What are your thoughts on Natasha Kampusch?
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Oh, please, kids can be incredibly manipulative. Especially if there's a narcissistic streak involved, and from what I can see, she had the perfect breeding ground to build a false persona as a defense mechanism. They say her family was anything but stable—divorced parents, an unstable grandmother, constant fighting, and a huge blowout the night before she vanished. And how does she respond to that? "I had a family that loved me and always showed it." To me, that smells like immediate denial, the kind of thing you see in a child who simply cannot accept that their parents aren't perfect.
Furthermore, half of her story doesn't hold water for me either. The idea that an eight-year-old wouldn't have had a single chance to run away while being kept in the house the whole time? Come on. We're talking about a severe case of Stockholm Syndrome at the very least, if not something else entirely. The problem is, there's nobody to actually corroborate her account.
So, it all feels like she’s dealing with some sort of serious narcissistic disorder—that "strength" she displays can't be anything other than a defense mechanism, a way of denying reality, developing this "strong personality" just to survive. The question is whether she would have developed it if that guy hadn't kidnapped her. Given the circumstances, it was almost a guarantee that she'd develop it, since he spent those years viewing her as the "woman of his life" and, in some twisted, perverse way, as an ideal.
| driftingstag8 says: shadowowl9 that if she had been kidnapped at an older age, maybe, but a ten-year-old just can't act like that. Kids are supposed to be wild, living their lives, hanging out with friends, slamming doors and driving their parents crazy. I don't buy it. And the reason her story sounds so unnatural? I think it’s exactly what Harold Adams5 wrote. This isn't her actual story; it’s just what they coached her to say. | She speaks incredibly calmly, but look at how tightly she's clenching her fists—her knuckles are turning red.
Oh, please, kids can be incredibly manipulative. Especially if there's a narcissistic streak involved, and from what I can see, she had the perfect breeding ground to build a false persona as a defense mechanism. They say her family was anything but stable—divorced parents, an unstable grandmother, constant fighting, and a huge blowout the night before she vanished. And how does she respond to that? "I had a family that loved me and always showed it." To me, that smells like immediate denial, the kind of thing you see in a child who simply cannot accept that their parents aren't perfect.
Furthermore, half of her story doesn't hold water for me either. The idea that an eight-year-old wouldn't have had a single chance to run away while being kept in the house the whole time? Come on. We're talking about a severe case of Stockholm Syndrome at the very least, if not something else entirely. The problem is, there's nobody to actually corroborate her account.
So, it all feels like she’s dealing with some sort of serious narcissistic disorder—that "strength" she displays can't be anything other than a defense mechanism, a way of denying reality, developing this "strong personality" just to survive. The question is whether she would have developed it if that guy hadn't kidnapped her. Given the circumstances, it was almost a guarantee that she'd develop it, since he spent those years viewing her as the "woman of his life" and, in some twisted, perverse way, as an ideal.