casualtiger2 said:You can't escape a diversity of thought. It's human nature—people are obsessed with their favorite tool, the intellect, and being naturally ego-driven, they insist their view of the world is the only correct one.
From a spiritual angle, the answer is simple: more love, and moving your sense of identity away from just your emotions and thoughts.
But practically speaking, the real issue is how we solve this at a societal level—politically.
That would mean giving (almost) every viewpoint and worldview a seat at the table in shaping society. Of course, that leads to an endless series of compromises where no single group gets everything they want
(not even the wealthiest among us), but everyone walks away with something—kind of like how direct democracy works.
One mistake we make, both individually and as a nation, is treating tolerance as an absolute principle. Just like freedom doesn't mean you can do whatever you want, tolerance shouldn't be a free pass for intolerant views, beliefs, or actions.
Philosophy loves to ask, "What would a perfect society look like?"
The answer is easy: just find enough perfect people—free, tolerant, smart, and kind-hearted... 😍
I’d actually take a completely different approach here. To me, a perfect society isn't one that happens to contain great people; it’s a society dedicated to helping people *become* those individuals. None of us were born this way. For example, if my five-year-old neighbor comes over and starts showing off her collection of toy chickens, ducks, or even her little plastic tractor, I find it adorable because it’s just a normal stage of growing up. But if a fifty-year-old started acting like that, I’d be seriously concerned about their mental state. I love seeing a twelve-year-old beam with pride over a good grade or a soccer goal, but when adults get that wrapped up in their own egos, it feels a bit off. I also remember watching this one TV show where high schoolers had these intense, passionate debates about everything under the sun, and it felt so much more meaningful than the modern trend of people spending money to watch two old guys argue on an internet stream—or worse, seeing an adult think they've found purpose by tearing someone down on a message board.
I get it, though. Most of us have a little glitch in our programming that makes us waste precious time on these kinds of nonsense activities (which are really just various ways of feeding the ego) instead of focusing on something creative, spiritual, or educational that benefits everyone, including ourselves. We aren't perfect, and honestly, we probably never will be. We don't agree on everything, and frankly, we shouldn't. If we did, we wouldn't have the friction needed to push one another to grow, improve, or collaborate. Without that drive, there would be no reason to rely on anyone else, let alone live together in a community.
I've been wrestling with a bit of a dilemma lately, which ties back into this theme... Is it even moral to strive for transcendence when most of humanity hasn't even reached basic self-actualization yet? It’s not just about individual flaws; it’s that as a society, we seem to value all the wrong things. We fight over them as if they're finite resources—as if having more money, success, or freedom somehow means there's less left for everyone else. Is it right to rise above all that and leave everyone else behind in the dust? Or should we reach back and pull them up with us? And how do you do that without losing your own footing? 😬