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I gave you my honest take over in that other thread, didn't I? To sum it all up; the issue lies entirely with you. Either learn to adapt or just keep whining...👍
You can always defend yourself with some valium 😘
I’d honestly suggest finding a psychiatrist who won't sit there judging you, but will instead actually provide the kind of help you need...👍
Chloe Richardson76 said:Could you provide a more detailed explanation as to why we should be avoiding them altogether?
Loan sharks and environmentalists
Translation: criminals and murderers
It’s a bit of a tricky question, but I’ll give you the straightforward answer;
There are certain things in life where no amount of willpower or decision-making can tilt the scales in your favor. For instance, you can't just "decide" to find a million dollars sitting on your doorstep tomorrow morning. Generally speaking, it’s best not to waste your mental energy stressing over variables completely outside your control—things like a massive traffic jam on the I-95, a sudden thunderstorm, or whatever else the universe throws at you...
However, the things that you actually can improve through sheer agency will only change if you make the call and follow through. It takes a certain level of grit to walk away from a job and start hunting for something better. But honestly, taking that risk is a much better bet than spending the next ten years haunted by the endless cycle of "what if..."
In short: without making a definitive choice, there is absolutely zero chance of progress or change, but once you make that "decision," you finally have a fighting chance. 👍