Posts by James Murphy92

Sorry about the bolding (and the shouting!), I totally forgot how this works... It's been ages since I've spent any time on forums. Honestly, I'm a pretty peaceful person, and I'm just so grateful for all this amazing help! I tried looking things up online myself, but I wasn't really finding what I needed. I think I'll just stick to your advice instead. Thanks so much!😛🙂

Dennis Long13 said:Man, why is everything in bold? Look, you could buy the manual, but it costs an absolute fortune— $223 one version is one price, another is $880, so honestly, just find something online instead.

http://www.google.com/search?client=...utf-8&oe=utf-8 You can find tons of tutorials on different sites here.

Trying to learn from a quick guide is kind of pointless anyway because the software is just too complex. It's way better to tackle it piece by piece—like learning selection tools, color correction, layers, filters, retouching, etc. Plus, you'll actually get more out of it if you learn using English resources, since it helps you practice the language at the same time.

You can check here: http://hr.diplodocs.com/414159.php?k...T%20SHOP%20PRO there are some guides available, though I'm not sure how helpful they are or which version they cover.

P.S. Before posting questions like this next time, try typing the exact question into Google or another search engine. For example, "Adobe Photoshop tutorials." You'll be surprised how many answers pop right up...

If I were you, I'd start with this: http://www.grafx-design.com/psp_tut.html It's broken down into chapters.

Sandra Parker3 said:But you're really going there...

If his eyes are wandering, maybe he's just about to snap.
If he's swallowing hard, maybe his throat just hurts.

And this is all supposed to be nonverbal communication: 🙂

So what does that actually mean?

Do I have big ears?
A long tongue?
Or am I just being submissive?

It means you aren't being serious!

Usually, you can spot insecurity most clearly when someone is fidgeting with their fingers or tucking one thumb inside their other fist, kind of shrinking into themselves.

But honestly, my favorite kind of communication is when I’m looking at the back of someone's head and I just say, "Hey, turn around!" and they actually do. That internal command can be incredibly powerful and suggestive. You can even do it with animals (I've actually tried it and it worked!). My absolute dream form of communication is meeting someone where we can sit in silence for ages and still feel like everything has been said—that pure intuitive vibe is the strongest connection there is!🙄

Jason Sanchez3 said:I’m not sure if anyone will get this, or even believe me. I really hope there are others out there like me because I could use some advice...
Ever since I was a little girl, I felt everything. I felt the whole world and everyone around me. I wasn't exactly a "typical" kid—didn't really follow the rules or go with the crowd, and I never judged other kids. I've always just been... different.
I eventually realized I have incredibly sharp intuition and high intelligence. My brain connects dots and processes info way faster than most people. I can see a problem from every possible angle instantly and pick the most realistic path based on my gut feeling.
I didn't have many friends back then. Crowds weren't my thing, and honestly, people didn't always like me because I'm too honest. Most people are a little afraid of the truth. I was pretty withdrawn and shy. But when I turned 16, I decided to completely reinvent myself—physically and personality-wise. I wanted to be strong and magnetic. Through a lot of hard work, I did it. I built myself into a complete person. Since 16, I've spent my time observing and analyzing people, sharpening that intuition and mental processing speed even more. But now, I've hit a bit of a breaking point...

I've become hyper-sensitive to other people's pain and emotions. I can feel the energy someone is radiating just by being near them, and I can read non-verbal cues perfectly. When I'm with someone—and this applies to everyone, but especially my partner—I find it impossible to hurt them or be selfish. I can't say the wrong thing because I already know exactly how they'll feel. I can't make mistakes because I'm too aware of their fears. I can't even afford to be a flawed human being.😢 - basically, I end up knowing a person better than they know themselves in such a short time.

I'm actually great at reading and influencing people, which is helpful for my career, though I'm totally sincere and rarely use it that way.

Sometimes I'll burst into tears over a news article because I feel the tragedy in the story so deeply. Yet, at the same time, I stay completely cold toward anything exaggerated or fake. If it isn't real, I don't feel it.

Some days, I feel like a robot. My brain is constantly bombarded by emotions and data, all being analyzed and processed. I often finish people's sentences before they even get them out. I remember everything—every word said, what I said, where we were, and exactly how everyone was reacting in that moment.

It's perfect sometimes, but other times... I just want it all to stop.😢 I feel like I'm going to lose my mind.

I'd really love to hear your thoughts or if you've experienced anything similar.

😛 I truly believe you have a crystal-clear aura, which is why you're so sensitive and receptive. You might actually make an incredible healer, using these gifts for something meaningful. Either way, you seem like a positive person with an open heart—like your heart chakra and solar plexus are wide open. But the most important thing is to engage in something tangible, maybe a physical job or hobby, just to stay "grounded" and healthy. It sounds like you have massive emotional intelligence, and usually, that goes hand-in-hand with high cognitive intelligence. 🙂 Sometimes carrying that level of sensitivity is heavy, so it's vital to stay rooted in reality and keep your feet firmly planted in everyday life! Wishing you the best!👍

Douglas Brown4 said:What you have is called INTELLIGENCE.
As for what you're asking about—that thing called "emotional intelligence"—it is a bit like the Mormons in the USA:
Americans are so frustrated by the fact that they don't have an indigenous religion that they had to go ahead and invent one.
It's the same with foolish people. They want to be intelligent too. Various managers, scammers, bar owners... they all possess a very low form of intelligence known as PEASANT CUNNING.
Well, in modern times, with these trends where everyone wants to feel special—even though most people can't move an inch away from their herd—they invented the concept of EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE and stuffed their own CUNNING into it.
Basically, they pitted it against actual INTELLIGENCE and started claiming it is vaznij. So, the EQ of some dart player in a pub, or someone like Franc Ozbolt or Cinober, is supposedly more important than the IQ of Albert Einstein.
And I guess it will stay that way as long as American managers keep writing their life essays instead of focusing on what they actually know how to do: stealing.

🤣 Man, you really went off the deep end there! Emotional intelligence is a real, measurable fact—at least for anyone who actually possesses it!👍