Split Dualism: The Reflexive Subject-Ego vs. the Atavistic Object-Ego
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Lisa Morales4 said:wow! there is just so much sweetness here to soak in and contemplate... I honestly don't even know which little flower to land on first 🙂
Ideas are everywhere around us; once we become ready for them, we catch on, and then we seize them. Once that initial phase of wonder, awe, and being intoxicated by them passes, that’s when we truly begin to manipulate and turn them, allowing them to manifest because we let them nestle within our thoughts. When the fun fades—and as you mentioned, everything has a beginning and an end, which I can reconcile on the dynamic timeline of eternity—we eventually gather all our experiences and events, and then we reflect. If we haven't already been doing so during the actual process, we sequence and process both the good and the bad, which ultimately allows the bad to transform into something good.
Whatever we are approaching, whatever the task, we should approach it with fun
At the start, while we are in that one state, let's set aside some time and reflect
Throughout the process, we should also find the time to step back, and reflect
If our status changes in the meantime, let's not forget the default status of being a silent observer of it all, and reflectI'm not saying I understand everything, but through these reflections, I'm trying to make sense of it. These words aren't final conclusions.
exactly THAT
nor am I making any emphatic points
Your thoughts and attempts at understanding are like a finger dipping into a lake, creating concentric ripples that might be exactly what someone else out there needed to experience tenth
Every thought set in motion simultaneously finds someone somewhere who is looking for it.
Could you elaborate on that a bit more? Maybe walk me through a specific example to help me wrap my head around it.
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You don't actually realize the impact you have on people.
You can just make an assumption.
It might be worth considering what happens next.
Every single action I take.
You ask someone what their thoughts are.
People were reacting to your reaction.
That would make him much more aware of his own surroundings.
My reaction to the others, though since we’re all in this together...
It varies. For instance, in my own experience...
I’m reacting with genuine excitement over this.
Alternatively, he can count on me.
Sharing joy—but what about the rest?
Maybe that third one on the side.
He’s jealous of him—and that fourth guy too.
He might be upset about what that guy did.
Third place, and fifth.
...
Some people truly understand the weight of their own actions.
And who actually understands the weight of their own actions?
Take my mother, for example. She tends to be quite expressive with her emotions.
He just ends up tailoring his entire approach based on how he thinks others will react.
It’s something that both I and most people do, whether we realize it or not.
You can change his code however you want, too.
Do you actually know how to work from absolute zero?
Knowing how to truly accept someone else's emotions and hold space for them is a skill in itself. It’s about more than just listening; it’s about recognizing their feelings and treating them with genuine respect. I remember a situation a few years back where a close friend was going through a rough patch at work. Instead of jumping in with advice or trying to "fix" things, I simply sat with them and acknowledged how much it sucked. That simple act of validation meant more to them than any solution I could have offered. It’s a quiet kind of strength, but it makes all the difference.
It’s about the emotion itself, rather than focusing on the individual or just reacting to them.
It is much harder than people realize to actually change someone. In my experience, trying to force a transformation on another person usually backfires.
It’s possible to tackle this through smaller, more manageable steps.
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Just take a breath and react.
It’s just different.