Robert Jones4 said:You have to learn how to embrace yourself first—to truly love who you are—before you can really hold someone else. That relationship you have with yourself is the most important one of all. To me, a hug is the ultimate sign of closeness. Sometimes, it speaks much louder than any words ever could...🙂
I find the concept of loving oneself a bit strange. It feels selfish at times, even if it’s the truth. I've noticed that when you genuinely accept who you are, people notice that confidence and gravitate toward you. It's less about ego and more about self-acceptance.
What isn't real carries no weight, and what is truly real can never be shaken.
The physical eyes are limited to perceiving mere form. They lack the capacity to see Beyond their own nature. They were designed to observe, yet they were built to fixate on mistakes rather than seeing through them. That was their purpose. It’s a strange way to perceive things, really. People often find themselves trapped by illusions, completely unable to truly look deeper. We need to move past that rigid, unyielding block of sin and learn how to see How The body's eyes rest on externals and cannot go Beyond. We also have to Watch How They stop AT nothingness. To this distorted way of seeing things, we only ever perceive the surface—that outer shell that acts as a barrier. What stands between you and the truth is actually the most honest thing you'll ever encounter. But there's a catch: how can sight that remains tethered to the physical world ever hope to grasp it? Does one truly see how they stop AT nothingness, treating it like a solid wall? In my experience, that stagnation isn't accidental; it's being held back by... The structure was designed specifically to ensure that nothing exists beyond the form itself. It’s all about how we perceive things.
These eyes weren't built for true sight, so they’ll never truly see. The very concept they were meant to capture has already slipped away. It isn't about the object itself, but the one who crafted it—because it’s the creator who truly sees what lies beneath the surface. What was its... The creator’s ultimate objective isn't just about sight, though. While the physical eyes serve as our primary tool for perceiving the world, they have their limits. You see, while the body's eyes rest on externals and cannot go Beyond, we often mistake mere observation for true understanding. It isn’t about sight. You have to see How The body's eyes rest on externals and cannot go Beyond. Beyond. Watch How They stop AT nothingness, unable to go beyond the form. What is true meaning? There is nothing quite as blinding as our fixation on physical form. When we focus solely on what we can see, we lose the essence of things. It seems that true understanding has been clouded.
Mistakes are the only things that present themselves in varying shapes and sizes, which is exactly why they’re so effective at deceiving us. You can... The structure needs to change because it simply isn't accurate. Reality doesn't work that way; if something lacks a foundation in truth, it can't possibly exist as a fact. Things have changed. If you look closely at the reasoning, you'll find that if form isn't actually reality, then it has to be something else entirely. It’s an illusion, and it isn't even there to be perceived. If you think you actually see it, you're likely mistaken, because... You’re mistaking illusions for reality. You are witnessing things that simply cannot be true, yet you’re treating them as absolute facts. It’s a classic trap: see How The body's eyes rest on externals and cannot go Beyond. If something isn't actually there, you aren't just seeing things—you're dealing with a fundamental distortion of perception. You're essentially perceiving an illusion. If we consider the nature of truth itself, a question arises: could it actually possess the capacity to recognize its own essence?
I find that God is present in everything within my sight.
Every single day, we follow guidance. We spend our lives listening—whether it’s to our own inner voice, someone else's advice, or a gut feeling deep within us. It's practically hardwired into the human experience; we can't function without it. Of course, people view this concept differently; some see it as a positive force, while others see it as a burden. With following guidance comes responsibility, which is exactly where most people stumble. Most people honestly don't know what they truly want. Personally, I don't subscribe to the idea of sin. Instead, I believe in making mistakes—errors in judgment that we can rectify whenever we choose, or when we happen to be blessed with the clarity of free will and grace. I have a lot of respect for those who change their minds to help others, just as much as I respect those who jump in immediately to assist. I've been in those shoes myself. Usually, it's after you've felt the sting of a bad decision and realize you never want to go through it again that you truly begin to value guidance. This is especially true when dealing with someone more experienced than you, or even a stranger, if you remain open enough to receive wisdom and realize how prudent it is to listen. If you adopt the attitude that you don't need to listen to anyone, eventually, no one will listen to you, and that leads to a downfall. That said, there are moments when you absolutely have to say NO. Like anything else in life, it's all about balance. You have to listen because, truthfully, you don't have all the answers. When you refuse to listen, you end up judging rather than understanding. Naturally, following guidance blindly isn't the ideal way to live. But ultimately, justice prevails, because God sees everything and knows what is in our hearts.
