Posts by slymaker9

Sean Cruz said:Yes. To be perfectly honest, I can't quite recall my exact reasoning when I wrote my previous post. 🤔 🤣

In principle, if a man wants sex without any emotional attachment, from both genders' perspectives, it’s probably most appropriate that he pays a prostitute.

Well, there is quite a lot in what you've written that I disagree with. In truth, I find myself feeling a certain level of empathy for women who sell their bodies... it seems incredibly tragic to me.

It is always difficult to decipher someone else's true intentions, though typically it is easier with more intelligent people.
With a foolish person, you can't deduce anything from their behavior, because they simply act foolishly, and stupidity is infinite.😉

I make an effort to avoid fools—in all aspects of life, including here on this forum. 😁 Actually, I tend to be irritating to most of them, so I don't even have to try. 🤣

Morgan Martin7 said:I could never see myself being a lesbian, but I honestly wouldn't mind playing the role of a man for a little while just to experience what it’s like to be with a woman... though, if the most attractive guy in the world walked through my door, I’m still passing. It’s almost sad how much easier life seems to be when you're a guy—it's a depressing thought, really. I guess we can take a tiny bit of comfort in knowing we're better looking, even if that feels like a pretty weak consolation prize...
Lucky_star 👍 for the reasons

Karen Ortiz83 said:I second everything in that last part! 👍 If I had been given the choice from the start, I would have chosen to be born male. Now, I just wish I could pick my gender based on the situation. 😁

Rebecca Scott3 said:I can see so much more clearly when I step back and just analyze things from this perspective... honestly, there isn't a single day in my life where I feel any need to be a man.
...I am completely content being a woman.

The only thing that really gets under my skin is how women are treated in this society... you know, the whole question of what our actual role is supposed to be. But maybe that’s a whole different conversation... or maybe it isn't.

northerneagle3 said:Look, I love seeing those qualities in men too... but let's be real, it's just a different ballgame. Men and women don't operate on the exact same frequency. Sure, the definition of an emotion or a behavior might be the same—like being honest or being strong—but the way it actually manifests is totally different. That’s the distinction I’m making. It’s about how a woman loves when she loves, how she fights when she defends herself, how she... you know, blah blah blah. It doesn't mean a guy doesn't do those things or that he does them poorly; it's just a fundamentally different way of being.

Do people seriously not get what I'm driving at here? 🙂 How many weak, pathetic women do you know who can't even go to the bathroom without a boyfriend holding their hand, or who just weaponize their looks to get whatever they want, or who think they have a free pass to tear everyone apart just because they're having a bad week, or those "helpless" types who claim they can't do anything on their own? Just little, fragile girls constantly waiting for some hero to swoop in and save them. 🙂
When a woman isn't like that, that's what I actually respect. Because she actually has the choice to be that way or not.

Jamie Jackson3 said:I do agree with you that there are certain advantages to being female—those maternal instincts, for instance, are something a man simply can't experience. However, I’d gladly trade all those perks for the sheer convenience of living in a male body. There seems to be a certain ease to it; things generally feel less painful and life feels a bit more straightforward. Even the draft was abolished, so men aren't forced to follow football if they don't care for it. And regarding the whole child issue... there’s always someone claiming to be the father, but nowadays, you can always settle whether it's the actual parent or just some neighbor with a quick DNA test.😁
It would be wonderful if childbirth wasn't such a massive ordeal and could actually be a painless experience.👍

northerneagle3 said:Lmao, what, am I supposed to go around quoting my specific definition to every single person here? I already laid it out on this board, and even Jamie Jackson3 already quoted it... 🙂

But honestly, if you ask me, being a man or a woman is about way more than just physical traits. But hey, that's just my take... 🙂

brightwolf17 said:I probably wouldn't. For one thing, I can't even wrap my head around what it feels like to walk around with all that extra bulk in your pants—I think I'd be terrified to sit down. Then there's the whole vibe of things like being in the military, playing football, or... well, you know, the other stuff. Plus, dealing with those complicated mother issues seems like way too much drama for me to handle.😍

northerneagle3 said:Maybe for one day... but not more than that. Though, if we're being honest, I actually feel like women have it much better most of the time.. 🙂

I genuinely love being a woman. I love my strength, and I love those specific instincts that kick in—that drive to pour emotion into someone, to protect them, to be their rock, to be completely raw and sincere... just in that uniquely feminine way. I love how women operate. Sure, some women don't get it right, and there are certain types out there who can't even wrap their heads around basic stuff, which honestly makes me embarrassed to even be associated with them, but the real ones? Man, that’s something else entirely..

Sean Cruz said:Still, there ought to be some standard of ethics rather than just trampling over everyone to get ahead—at least, that’s my take.

