Posts by quietbadger11

Alright, I'll be sure to keep an eye out.👍

Daniel Kelly57 said:It would be better if you realized that this style of communication is incredibly rude and actually legally unacceptable under the Penal Code of the United States, and you'd just decide never to use it again. 😉

Alright, I'll be more careful moving forward. Thanks for letting me know.
Sometimes my mouth moves faster than my brain can keep up, doesn't it? 😵

goldeneagle36 said:Are you actually even aware of what you're typing right now?!?
You’re sitting here talking about "black guys," implying that black people should only be with black people and white people with white people... seriously? We aren't living in the era of slavery, or even back in the 1950s when people were still fighting just to sit together on a public bus.
What kind of "friendship" are you claiming to have when you’re out here labeling people by their race like that?
I’ve said it before, and I really hope you aren't spewing this kind of idiocy in front of your kids or raising them to think this way.

Look, that term was just slang, and I honestly didn't mean anything malicious by it; it was just something that slipped out.
Of course I don't say garbage like that in front of my children, because I'm not that clueless.
Alright, I apologize. I'll be more careful in the future.

Joshua Adams3 said:I honestly don't get what's so funny.

Did you even read what you wrote? There are other books out there besides the Bible. At this rate, I’m starting to think the Bible is just a manual for promoting homophobia, racism, and all that other garbage.

Since I know you in person and I know how you talk, even when you're genuinely angry, you still manage to say things in such a charming way that I can't help but find it a little amusing.

Alright then, I'll apologize if I happened to offend anyone.
Maybe it's best if I just step back for a bit.

Joshua Adams3 said:You clearly don't get it. Seriously... eight hundred Bibles won't help you; you're as clueless as a spinning tire.

Shut it and just stick to your fancy restaurants and your new car.

🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for giving me such a good laugh, truly.🤣🤣

goldeneagle36 said:The quotes you're pulling out of thin air speak for themselves—all four of them. You constantly pivot to these trivialities every time you drop comments about homosexuals or abortion, and now this. If you claim to be a man of faith, shouldn't you carry yourself differently, rather than being such a narrow-minded person prone to hating anything you deem "not normal"? It’s honestly tragic.
And yeah, call me a drama queen if you want, because I always will be when things like this come up.

Look, I've had Romani people as my closest friends, so I have nothing but good things to say about them.
But I just can't wrap my head around why a girl would go looking for guys all the way over in Turkey or the Middle East; it just seems strange to me, is all.
Anyway, if I'm going to get banned for saying that, then fine, whatever.
Maybe it's better if I just stop commenting altogether and stay quiet.

I was just sharing my thoughts on why women might look elsewhere for partners when there are plenty of great guys right here at home. I honestly have my doubts about whether their social norms and our way of life would truly mesh well together.
And besides, I mentioned before that Rome was one of my closest friends.
It really comes down to the fundamental differences in culture and how people live their lives on both sides of the ocean.
To be clear, I don't have anything against other races; I think my point was just misunderstood.

I’ve never been unfaithful. When I’m in a relationship, my partner is my entire world, and I just don't feel any urge to stray.
When I'm committed to someone, my whole focus is on making sure they feel loved and happy, so the idea of cheating and bringing that kind of shame upon them never even crosses my mind.
Besides, there's also the divine commandment against adultery, which makes the whole thing pretty senseless to me.

I actually know what it feels like to be cheated on, and honestly, it’s such a miserable, hollow feeling—it makes you feel completely worthless.
If a woman truly loves me, she would never want to inflict that kind of heartache on me.

I don't think I could ever forgive infidelity, either, because once I know someone has been with someone else, that spark is just gone.
At that point, they become a stranger to me, because if you were really willing to cheat, it proves we never truly knew one another in the first place.

amberviper70 said:So, we have the 22-year-old, the couple (one lost wife and a potential troublemaker), plus one more person.
I guess we'll finally learn about her through your travel photos 🍿.
Both us and the people who follow the forum—connecting your pictures to your posts...

LESS IS MORE SHHHHH.

That’s exactly how it is. It's just the young girl, the couple, and one colleague riding along.
I know it might be better to stay quiet and not overshare, but since this was the topic of the day, I figured I'd throw in a few little details from my private life.

Chris Cruz942 said:Maybe the whole office is reading this right now and eyeing each other suspiciously.😁

God forbid😁

Noah Moore61 said:Quote : Mother of Pearl

Man, that guy is a total magnet—every woman in sight is losing their minds over him. Seriously, quietbadger11, you’re just out there coasting through the workday while he collects all the attention. Honestly, when God finally decides to shake things up and restore some balance around here, you’re probably going to be the first one caught in the blast zone...🤣

In your case, I’d say you definitely called it—your words have really turned to gold.🤣

Trust me, there are plenty of players like that in my company too.
But I think I'll leave it at that, because who knows? There's a chance someone who really shouldn't be reading this might stumble upon it.

