Is it just me, or does it feel weird when a show completely ditches its original atmosphere for something totally different? I love a good genre pivot, but sometimes it feels like they're just chasing a trend instead of sticking to the soul of the source material. Does anyone else find it jarring when a dark series suddenly goes full musical?
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How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Honestly, my advice is to stop obsessing over those gossip sites and tabloids.
If I found myself in a situation like yours, I’d reach out to someone—anyone, really—who has shown me even a modicum of kindness in the past. You can't honestly claim there isn't a single person in your immediate circle who would listen. Just be direct. Open up. You truly have nothing to lose by being vulnerable.
I remember my time at State University; I didn't know a soul. I was profoundly lonely and, quite predictably, sat there waiting for someone to approach me. Of course, nobody did. Weeks drifted by before I finally had a reality check and realized I had to be the one to initiate contact. I started with the most trivial, mundane questions imaginable—just mindless small talk—and slowly, bit by bit, built connections. Now, I know I have far too many 🙂 acquaintances from those early days, and I don't associate with them anymore, but they were the bridge to meeting the wonderful people in my life today. There is always a way forward; you simply have to be the one to find it.
There is absolutely nothing to lose.
If I found myself in a situation like yours, I’d reach out to someone—anyone, really—who has shown me even a modicum of kindness in the past. You can't honestly claim there isn't a single person in your immediate circle who would listen. Just be direct. Open up. You truly have nothing to lose by being vulnerable.
I remember my time at State University; I didn't know a soul. I was profoundly lonely and, quite predictably, sat there waiting for someone to approach me. Of course, nobody did. Weeks drifted by before I finally had a reality check and realized I had to be the one to initiate contact. I started with the most trivial, mundane questions imaginable—just mindless small talk—and slowly, bit by bit, built connections. Now, I know I have far too many 🙂 acquaintances from those early days, and I don't associate with them anymore, but they were the bridge to meeting the wonderful people in my life today. There is always a way forward; you simply have to be the one to find it.
There is absolutely nothing to lose.
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Dana Clark64 said:I'm not trying, because I don't have the time or the means..
Regarding Anti-depresiv: An acquaintance of mine is in the exact same boat. He's been on Anti-depresiv for about six months now, and it just dug him into an even deeper hole. That's why I'm wary. From what I hear, most people don't even react to them..
It really depends on which one you are talking about. Usually, a patient starts therapy with one option, and if it doesn't yield results, they switch to another. Every individual reacts to a specific medication differently.
I am at a loss as to what else I could possibly say to you. It feels as though you aren't actually seeking a way out; every suggestion I offer is met with "I can't" or "I don't have the time."
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
When you're working weekends, do you actually interact with people? Do you make an effort to meet anyone new, or do you just stay in your own bubble?
I suggest you browse some other threads on this forum. You'll see how many people are wrestling with incredibly heavy life circumstances, yet they persevere. They push through, they manage, and eventually, things get better.
There is also a resource called psychotherapy. Take the money you earn on your own and invest it in professional counseling. No one can force you to take medication against your will, but believe me, these professionals are trained to dig up underlying issues you might not even realize exist, and they can truly help.
By the way, I personally know individuals who were on heavy Anti-depresiv medications for years and now live completely normal lives; they simply wanted to find their footing again, and they did. There is absolutely no shame in that. In today's world, it feels like every third person has used something at some point to deal with anxiety, depression, or stress. That’s just the reality of modern life.
I suggest you browse some other threads on this forum. You'll see how many people are wrestling with incredibly heavy life circumstances, yet they persevere. They push through, they manage, and eventually, things get better.
There is also a resource called psychotherapy. Take the money you earn on your own and invest it in professional counseling. No one can force you to take medication against your will, but believe me, these professionals are trained to dig up underlying issues you might not even realize exist, and they can truly help.
By the way, I personally know individuals who were on heavy Anti-depresiv medications for years and now live completely normal lives; they simply wanted to find their footing again, and they did. There is absolutely no shame in that. In today's world, it feels like every third person has used something at some point to deal with anxiety, depression, or stress. That’s just the reality of modern life.
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
I need you to replicate that initial thread regarding depression and general apathy.
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How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
I also hail from some tiny, nowhere town, and honestly, I used to dread the idea of moving to Chicago. In the beginning, I absolutely detested the city. But now that I’m heading back to my quiet little corner of the world, I can hardly believe I once fought so hard to leave. There's a certain peace in starting over—a fresh, college-age perspective where you aren't constantly under the microscope. No more endless gossip or everyone knowing your business before you even do.
