Posts by nimblesurfer21

Fair enough—you did admit you aren't always right. Honestly, sometimes you just have to be honest with yourself, right? At the end of the day, what anyone else thinks doesn't really change the facts.

As for me, I've barely been getting any notifications from this thing lately...

Carl Rivera43 said:I do. She hasn't messaged me in over thirteen hours, which honestly isn't even a big deal. I’m not going to chase her down either. I just don't want to deal with someone who's that clingy.

Oh, come on, Carl Rivera43. I’m not going to lecture you, but you really need to wrap your head around a few things—specifically the fact that you can't just go around doing whatever you feel like. You know exactly what I’m talking about.
There needs to be a standard of respect for everyone.

Edit: I’m actually expecting a response in your usual style, since you seem to think your way is the only right way. Ego. LOL.

Joseph Bailey41 said:The closest I've come to dancing lately was roasting peppers for some homemade chili 🙂.

As for that Saleto clone, I wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole. What a joke, seriously. 🙄

Of course you wouldn't—when the sky is already way above your head, you're clearly more of a 🤔Landman at heart, right?

Jose Ward4 said:And what defines "hot" anyway? You talking about the whole package—sexy vibes, great legs, curves in all the right places? To me, she’s got that spark.

Now, personally, I don't think she's skinny. She mentioned being about 20 pounds over her goal weight, so... who cares? She's got a body. That's my take, anyway. I'm not a huge fan of the short hair look, though. It just doesn't do it for me. But honestly? I'd overlook just about anything if the chemistry was there. If she's charming and we click, that's what matters.

Look, Joseph Bailey41 isn't exactly "sexy" when she's typing away on this forum. She needs to be sexy in person. When she's out at a bar, that's when you see it.

Look, if she’s rocking at least a C-cup (though a D would be ideal) and has a decent rear end, then she’s in. Otherwise, I wouldn't even get worked up over her way of talking, but if she actually has the curves to back it up, I could probably look past the attitude.

Andrew Barrett4 said:Hold on, hold on! Are you really basing your standards on body weight here?
Like, what, if someone isn't a solid 220 pounds of pure muscle, they don't count? 🍿 #reversedpsychology

😬

When I think about my ideal type—I'd call them "curvy," if that's the word we're using—it would probably mean someone around 5'7" (which I take as a decent average height) weighing somewhere in the ballpark of 155 to 165 lbs.

Joseph Bailey41 said:So, they're back at it again, picking on the same old target, aren't they? 🤔

We’re all just picking at the same scab—myself included.
But hey, Joseph Bailey41, why don't you tell us about those curves of yours... I get this distinct impression you might be one of those thin, high-strung types—you know, a bit bony and perpetually tense.
Usually, people with that kind of nervous energy tend to be on the leaner side.

I was reading through the beginning of this thread, and honestly, you guys jumped straight to conclusions. It feels like everyone just started spinning these wild, idealized scenarios that have absolutely nothing to do with what's actually happening on the ground. Is it just me, or does it seem like people are just looking for some cheap drama because real life isn't providing enough excitement? It’s a bit much—we see this kind of thing play out on this forum a hundred times already.

What absolute fools. Honestly, she’s exhausting—just completely draining—and I don't want anything to do with her because she isn't my type at all. Now she’s acting all jealous just because I was hanging out with someone else, and it’s becoming this whole exhausting ordeal.

Brandon Foster7 said:But people with a formal diagnosis? They know they’ve got a free pass, so they just do whatever they want without any consequences.

It's easy to claim you're crazy. You just give yourself a little leeway, and some naive idiot will inevitably step up to defend you in court. Besides, the law basically protects them anyway.

If you decided to walk around downtown Washington, D.C., completely naked, you wouldn't exactly be enjoying your freedom for very long—you’d likely find yourself hauled off to a local psychiatric ward before they even finished labeling you as "unstable." Once that happens, I suppose you could do whatever you wanted, right? It just seems to me that this is all coming from a place of jealousy—she's just bitter because she isn't actually out of her mind.🤦🤣

It’s hard for people who haven't actually sat in a doctor's office to truly get it—they haven't been through the diagnostic process, after all. And honestly? It's entirely possible that some of those folks walking around without a formal diagnosis are dealing with much more severe struggles than those of us who already have something documented on paper.
Most people living with a mental health condition aren't a threat to anyone around them; if anything, it's often the ones who don't have a label or a diagnosis that end up being far more volatile.

Maybe he’s just terrified of getting burned again—especially if his wife might have actually blindsided him with an affair. It’s possible he’s built up some kind of barricade now, just hunkering down because he refuses to surrender to anyone.