As for romance, I don't have a clear answer. It's not like I believe women should never take the lead, but things like constant partner-hopping and similar behaviors just don't make sense to me...

Taking initiative isn't the issue; I'm not exactly old-fashioned, 😁 but the point is purpose. Why suppress your own nature or bend yourself to something that makes you miserable or feels wrong? I don't see the utility in it. Take the whole "friends with benefits" thing, for example. Men can hook up without much emotional baggage, but I think women rarely view sex through that exact same lens. To me, that kind of arrangement feels like an artificial construct that leaves nothing but a bitter taste in your mouth. At least, that's how it seems to me; I haven't tried it myself.😁

Why guard yourself? Anyone who can read can learn, and anyone who learns can understand. And from understanding, wonders can be built.

True, but a little caution never hurts. You can never truly know what someone's intentions are. 😉

Regarding manipulators—and let's face it, we're all a bit manipulative, aren't we? 🤷

No, we all have the capacity to be manipulative, but we choose whether or not to act on it.

Not everyone has that level of confidence, though they certainly tend to aim for it. 😁
That confidence is often fueled by women who make themselves constantly available to them. And there are plenty of those.

The whole initiative is the minor issue here. I'm not particularly traditional, 😁 but the point is about purpose. Why suppress your own nature and adapt to something that makes you unhappy or feels wrong? I don't see the utility in things like the infamous "friends with benefits" arrangement. Men can engage in sex without heavy emotions, but I think women who view sex the same way are rare. To me, that kind of relationship feels like an artificial construct that usually leaves a bitter taste in your mouth. At least, that's how it seems to me; I haven't tried it myself. 😁

True, but a little caution doesn't hurt. You can never truly know someone's intentions. 😉

No, we all have the potential to be manipulators, but we choose whether or not to be.

Sean Cruz said:I agree, though I’m not a fan of how many women try to "equalize" themselves by adopting male mindsets and behaviors—primarily in their careers and relationships. Honestly, finding that middle ground is a difficult balancing act.

Take the whole surname issue. I could get married and keep my own last name; society might not look too kindly on it, but today, I actually have the option to make that choice.
Every woman who does so helps sensitize society to that possibility.

I don't know; personally, my last name is the least important thing when it comes to "proving" anything, even if I see younger generations being very fixated on it. To me, the connection between two people and their willingness to understand one another matters much more. But the most vital part is that women have access to education and are no longer viewed merely as "child-bearing machines." When I think about the status of women during the Middle Ages, it honestly gives me chills. I wouldn't wish that era on anyone, even though I wouldn't call myself a "modernist" regarding my views on life.

Men and women aren't identical, that's true, but then again, humans in general aren't equal (some are taller, some more attractive, some smarter, some shorter, some less capable...); we are all born with our own unique traits.
We should be treated with equality while still respecting those individual differences.
Society will gradually become more receptive to this.

Ugh, there is so much to unpack here, but I don't have the bandwidth for a deep dive right now, so I'll leave that for another time.

True mathematical equality, denoted by an "=", will never exist among people because we are all far too diverse in our inherent characteristics.

I agree with this. However, the paradox is that as different as we are, we are also remarkably similar. 🙂

I agree; fortunately or unfortunately for women, men generally struggle more with interpreting non-verbal communication.😉

Yes, those who "know how to read the room" are rare. You have to watch out for them. 😁

I personally find last names to be the least important factor in proving anything, even if younger generations seem obsessed with them. To me, the connection between two people and their willingness to understand one another matters much more. Most importantly, women now have access to education and aren't just viewed as "child-bearing machines." Thinking about the status of women in the Middle Ages gives me chills. I wouldn't want to have lived through that era, even if I don't consider myself strictly "modern."

I agree. However, the paradox is that as different as we are, we are also incredibly similar. 🙂

Yes, those who truly "know how to read" are rare. You have to watch out for them. 😁

Lucky_star;27987289 said:I voted for the permanent option, even though those who chose the three-month plan seem smarter since they can easily extend it if they actually like the results. After all, there's no guarantee we'll even enjoy it.🤷
I stated this in the thread, and here are my reasons:

being able to walk around shirtless in the summer

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not having cellulite

It isn't guaranteed—the odds are significantly lower—but men deal with cellulite and stretch marks too.

not having to worry about hair removal

You don't have to do it if you don't want to, and you certainly don't have to shave your face.

being able to commit traffic violations as much as I want without people thinking I'm just some bad driver

Would you rather they think you're just an selfish jerk who puts yourself and others in danger?😕

not being asked when I'm getting married all the time

They pressure single men too, albeit less frequently, and life is generally easier for women who never marry than it is for men who never marry.

being able to have children WHEN I want (like after 40) instead of only while I'm young😁

For women, there is a medical window around age 37, after which the risk of complications increases; for men, the risks rise after 45. In both cases, amniocentesis becomes a factor. The combined age of the parents matters as well.
Essentially, biological risks increase with age for both men and women.
If you find a father who is 25 when you are 40, your chances of a healthy baby remain high.🙂

not having heavy periods, avoiding ruined vacations/holidays due to flow issues, and skipping the nausea, pain, bleeding, discharges, pills, injections, and swollen breasts

That would be a dream.