And frankly, I am at a loss as to how to offer you any comfort. You started this thread claiming you want to break your bad habits, yet here you are, acting as if everything is perfectly fine. How does that work?
And frankly, I am at a loss as to how to offer you any comfort. You started this thread claiming you want to break your bad habits, yet here you are, acting as if everything is perfectly fine. How does that work?
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
If you’re living in a major metropolitan area, you can actually manage to fund your college years on your own since you won't be burdened by the cost of groceries or rent. But let’s be realistic—you know how the game works. Without the right connections, you're essentially standing still.
I realize high school graduation feels like a total disaster and everything seems insurmountable, but passing isn't impossible. Look into switching to a less demanding major, do your research, and consider making a clean break. Start over with people who don't carry any preconceived notions about who you used to be.
To be perfectly honest, I haven't quite figured out how to navigate this world either. Dealing with injustice and constant obstacles is exhausting. However, I have made a conscious effort to surround myself with decent people; I prioritize nurturing those friendships because they make the weight of everything much easier to bear. Even now, as I find myself in the middle of my own crisis, I keep pushing forward. History shows us that after every low point, a better season eventually arrives. It always does.
The question is: do you actually want a better life? Do you have the stamina left to fight for it? Do you truly possess the will to build something better for yourself?
I realize high school graduation feels like a total disaster and everything seems insurmountable, but passing isn't impossible. Look into switching to a less demanding major, do your research, and consider making a clean break. Start over with people who don't carry any preconceived notions about who you used to be.
To be perfectly honest, I haven't quite figured out how to navigate this world either. Dealing with injustice and constant obstacles is exhausting. However, I have made a conscious effort to surround myself with decent people; I prioritize nurturing those friendships because they make the weight of everything much easier to bear. Even now, as I find myself in the middle of my own crisis, I keep pushing forward. History shows us that after every low point, a better season eventually arrives. It always does.
The question is: do you actually want a better life? Do you have the stamina left to fight for it? Do you truly possess the will to build something better for yourself?
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Dana Clark64 said:Nothing.
18 and a half.
None.
Well, being eighteen and a half isn't a total loss, I suppose.🙂
High school? Are you thinking about college?
I went through my own share of identity crises at that age. A lot of us stumble through that phase involving alcohol or other vices; it’s a common part of finding your footing. Once you hit that point where you realize you've reached rock bottom, things tend to stabilize—provided you actually have the desire to change. Try this: grab a piece of paper and write out every year from now until, say, seventy. Visualize each one of those years and consider how much life is still ahead of you and everything you can still accomplish. From my own experience, I can tell you it is better to navigate these storms now while you're young, rather than facing them later when the stakes are higher. I truly hope you can find some connection with someone. Don't be too ashamed to open up to people about your struggles or reach out for support. We are all human, we all carry our own burdens, and we rely on each other to keep moving forward.
How do I kick my bad habits?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
I don’t know the specifics of your current situation—your age, your career path, or what your social life looks like right now...
However, many individuals who are considered highly successful today have navigated through similar periods of profound crisis.
Particularly in this modern era, defined by a relentless pace, constant stress, and crushing expectations, it is easy for a person to lose their sense of self, reach a breaking point, or simply lose their way entirely...
For the time being, the most critical step is to be honest with yourself about the struggle you are facing. Once you acknowledge it, you should open up to those in your life whom you truly trust. Find something—even if it is just a minor interest—that brings you a flicker of joy and commit yourself to it. Make an effort to socialize; retreating into isolation and staying cooped up in your apartment will only cause you to sink deeper. If that path doesn't work, there are always professionals available who specialize in pulling people out of even the darkest crises; you simply need the willpower and the strength to decide that you want things to get better.
However, many individuals who are considered highly successful today have navigated through similar periods of profound crisis.
Particularly in this modern era, defined by a relentless pace, constant stress, and crushing expectations, it is easy for a person to lose their sense of self, reach a breaking point, or simply lose their way entirely...
For the time being, the most critical step is to be honest with yourself about the struggle you are facing. Once you acknowledge it, you should open up to those in your life whom you truly trust. Find something—even if it is just a minor interest—that brings you a flicker of joy and commit yourself to it. Make an effort to socialize; retreating into isolation and staying cooped up in your apartment will only cause you to sink deeper. If that path doesn't work, there are always professionals available who specialize in pulling people out of even the darkest crises; you simply need the willpower and the strength to decide that you want things to get better.