Posts by velvetstag31

Honestly, my selfish husband is driving me absolutely insane 😢
It’s like he’s suddenly terrified that his entire life is going to flip upside down in two months, so now he’s acting like a total teenager... Every single second he isn't working, he's out hitting the bars with some group of guys, and every weekend is just one long booze fest—actually, forget the weekend, he’s out drinking on Wednesdays or Thursdays or whenever the hell he feels like it! Meanwhile, I’m just sitting here at home, constantly alone, alone, and more alone... When I try to call him out on it, he just snaps that he doesn't owe me any explanations and that the real issue is me being "unable to handle" him having fun. Oh yeah, sure, that's definitely the problem! And what about our kid having an alcoholic father? That doesn't even cross his mind! Total idiot!!!!!!!!! This whole thing has been going on for months now, and I honestly have no clue how to fix this mess. Talking to him is basically useless because somehow, by the end of the conversation, everything is always somehow my fault. Apparently, I’m not allowed to get pissed off just because he started acting like he's twenty years old again. I'm supposed to just be happy and cheerful while he lives it up with his social life. His big excuse is that work is stressing him out and he needs an "outlet"... what a perfect little marriage we have! If I wasn't expecting a baby... man... Why do people change so drastically overnight? And why do they become so incredibly selfish and irresponsible? 😢

It seriously drives me insane when people start interrogating me about why I didn't wait for a permanent job or why on earth I decided to get pregnant while I'm between gigs. I’ve caught myself actually trying to justify my life choices more times than I care to admit, but honestly, I'm done with that... It took me a minute to realize how incredibly rude it is to dig that deep into someone else's private business, like, why do you even care about my timing?!? Because it happened when it happened, okay! That's why! Ugh...

Reading through these threads just makes my skin crawl with all these mindless jabs and people who clearly have zero manners. And no, it's not because I'm being overly sensitive 🙂

We’re just gonna grab the cookies and cake from Mus... honestly, I’m way more into their cookies than the ones at Absum because they aren't these massive, overwhelming slabs; the pieces at Absum are always so huge that looking at them alone makes me lose my appetite before I even start eating. Now, don't get me wrong, the cake at Absum is actually better—I tried their Black Forest and it was killer, not all dry and crumbly like most places do... The cake at Mus is decent enough, but nothing to write home about. In the end, the cookies won us over so we went with Mus. Plus, the owner is super friendly and easy to talk to when you're trying to coordinate everything, which was a huge factor for me... I've got round tables set up in the hall, so I'm planning on getting a kilo per table—basically half a kilo for each side—since there'll be about 7 to 9 people sitting at each one. Hopefully, that ratio works out okay...