Grab a test! (For anyone wondering if they're pregnant)
in Pregnancy ·
goldeneagle5 said:So, I’m sitting here wondering—what are actually my chances of getting pregnant right now?! Like, my fertile window is supposed to start today, but even before that (I'm talking about those days leading up to the peak), my guy and I have been sleeping together without any protection because, duh, we're trying for a baby... and then today we did it again, totally unprotected, and he finished inside me... I mean, obviously, I know there's a chance I could conceive, and honestly, a pretty big one, but we've done this exact same thing before and I haven't gotten pregnant yet... can anyone actually give me a straight answer here??? We really, really want this baby, but now I'm low-key freaking out that it might be a struggle since we didn't make it happen 😢
p.s. my mom was telling me how it took her three whole years to finally "make" me, so now I'm just spiraling 🙂
Think of it as a coin flip; it's basically 50/50. Honestly, don't build up too many expectations. If you just relax, things tend to happen much faster. In my experience, my partner and I never forced the issue or obsessed over the timing; we just let nature take its course, and I ended up conceiving after only five months. Take it slow. You're still young, and you have plenty of time on your side.
Good luck..