It all comes down to the kind of person you are and the karma you’ve built up. Since you’re leaning into spirituality, just ask God for some guidance. Personally, I’ve always been an outgoing person, and I’ve managed to find my way through life regardless of the circumstances. You need to discover your own unique talents. Just focus on contributing; what you put out into the world eventually finds its way back to you. Honestly, I think your real issue lies elsewhere—with your fears and internal blocks. It’s a mistake to believe a lottery jackpot is the key to happiness. Happiness itself is enough. I never spent much time worrying about winning the lottery or not. The chance to connect with God, or something much larger than yourself—to tap into your inner power and love—is far more significant than money. Of course, money matters for living, but once your basic needs are met, it shouldn't be the priority. At that point, the real work is shedding the fears, anxieties, and limiting beliefs that act as barriers to the love and joy trying to flow through you. That isn't actually difficult; in fact, it's quite simple. What *is* hard is fighting against the natural flow of things. Take small steps. Try to do something new every day. Go against the grain occasionally and perform at least one good deed. Doing three small things like that daily isn't a huge task. Cut out bad influences—toxic social circles, mindless TV shows, or negative music—and you’ll start to see things shift. Even if that means being alone for a while. I spent a long period of time by myself by choice. I had friends and everything, but I stepped away from the crowd to observe, and I still find great value in that today. I constantly set new challenges for myself, and progress happens slowly. It takes years, my friend, to make this feel easy, and if it were easy, everyone would do it. And do you really think you're the only person dreaming of hitting the jackpot?
Grace said:They look for "happiness" through gambling, laziness, and casual hookups—then act surprised when things go wrong.
Personally, I think it's all of the above.😁
Just roll up your sleeves and put in the work, and things will eventually stabilize. Hard workis the best cure for these kinds of issues.
I don't think the problem is what they're doing; the issue is that they've tied their happiness to those specific actions. Real happiness comes from within and then reflects outward. You could stare at a black smudge on a white wall and feel content, or you could gamble or have sex and feel fulfilled—or you could do all those things and still feel miserable, searching for some collective, imaginary reason why. It’s all subjective. There aren't any universal rules for being happy. As long as nobody else is getting hurt, people should be free to do whatever they want. Honestly, who cares...
You're on a genuine spiritual path right now. Just keep gambling—you'll lose everything, and in that emptiness, you might actually find God. It’s quite the opportunity, really. But the trouble is, you're already halfway there because you've become aware of it all... or maybe you haven't yet.
It’s true. Even my sister—along with several others who harbor certain prejudices against spirituality and view it as something disconnected from a higher truth—actually owns one of his books. His approach is incredibly radical and profound. I recall Michael Gonzalez77 mentioning that most people aren't even prepared to listen to such concepts, let alone actually follow them. If anyone wants to test the waters, they should look up his "Awareness" program online; I believe it's even free. They can try practicing it themselves, and then we'll see if it really is just superficial.
Someone who actually went through it described being in the depths of hell—a place far beyond anything our human imagination could conjure. He was an atheist, plain and simple, and basically told God that if He truly existed, He needed to pull him out of that nightmare. In that exact instant, he was met with the Divine, radiating absolute light. Personally, I believe we hold the reins; we choose whether we want love or something else entirely. There is so much more to this than meets the eye, and I truly believe someone could find their way to heaven even without a traditional belief in God. At the end of the day, it’s the intention that counts.
Based on what I’ve learned—though I haven't experienced it firsthand—hell is a reality, and one could potentially spend an eternity there. However, if you have managed to do even one good thing in your lifetime, there remains a possibility for healing.