I wish I didn't have to deal with pregnancy and childbirth, and that I didn't end up feeling physically wrecked and torn apart afterward.

Well, you don't have to.
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so nobody gets annoyed when I stay late at the office

They get annoyed at men too.

to find a woman who will pick up my laundry for free without being my mother😁

That doesn't work for all guys.😉

to finally understand what the appeal of beer actually is

I figured that out, even as a woman.

to know what they're talking about in the men's locker rooms and bathrooms

No complaints here.

to have a higher salary

People talk about this a lot; it might actually be true for high-level positions, though I don't know for certain.

so I don't constantly have to prove myself

Everyone has to constantly prove themselves; that's just how capitalism sets the rules of the game.

so construction workers don't turn their heads and catcall me
so I can keep my maiden name through marriage without societal judgment
to be treated with more respect

I have no objections to any of these.

to be able to walk like a normal human being when I go out without wrecking my hips, lower back, and feet in heels

Well, you can.

to be able to do absolutely nothing all day except jerk off and complain about how hard life is
to be able to completely let myself go, look messy, and still charm the most beautiful women because everyone knows women go for personality and soul rather than just looks😛

🤣🤣🤣

Sean Cruz said:The real question is whether those changes were actually for the better. Sure, women have gained certain rights, but fundamentally, nothing has truly changed because you can't change nature. Biological facts remain what they are. What bothers me is how centuries of humiliation within this modern social order have left women frustrated, causing them to lose a part of their feminine essence. To me, fighting for absolute equality feels somewhat futile, simply because men and women aren't identical. Don't get me wrong—I don't view women as "lesser beings" compared to men—it just seems pointless to chase an equality that we can never biologically achieve.

I suppose I’d actually like to experience those perks—and perhaps even some of the drawbacks—for myself. Even men deal with their own set of pressures.

I understand that, but it’s never been something I wanted. I remember when all my friends were talking about it back in middle school, and honestly, the whole idea felt completely foreign to me.🤷

For instance, imagine you're in a job interview with a beautiful woman and you start getting an erection; you really have to try and focus.🤣 🙈

That is definitely something I would prefer to avoid experiencing. 😁 Though, I suspect a perceptive man wouldn't miss a woman's reaction in that reverse scenario. 😉

I'm also curious about how a person's height affects others and their behavior.

There is definitely something to that. I’ve never been attracted to shorter men. And personally, I find shorter women rather unappealing too. 🤔 Taller people just make a stronger impression on me. 😁

That is definitely something I would never want to experience. 😁 Then again, an observant man will always be able to read a woman's reaction, even when the roles are reversed. 😉

I suppose there’s some truth to that. I’ve never been particularly attracted to shorter men. To be honest, I find shorter women just as unappealing. 🤔 I find that taller people tend to make a better impression on me. 😁

Arthur Kim74 said:What do you mean by height and its impact on behavior?

Emily Collins14 said:Just speaking from a guy's perspective here... honestly, it feels great.😁 Especially if you're out in nature and can just "go" wherever. It's actually pretty fun. 😁

But yeah, life is definitely easier for us in a lot of ways... 😁

Henry Williams said:Honestly, women aren't complicated at all. That's probably one of the biggest myths ever created.
I seriously don't see why people think women are such a massive headache. It's actually the exact opposite.
It feels like you guys are just focusing on some really shallow, silly nonsense.

Sean Cruz said:Why is it that women typically want to go through the Dura? You remember Serena from the story "Dura," don't you? 😢

Men have it significantly easier navigating almost every facet of life. Women often find themselves wishing they could simply live as men, driven by both biological advantages and the sheer social ease that comes with it.

Arthur Kim74 said:It would be really fascinating if those ladies who voted saying they’d want to be men permanently would just share a little bit about what's driving that feeling...

Arthur Kim74 said:Honestly, I just feel perfectly comfortable being a woman...
I don't really have any desire to understand what it's like to be a man, because we're just different, and I think there's something beautiful about that distinction, so I'd rather not go digging into those secrets or differences...
It just feels more right this way for me...😍

Arthur Kim74 said:Nah.
I’m usually pretty curious about stuff, but this just doesn't really grab my attention...