Posts by mellowwalker15

I’d argue we’ve drifted apart—physically, mentally, and spiritually—all because of this one modern obsession. We think technology gives us constant access to one another, but it's just an illusion of presence. It's purely informational.
The more advanced our tech gets and the more we lean on these digital connections, the less actual intimacy and closeness we have left.

That's where the lack of trust comes from. No real human connection plus zero time spent together equals zero trust.

People like your brother usually step up once they realize they can actually be useful to someone who’s struggling or dependent.
Like looking after kids or taking care of an elderly neighbor who’s been left alone.

It builds confidence. It gives them a whole new perspective on life.

The trick is just finding that one thing where they feel genuinely needed.

ironrider11 said:And of course you would say that; basing everything on yourself and your own "experiences"... thinking the whole damn world works... based on you...? 😁
Because of your own "mess," you still have this perception that everything is... "just the way it is... for me."......

Advice from broken people... nobody does it better....... they know... they just know.......

Real nasty, rude, and arrogant comment. 🙂