I had a thought today. We are actually terrified of the unknown. To cope, we construct frameworks of knowledge to act as a sort of survival guide. We use it to define who we are in this moment. While knowledge is useful, I find it can be incredibly limiting. If we aren't out there exploring for ourselves—if we just swallow what others tell us—we end up trapped inside someone else's worldview. We might dismiss our own instincts as foolish, when in reality, they aren't stupid at all; they’re just different, more evolved, or perhaps more creative. As Einstein said, imagination is often more important than knowledge. My fear is being pushed outside the boundaries of what "established" knowledge allows. So many people doubt their own intuition simply because they don't know what else is possible, which keeps them from truly expressing themselves. We fear being ourselves because we haven't fully grasped our own potential, or because we worry about how others will react if we apply what we know in unconventional ways. We wonder if we'll fit in. Does anyone get what I mean? It's that indescribable feeling—the kind you just sense without needing to overthink it. It's the realization that while our minds have limits, we are accepted exactly as we are: perfectly limited and yet entirely whole.
I just finished watching the movie and really enjoyed it. It was truly beautiful seeing what happened to the little boy in heaven. Personally, I hope to experience heaven myself one day!
I’ve been reflecting lately on what it actually is within us that perceives and understands—that "who" is doing the perceiving. I’ve come to realize that the ego’s comprehension, or even the knowledge we acquire, has to be viewed as something entirely separate from our core essence. Who we truly are isn't tied to the ego; that existence simply *is*. It remains indifferent to what we happen to know or fail to grasp. For instance, knowing that 5 times 5 equals 25 doesn't change the fundamental reality of my existence. It’s a trivial fact that holds no weight regarding my being, aside from perhaps shifting some fleeting internal emotions.
Based on my spiritual teachings, conspiracy theories are just programs, no different from any other software. I believe they can become toxic because they are fundamentally rooted in fear. It’s fine if you pass through them as a temporary phase to learn a lesson, but it becomes dangerous when you start treating them like a religion. The allure is strong. In fact, the ego gains a significant amount of satisfaction from this kind of circus. To me, things are actually much simpler, though certainly not easy. If you truly want to change the world, you have to address the ego. We are the ones who blamed ourselves and turned an animalistic nature into an intelligent monster. It is a sad ego playing a game where it can never truly win, because it is both transient and ultimately unreal. The ego needs compassion and understanding; you can see it trying, attempting to fight for what is good, but it remains lost because it lacks the perspective to see the full picture. It is trapped by its own incomplete beliefs and will never be able to grasp the whole truth. Conspiracy theories are just another game played by all of us who are responsible for everything that unfolds. We are all accountable, and the time has come to look at the entire human race with love and compassion rather than pointing fingers. I am not saying bad things don't exist—they always will, because darkness is powerful and seductive, and there will always be temptation. But I believe we should focus on elevating ourselves: our consciousness, our thoughts, our habits, and our faith in our true essence and in the peace and love within us.
crimsonfox26. I remember feeling the exact same way back when my mornings felt just like yours. It’ll come back to you. I honestly think it's just a matter of getting back into the rhythm.
@William Roberts3, did that unknown energy finally kick in for you after what happened? Or was it more of a partial unknown rather than the full thing?
Douglas Edwards said:No, that wasn't it. I actually tried following that whole "positive vibes attract positive outcomes" mantra. For the longest time, my mindset was purely cynical and negative. Now, I feel better with this "new" approach... but honestly? It’s been pretty unsettling. I had this nightmare about an incident from exactly one year ago—happening at the exact same hour, maybe 3 or 4 AM. It was incredibly vivid. Almost visceral. Which is bizarre, because lately, I’ve been focusing my visualizations on success, peace, and good things. And it was working fine. Until this dream hit.
Well, like it said above, you might just be masking it. You might feel better on the surface, but a mask is still a mask, and reality remains reality. Healing is a long road; you can't expect some New Age positive thinking to fix everything in a single year, haha! It might be more helpful to write down your fears and desires on paper and tackle them one by one. You'll find that after some time, your dreams will start changing, and you'll experience true happiness rather than just wearing a mask. Positive thinking is useful, sure, but there is much more to it than that. Good luck!
That’s great, Louise! I actually gave that parking situation a shot myself. But it got me thinking—if everyone starts scrambling for those spots, what happens to all the other parking in the downtown area? On another note, I was reading about how there are four incredibly powerful phrases: "I love you," "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," and "Thank you." For the last few days, I’ve been meditating on these specific words while thinking about the people who cross my mind, and I can honestly say I feel more love and less judgment creeping in.