Anyway, I'm going to go get ready for 4:00 PM. 🎉🎉🎉

Joseph Rivera75 said:quietbadger11 is basically driving a bus full of coworkers to the office 😵

Noah Moore61, I love that idea! 👍

It's just two women and two men.

Noah Moore61 said:quietbadger11, I’ve been chewing on that dilemma of yours—you know, that whole cross you’re carrying on those broad shoulders of yours—and honestly? I think I’ve finally cracked it.

Just don't say a single word to the guy. As for your wife, just tell her you're totally on board. Then, take her to bed and... well, let's just say be the kind of guy who's so completely "unenthusiastic" that she won't even be able to get an erection to complain about. She might be a little disappointed with the actual performance, sure, but at least her curiosity about what's going on with you will be satisfied. And that's it. Keep it between us.
Huuuuu .....🕺

No thanks.
Silence really is golden, isn't it?

It probably isn't the smartest move for me to be posting this stuff publicly, since you never truly know who might be lurking around the forum reading these threads, right? 😲
It just occurred to me. 😲

Alright, that's enough from me.🙂🙂

Maria Cox2 said:Don't you find the whole situation somewhat embarrassing, if I may be so bold?

In truth, there is a certain level of ego involved in being so eager, wouldn't you agree?

Why on earth should I feel foolish? It's not like I've done anything wrong.
But let’s be real here—of course, it feels good when my wife tells me she wants me, but at the same time, I find myself wondering what the right move actually is. There is a big difference between simple desire and letting your head spin, don't you think? Lust and attraction are one thing, but you still have to use your brain.
God's direct command is quite clear: Do not commit adultery.
And I intend to stick to that 100% .

Maria Cox2 said:Are you two still maintaining that same kind of friendship?

In my humble opinion, once things reach a certain point—once those kinds of romantic or sexual sentiments have been voiced—it feels nearly impossible to simply revert back to the way things were before.

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We actually see each other every single day since I drive them to work.
My wife is a very reasonable person and she understands why I turned her down; she knows clearly that this whole situation isn't right, but it seems like she’s just unhappy in our marriage and is looking for some kind of comfort elsewhere.

Maria Cox2 said:quietbadger11, I find myself wondering how you even managed to get into a position where they feel comfortable flirting with you or sharing those kinds of intimate details

I don't really socialize much, truthfully; I don't hang out with any female friends, nor would I ever go so far as to engage in any sort of digital messaging with them

How did you even end up in a situation where you could discuss such private matters, specifically regarding the inner workings of their relationship?

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I've been driving her and her husband to work for years now.
We spend a lot of time alone in the car since her husband is constantly out on medical leave, and that's just how we grew closer.

Maria Cox2 said:quietbadger11, I honestly don't think I could tolerate things like that anymore

I simply couldn't bear to carry someone else's burden

In truth, she essentially forced you to shoulder her weight by making it a shared secret between just the two of you

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Even if we consider it our little secret, there's no way I'm ever telling her husband.
I feel like he'd just blow up and cause a massive disaster, and I really don't want any part of that chaos.
I'd much rather just leave things exactly as they are.

Melissa Rogers4 said:Cheating isn't about having sex with someone else; it's the lying to your husband that does it. Honestly, just get a divorce if you want to be with someone else. I can't stand people like that. Such opportunists...

She claims to "love" her husband, but it sounds like she's just bored with him.
What a mess.

Joseph Rivera75 said:amberviper70, I don't think quietbadger11 would actually do it just because of a buddy.

quietbadger11
Just because she said yes doesn't mean anything for the topic of the day.
The point is her friend made a move on her, you get me?
Would you lose your mind if someone told you your girl was hitting on them, or would you just buy him a drink?
Or would you actually distance yourself from the guy, which is what any sane person would do?

Personally, I wouldn't feel right if a friend tried to hit on my woman.
Of course, I’d tell him straight up that it was incredibly disrespectful.
In all likelihood, he wouldn't even be my friend anymore.
I've just never really encountered people that clueless before.

amberviper70 said:I'm on the same page.
I'm starting to suspect there’s been something going on between those two all along—like I just completely missed the signs.

Is that actually a matter of honor—or are you just not feeling enough tension?

She’s a beautiful, sophisticated blonde, but like I mentioned before, I just can't imagine her pulling something so nasty.
Plus, I’m a person of faith, and acting like that would go completely against everything I believe in.
It’s honestly just such a tacky and disrespectful way to behave.