
wiredfalcon2 said:Nah, because allegory is way more open to interpretation than just plain old facts. Getting an allegory right takes a certain level of intellect and life experience—if you don't have that, you can totally misread things and—boom—there you go, straight to hell. And what happens when you finally show up at Saint Peter's gate and say, "Oops, my bad, I totally misinterpreted the 'thou shalt not kill' part, so I ended up slaughtering 7 million French infants," and you think that's gonna count as a valid excuse to get into heaven?
Sorry, I just don't have the energy for this.