You want to know how to hook someone and make them yours forever? Just feed their subconscious what it’s actually craving... toss in some drama, a little thrill, maybe a bit of a plot twist. Eventually, you'll just look back and realize how ridiculous the whole thing is—there's really no point in taking any of it seriously.
Total psycho games. Not everyone is wired the same way, and we don't all need these "healthy" relationship standards forced down our throats. Maybe if you stopped making such a huge deal out of everything, you wouldn't be so miserable.
Look, just Google it, find some local help nearby, or honestly? Just vent to someone close to you—or even a stranger, sometimes that actually helps more than you'd think.
You’ve got a massive crowd eyeing your post, but nobody’s actually stepping up to talk to you... people are just lurking out of pure curiosity, I guess. You clearly aren't intense or controversial enough to actually get anyone to bother engaging with you.
He’s playing mind games with you because he knows exactly what makes you tick, and honestly, seeing you crumble under that martyr complex just fuels his ego. He feeds on it. He knows he’s got you on a leash, keeping you at arm's length like a puppet on a string just so he can maintain total control without ever losing his grip. It’s all a game to him.
Look, we’ve all been there, honestly. I once fell head over heels for this guy, but let’s be real—I was actually just obsessed with his grind and how ambitious he was. Then, the moment I leveled up and hit those same milestones myself... boom, I didn't need him anymore. It was like I realized I wasn't even in love with him; I was just crushing on a blueprint of the person I was trying to become. Total amateur hour, right? Just some classic, dramatic heartbreak stuff that everyone goes through if they're actually human. Love is just weird as hell—one person wants to get wrecked, another wants to be coddled, and a third person doesn't want any part of it at all.
I’m not doing this on purpose, I just don't know any other way to be... why would I lay my whole life out for everyone to see? No way in hell, especially since nobody here actually gives a damn anyway. This forum is basically my private lab for checking my own head, analyzing stuff, and learning how to deal with things..
@ambercrane722 you’re spitting straight facts... what else can I even say? At the end of the day, we’re still just flesh and blood humans, even if we’re out here dealing with BPD, bipolar disorder, or narcissism... life dealt us a messy hand we didn't ask for, but we're out here putting in the work to fix ourselves. Thanks for the deep dive in that post.
Facts, thanks guys. This hit home: "powerlessness is the kind of thing that crushes you down to your core and drags you straight into psychosis," which basically means anyone who can't get a grip on themselves is living in a total delusion
"In this frantic, mindless chase for 'power,' I learned how to become an 'illusion'—someone who subtly steers the vibe by just hinting at things; much like a master swordsman who keeps his blade sheathed, offering only a glimpse of what he’s truly capable of, whereas some amateur flaunts his weapon openly, just proving how powerless he really is." And honestly? That's the gospel truth. Yeah, I'll admit it, I'm weak
Look, I’m telling you right now—never, and I mean NEVER, go all in when it comes to love. You can give your absolute everything to your parents, sure, but your partner? Absolutely NOT.
I honestly can’t tell if you’re flying solo or what, but once life throws you a few curveballs, you'll get exactly what I'm talking about. Life is basically just one big game—sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, and frankly, it's pretty damn boring otherwise. As for all this sickness talk, who knows? We’re all a little twisted in our own way, right? Let everyone else go ahead and play house in their perfect little healthy relationships; let 'em enjoy it while it lasts!
Look, I’m talking about that whole game... you know, the power trips, the illusions, and finding something real amidst all that fake stuff... that's what actually gets me hooked.
Everything else is fine, but when people won't shut up about Taylor Swift, some random girl from down the street, or even just some pop star they don't even know personally... like, seriously, what is wrong with you guys? Constant commentary on every little thing—it's exhausting. Honestly, it feels like people just can't find anything better to do with their lives. It really makes me lose faith in humanity.